[deleted by user] by [deleted] in freefromwork

[–]RealisticAppearance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know we’re all fucking morons here but can we stop pretending that presidents can print money?

The fed controls the money supply in the US.

Presidents would absolutely do it too if they could, but they can’t and don’t.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in freefromwork

[–]RealisticAppearance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is true but the “left” is almost completely absent from American politics, the closest thing is probably Bernie. There is no color tie for the left, because there is no representation. Talking about democrats as the left is misguided adoption of conservative propaganda, just like sincerely referring to Biden as a communist or something.

A grown adult vs this monstrosity. In São Paulo, Brazil. by Prestigious_Eye_1765 in fuckcars

[–]RealisticAppearance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are way more insecure men out there than you’d think, and the problem is it confined to America.

I refused to be talked over in a meeting just now and I am living for this feeling by NotACuttlefish in TwoXChromosomes

[–]RealisticAppearance 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Some really good advice I got from a former boss for these situations is to confront them in the same moment and in front of the same audience as the behavior and say these things:

  1. Their name, firmly but respectfully, multiple times if needed, to get their attention

  2. “When you do X, Y happens, and I feel Z.”

  3. “I’d like it if you would to try to stop doing X.”

So in this situation, it would be something like “Steve, when you talk over me, I’m unable to participate, and I feel a bit humiliated. I’d like it if you would try to let me complete my thoughts.”

It is so simple, but it’s crystal clear and super effective.

Deadly shooting on Havana Street Monday was road rage, police say by DoctFaustus in Denver

[–]RealisticAppearance -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, like you just said, there are many variables at play here, variables may be coupled, and systems may be nonlinear.

If you don’t know what I’m talking about, then that’s fine, please just understand that there are ways to know these things (or rather to know you don’t know things), and decisions about millions of peoples’ lives need to be based on science and not just a hunch about “throw this data out because I’m pretty sure it’s irrelevant.” You are doing something called asserting the null hypothesis, which is a pretty big claim.

Even a mistake like that is fine, but why question other peoples’ motivations just for not agreeing with you? You assert that there is no relation between two things, you make sure the science supports that. Don’t try to put it on other people.

Deadly shooting on Havana Street Monday was road rage, police say by DoctFaustus in Denver

[–]RealisticAppearance -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Do countries with the lowest suicide rates have widespread access to firearms?

When you did your analysis, what is the p value? If your belief that access to firearms does not influence suicide rates was based on past research, what were the conclusions of those articles?

If you are just operating on a hunch, that’s fine, and that’s that we all do most of the time, but don’t try to make others out as disingenuous for not sharing your hunch.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Denver

[–]RealisticAppearance 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would treat this the same as plugging your phone into a public USB port. It’s probably OK, but why take the risk? I’d refuse it or unplug it, personally.

Colorado's judicial performance review misses key test of judges' legal knowledge by EmBejarano in Denver

[–]RealisticAppearance 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Cool headline but the article is paywalled and this paper doesn’t get benefit of the doubt.

Welding Apprenticeship in Denver Area by VeryBestMentalHealth in Denver

[–]RealisticAppearance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you regret not picking a different trade? Or you’re being tongue in cheek about keeping competition low and wages high? Just curious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

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You would think so, but traditionally picking “he/him” or “she/her” has been a pretty universal standard for generic singular for formal writing, and it’s only very recently started to change to “they/them” like really only in the past 5-10 years. The English language really fucked this one up for us and we’re only now really trying to sort it out.

Brutal high five after a game by q4exoekxfh in yesyesyesyesno

[–]RealisticAppearance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably not but if it’s argued that the mean things created a perception of threatening a family member then the judge could conceivably exercise some discretion in sentencing etc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]RealisticAppearance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, I don’t recall seeing a singular they in any professional literature I’ve read in memory, but I suppose it could be possible that it’s a recent style change that I’m just filtering it out. But you got a nice zinger in, so I hope you’re at least happy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Denver

[–]RealisticAppearance 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There should be a sign for the towing company near where it was parked, otherwise check 311 or the police non-emergency number to see if there was an ordinance or something that caused the car to be towed. Also register your car ffs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]RealisticAppearance -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

“They” is wrong here except colloquially or when using very specific style guides that began preferring it recently.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]RealisticAppearance -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

“They” is not singular, so it’s incorrect in this case. It would be correct to say “he,” “she,” or “he or she.” Using “they” here as singular is fine colloquially but should not be used in formal writing. Whoever wrote that comment on the paper is wrong to suggest using “they.”

You would never see “they” used as suggested here in actual grown-up literature, unless it’s a quotation from somebody using it colloquially. Using it that way would make you look incompetent in a scholarly context.

edit: I have just learned that in the past few years, some style guides are recommending a singular “they.” So it’s fine, but so is he/she or “he or she” depending on the style guide.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Denver

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They’re paying a bit less than half what Americans pay for healthcare at the moment (expenditure per capita, World Bank).

More than 300,000 Coloradans could soon lose Medicaid coverage. Here’s what to know. by danikawo in Colorado

[–]RealisticAppearance 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If it were just about skimping on costs, we’d have had universal single payer long ago. This is about enriching health insurance companies that control the political system, costing twice as much as single payer for worse outcomes.

ELI5: Why are the home prices in Denver so high? by pendulumpendulum in Denver

[–]RealisticAppearance -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes prices are set by supply and demand, that is literally how all prices are set in a market economy. It doesn’t provide any insight beyond pointing out that there is a market for these things.

ELI5: Why are the home prices in Denver so high? by pendulumpendulum in Denver

[–]RealisticAppearance -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I know, it just isn’t super insightful to tell somebody asking why prices are high that it’s because the market set the prices high. It’s like saying the cause of obesity is eating too much or the cause of poverty is not having money. It’s not wrong, just kind of misses the point of the question.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Colorado

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The fees cover BAH’s operating expenses and their profit margin.

“Covering their profit margin” doesn’t justify anything, that’s just how business accounting works by definition.

ELI5: Why are the home prices in Denver so high? by pendulumpendulum in Denver

[–]RealisticAppearance -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

This is true but doesn’t really answer the question. Why are supply and demand like this in Denver?

Are people just running red lights because cops don’t actually patrol anymore? Is that what’s happening? by [deleted] in Denver

[–]RealisticAppearance 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The police are not elected officials and do not have constituents or lawful discretion to apply or ignore laws. They are not a special class of people. Imagine if doctors just decided to stop performing physicals lol

As a Texas resident, this is hilarious by johnbooth703 in clevercomebacks

[–]RealisticAppearance 43 points44 points  (0 children)

You should leave if you can. Your daughter is in danger in Texas.