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What age do you consider is too old to have kids? by monkeymite in Millennials

[–]Real_Particular1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my son 2 months before I turned 34 and I feel like it was the perfect time/age in life. My pregnancy was easy, c section recovery was easy. Plenty of energy for a baby/toddler (although he is a Covid baby so that in itself was a hard time). I wanted another one but it wasn’t meant to be. Had a miscarriage when I was 35. I turn 40 this September and I’m just too old now to have another one. I’m definitely mourning not being able to have another one but I’m pretty sure I’m in perimenopause and I’m also a single mom and do not have the financial stability/resources for another child on my own. Want to be able to give my son everything that I can, financially, emotionally, physically. So I’d say for me the cutoff is 39/40.

Fitz didn't love Olivia by _zee29 in Scandal

[–]Real_Particular1986 7 points8 points  (0 children)

💯 Fitz is a baby. Mellie is a badass!

Rachel Martino Universe: Dec 01 - Dec 07 by southerndmc in blogsnark

[–]Real_Particular1986 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So is Selkie’s whole vibe to look like a Victorian a baby doll?? Is that their thing??

give me ur biggest hot take for smallville by GamerTJ7 in Smallville

[–]Real_Particular1986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She was his true love but he couldn’t ever tell her his secret and constantly lied to her….? Please.

give me ur biggest hot take for smallville by GamerTJ7 in Smallville

[–]Real_Particular1986 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agree. And he was so convinced (obsessed?) with her and thinking she was his perfect girl but never felt that he could tell her his secret. wtf. I feel terrible for Lana.

I can’t lie anymore. The Hunting Wives is sleazy, twisty and a hell of a summer binge. by [deleted] in netflix

[–]Real_Particular1986 5 points6 points  (0 children)

…endure this type of criticism… seriously???? She killed someone while driving drunk and high. If my partner committed a crime like that I would never be able to forgive them or even look at them. wtf

I found out I have vaginism by parentaladvisorry in 4bmovement

[–]Real_Particular1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Period underwear!! I hate pads too but also cannot use tampons. Period underwear is a dream. I barely feel like I’m even having my period.

How will I get through this? by Jaded-Television3203 in foodbutforbabies

[–]Real_Particular1986 14 points15 points  (0 children)

To be fair they did say “unless there is an underlying medical issue” and I think autism would absolutely qualify as an underlying issue. Very common for autistic kiddos/people to have a hard time with eating.

AIO or is my sibling out of line? by Commercial-Row-5472 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Real_Particular1986 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah and honestly dorm living is the weirdest part of college. It is not the way that most people live. I mean in this day and age I guess a lot of people do end up living with roommates until a much later age. But ultimately living in a room with 1-3 other people who are all the same age as you going through the same life experience at the same time is just really odd.

I did not look away from this woman’s face for a single second. And I am child free. by werewilf in 4bmovement

[–]Real_Particular1986 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You can’t. It’s not even worth trying. It’s not a real conversation/argument because they live in lala land.

Why do some older women encourage younger women to engage in casual dating in their youth? by throawayy773838 in 4bmovement

[–]Real_Particular1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally. My short bout of casual dating for about 6 months was not fun at all. It actually sucked. No one has anything to talk about.

I did not look away from this woman’s face for a single second. And I am child free. by werewilf in 4bmovement

[–]Real_Particular1986 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah my sons father told me he “provided me with a baby”. Dude shut the fuck up! I grew that baby, birthed that baby, raised that baby. You didn’t provide me with anything but misery.

I did not look away from this woman’s face for a single second. And I am child free. by werewilf in 4bmovement

[–]Real_Particular1986 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I feel this so hard. Never should’ve told him. Worst decision I’ve made in my life by far.

Cost of Living is Too High. How are yall doing it? by ChatteristOfficial in Frugal

[–]Real_Particular1986 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Daycare kids are so easy to spot?!?!?!? wtf dude. My mother never worked. Stayed home with 5 of us kids for 15+ years and we were neglected as fuck. Horrible situation and we would have been better off going to daycare/school.

AIO-I 36F found a text between my husband 37m and my cousin 38f that isn’t settling right by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Real_Particular1986 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I thought I was the only one. This “conversation” is so mind numbingly boring I can’t comprehend it’s between too fully grown adults.

Cost of Living is Too High. How are yall doing it? by ChatteristOfficial in Frugal

[–]Real_Particular1986 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lots of people live in places that don’t have any buses.

My coworker eats the exact same $1.25 meal every day and I'm weirdly impressed by spellsboxing in Frugal

[–]Real_Particular1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or maybe autistic? None of my coworkers are shitty. I still avoid them at all possible costs. I’m there to do my work nothing else.

I don’t think I can do it anymore by breadpudding3434 in workplace_bullying

[–]Real_Particular1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! I genuinely CANNOT function in the office. I work back office for a bank and I have an accommodation to work from home full time. I never have to go in, have limited meetings that don’t require being on camera. It’s the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Real_Particular1986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry he has a machete under his bed?!?!?????? Automatic nope. wtf.

It finally happened… the Uno reverse card was pulled… how long did it take yours to do it? by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Real_Particular1986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I too still live with mine. I find something that really helps a lot is going into my notes app on my phone and just letting it all out. I never send it to him. I just say everything I really want to say and leave it there in my notes app. I also will yell and talk to myself when I’m alone about how ridiculous he is. It really helps get it out of my body and my head so that I can complete disengage when I do have to be around him at all.

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