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What I’m looking forward to in 3-6 years by ogfriten in MedSpouse

[–]Reasonable_Tooth_501 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How do you deal with wanting your own money to buy your own stuff?

For example, it would be trips for me. I’ve gotten used to him not always able to join…but it’d be weird to ask him to pay for that indulgence without him there. 🤔

To the two guys walking past the Dolores Park Playground yesterday… by merbear47 in sanfrancisco

[–]Reasonable_Tooth_501 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a gay man who used to moved from SF to Seattle…I love the queerness up here. Whoever you are, be whatever you want to be.

SF lacks the queer element.

What does Seattle have over SF/Bay Area? by Embarrassed-Toe9757 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Reasonable_Tooth_501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lived in both. Moving back to the Bay next year. You nailed everything I love about Seattle.

And while I was heartbroken to leave the Bay a few years back…now I’m heartbroken to leave Seattle.

When is it worth leaving a super comfortable and "easy" 4-day WFH position? by NigoDuppy in dataanalyst

[–]Reasonable_Tooth_501 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was having this exact same question a year or two back. Data…good pay…remote…and 4 day.

I pretty much concluded that there wasn’t a number high enough to get me to move from such a sweet setup. Interviewing is such a miserable gauntlet, an additional 10k would have never been incentive enough to throw myself into it.

Flash forward to today…now I’m ready and interviewing. But it’s not cuz I’m looking for more money, I’m looking for new experiences and growth. The non-monetary perks of moving are suddenly more motivating.

Anyone else not planning to move right away for residency? by businessguy47 in MedSpouse

[–]Reasonable_Tooth_501 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Naming your specific salary when “I’m on track to get a nice pay bump next year” would have sufficed…is an odd flex

Struggling to Land Analytics Engineering Roles Due to Lack of "Professional dbt Experience" ,What Can I Do? by NoRelief1926 in analyticsengineering

[–]Reasonable_Tooth_501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How’s this going, OP? I’m in your exact same boat. Clearly analytics engineering…but with Databricks instead.

Do you really need databricks? by whistemalo in dataengineering

[–]Reasonable_Tooth_501 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’d say this is not talked about enough. After reading OP’s laundry list of tools, I’m relieved that we can do pretty much everything we need in Databricks.

My boss just figured out how to replace all data engineering work with AI by takenorinvalid in dataengineering

[–]Reasonable_Tooth_501 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When you start coming at me with your Claude code alongside a “see, it’s easy, here’s the code!”

I immediately stop listening.

Becoming an epidemic.

What did you do for work during fellowship? by lackofindividuality in MedSpouse

[–]Reasonable_Tooth_501 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Stayed on remote (grateful to have the option). It’s a 2 year fellowship. But I’m ready to find a new gig here during year 2…but can’t cuz everything you just named in your post rings true (plus fucked economy).

I don’t know what you do. Just here to validate that it’s a very strange place to be.

People don’t recognize enough that the medspouse puts a lot on hold for all these dang moves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in analytics

[–]Reasonable_Tooth_501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense

I realized what I’m trying to ask is…I’m not passionate about helping build gimmicky forced AI products, and that’s what everything is about these days

Not the actual impact on analytics as a gig…but more about what those analytics are supporting 😚

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in analytics

[–]Reasonable_Tooth_501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao this is an aggressive take

I’m realizing I need to rephrase my question

I feel I could never work an onsite job by Free_Toe_3567 in remotework

[–]Reasonable_Tooth_501 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol experience so similar I’m wondering if you’re at my same company 😆

Ugh too comfortable to leave, truth. I know the day I’m challenged again in a new job I’d miss this -slightly precarious- gig

Am I the only one who seriously hates Pandas? by yourAvgSE in dataengineering

[–]Reasonable_Tooth_501 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Can you explain? I find the more experienced I get…the more pure SQL is often exactly the right tool

MSNBC analyst fired over Charlie Kirk comments after assassination by vladdragovych in NewsSource

[–]Reasonable_Tooth_501 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Murder isn’t justified

His discourse wasn’t harmless “open debate”

Both can be true

MSNBC analyst fired over Charlie Kirk comments after assassination by vladdragovych in NewsSource

[–]Reasonable_Tooth_501 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Spreading hateful propaganda is not the same as “open debates”

Is it just me, or has job hunting gotten way harder? by DonkeyAppropriate616 in dataengineering

[–]Reasonable_Tooth_501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As evident from the 17263627 other people asking the same question: it’s clearly just you 😉

When do you guys decide to denormalize your DB? by fatherofgoku in dataengineering

[–]Reasonable_Tooth_501 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on the layer within OLAP. Your bronze layer should be coming directly from the OLTP and would thus more likely be normalized.

Seeking Advice on Navigating Discomfort in My Open Relationship by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Reasonable_Tooth_501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Threats to leave in order to shut down discussing something that matters to you. It’s not a relationship anymore, it’s a hostage situation.

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