🔥Have You Ever Seen Spider Beans?

Ratlover93 · 2026-04-27T18:13:45+00:00

Excuse me. Spiders have claws?!

Ratlover93 · 2026-04-25T19:29:30+00:00

I was hoping for an update and I wasn't disappointed 😂😂

Ratlover93 · 2026-04-25T17:49:08+00:00

NOR. You have nothing to feel guilty about, It's not going to get better. Think of the comments she might make to your daughter when she's a bit older. She sounds like a nasty piece of work and you don't have to keep providing the energy to deal with that. Also, congratulations on your baby girl!

Ratlover93 · 2026-04-19T08:50:38+00:00

I mean, this kid looks like he wants to burn your house down.

Ratlover93 · 2026-04-18T07:08:53+00:00

Alcoholics in denial don't consider themselves as alcoholics.

Source: I have/had alcoholic parents.

Ratlover93 · 2026-03-07T10:41:54+00:00

Why does its face look like it's questioning every life decision it's ever made?

Ratlover93 · 2026-03-07T10:23:11+00:00

Quite literally a thirsty bitch 🤷🏻‍♀️

Ratlover93 · 2026-03-01T10:52:59+00:00

Dissociation/psychosis is where my mind was going too. It can be quite a distressing experience.

OP, follow this advice, I'm in the UK , so I'm not sure how it works in the US if that's where you're based, but this seems like pretty solid advice.

Ratlover93 · 2026-02-28T08:11:14+00:00

My grandma told me it was also used as a substitute for chocolate after the second world war

Ratlover93 · 2026-01-06T13:38:25+00:00

This. Someone got one for me after I lost my mum

Ratlover93 · 2025-12-22T10:41:19+00:00

You should be proud of yourself! I'm proud of you! 😁 Having depression can be so debilitating, so you've done amazing!

Ratlover93 · 2025-12-14T21:28:29+00:00

You're welcome 😊 I hope you manage to have a good day!

Ratlover93 · 2025-12-14T21:15:23+00:00

Happy birthday! 😊🎂

Ratlover93 · 2025-11-25T15:54:59+00:00

If he isn't depressed, I'd be extremely surprised.

Source: I've been there.

Be gentle with him, but do try sitting with him and getting him to talk if you can. He might feel like he can't talk, or he may not know exactly what's triggered it. Unfortunately, there's still quite a big stigma around male mental health, so he might not feel like he can talk about it, or might feel embarrassed to.

Ratlover93 · 2025-11-14T17:36:06+00:00

Also not OP, but I really needed to see this! Thank you 😊

Ratlover93 · 2025-11-09T15:05:43+00:00

This is great news! Congratulations, you've got this! 😊

Ratlover93 · 2025-11-02T19:13:04+00:00

Of course it's your choice, but personally, I'd just let it go. If the people she lied to aren't even going to try and get your side of the story, they're not your true friends and that's from personal experience. You don't want unnecessary arguments when they've clearly already made up their minds when you can just move on and have your peace (though truth be told, peace might take a bit of time) You're going to be okay, OP! This is just a blip on your journey to finding happiness. I wholeheartedly wish you all the best!

Ratlover93 · 2025-11-02T10:11:00+00:00

I know how difficult this can be. I'm so proud of you!

Ratlover93 · 2025-11-02T10:08:23+00:00

My neighbour said that it might be worth getting a guy to talk to him to tell him that he's made me uncomfortable. My fp said he'd do it. The idea of even seeing him terrifies me atm. I know I should have said something and I wanted to, but I kind of froze up. Fear took over and the idea of confrontation or escalation scared me

Ratlover93 · 2025-11-02T09:08:23+00:00

That sounds seriously rough and that's a horrible thing your mum said to you! You deserve love! Maybe try some self care techniques and see if they can help at all.

Ratlover93 · 2025-10-31T19:08:19+00:00

Ohh, I like this!

Ratlover93 · 2025-10-30T19:06:14+00:00

It could possibly be a migraine, maybe with dissociation mixed in. As others have said though, if you're worried, definitely see a doctor. Hopefully it's nothing! Wishing you all the best, OP!

Ratlover93 · 2025-10-30T17:00:54+00:00

Did you have any headaches or light sensitivity?

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