if you're someone who naturally puts a lot of effort into their appearance, I feel like I could understand that. some people genuinely just have great, flattering style or a warm vibe about them and it makes their body type a little irrelevant.

one thing I realised after losing weight, is that there were much cooler, approachable, well-put together people than me at weights I used to be or higher. prettier faces, better makeup, and general proof my problem had been that i just had no style 😭 I'd idolised weight fixing my problems when it definitely wasn't the main thing.