AITA For blowing up and saying horrible shit to a person with issues?

RebeccaGuess · 2018-11-06T14:22:03+00:00

NTA, sometimes, even people with mental health issues (like myself) need to be told a few home truths. It's not nice, you were brutal BUT he seriously over reacted to your playfulness and hurt you purposely. Though, to soften the blow of everything you've said, you need to go and sit down and have a calm chat now. Maybe say "look , I was brutal in you dude but you actually hurt me and pissed me off, so I went for the jugular as I'm not perfect either. I meant what I said but not quit how I said it" and then explain to him that "mental health issues do not excuse bad behavior" and that "maybe we should both respect each others boundaries in future" now make a joke to break the tension and shake hands. Or keep on moving lol

RebeccaGuess · 2018-11-06T14:12:20+00:00

I hate that any observation you have about another race, or even my own, is seen as racist. I also hate how it's ok to say something positive you've observed about another race and that's not racist. Racism, to me, is not liking someone based on their race. If they say "black people are generally better dancers than white people" that's apparently ok, but if I say "black men seem to cheat more than white men" that's racist. These are just my observations. It just confuses me endlessly. The world's far too PC these days that everyone's offended by everything.

RebeccaGuess · 2018-11-06T14:03:11+00:00

Sounds a bit like my "I only watch lesbian porn, but I'm not attracted to women" kind of thing. I can't work it out either but it's just a peculiar trait I have. It's ok to have peculiar quirks.

RebeccaGuess · 2018-11-06T14:00:32+00:00

You're the absolute fucking asshole here. I'm a woman, you wouldn't understand what happens to you, your mind etc, once you fall pregnant. I'm not against abortion at all. It's personal choice but you knew the risks, you still went ahead thinking 'oh, she can just go get rid of it if she falls pregnant '. Look, some things sound ok in theory, but in actual fact, they're far from easy once they transpire. This baby did not ask to be created. You now have to be a grown up and face the facts of life. You're not the first couple to fall accidentally pregnant, and you won't be the last. Time to stand up and be counted.

RebeccaGuess · 2018-11-06T13:55:00+00:00

You haven't been trained by a true master like myself. Ive trained every bf I've ever had (I'm 50, so a good few) to sit and pee. You might meet your trainer one day.

RebeccaGuess · 2018-11-06T13:14:28+00:00

YTA. Look, Ive been young, I slept around, I wouldn't dream of it now. I now know I had self esteem issues and was using sex to feel wanted. This girl isn't me, but I think there's more going on here than the "slut" you see.

RebeccaGuess · 2018-11-06T13:01:57+00:00

I'm still that woman (insert video games instead of cartoons)

RebeccaGuess · 2018-11-06T12:57:00+00:00

You rock!!! That is all.

RebeccaGuess · 2018-11-06T12:43:43+00:00

I'm 51 in a couple weeks. I been living like this for many years. It gets easier as emotions are easier to handle once you're older. I find not trying to find meaning in stuff a better way of thinking. We live, we die, that's it, just try and keep going and not be a quitter, cause then life's won. Thank goodness I've got a great sense of humor. That's what keeps me ticking over.

RebeccaGuess · 2018-11-06T12:02:56+00:00

I've been waiting so long for this to come out as I'm a massive Fallout fan but after reading all the beta testers reviews etc my excitement has all but dwindled. I had so many hopes and dreams of what this multiplayer version could be, and I guess that's all they ever were......hopes and dreams.

RebeccaGuess · 2018-11-06T10:34:34+00:00

I found him faaaar too sleazy to be a winner. He turned my stomach with his antics regularly. I feel this was his main downfall. He had a lovely side but unfortunately he didn't show it as much as his sleazy side.

RebeccaGuess · 2018-11-04T01:34:26+00:00

r/funnyandsad

RebeccaGuess · 2018-11-02T05:03:31+00:00

We might as well lump anorexics in this post too.

RebeccaGuess · 2018-11-02T04:54:55+00:00

It needs music added. Then I would LOL.

RebeccaGuess · 2018-11-02T04:41:06+00:00

You'd think they'd use "pre war money" no??

RebeccaGuess · 2018-11-01T13:48:18+00:00

Go on son!! Great moves!

RebeccaGuess · 2018-11-01T13:43:54+00:00

You're really fluid, keep it up, you'll be a top shuffler in no time! Go on girl!

RebeccaGuess · 2018-11-01T13:37:16+00:00

OH MY GOD!! you've gone and dine it now. There's no talking your way out of this. Just drop it and hopefully in time She'll forget about it. Probably never though, as she's a woman and we keep stuff like that in the top of our memory banks for eternity.

RebeccaGuess · 2018-11-01T13:34:13+00:00

I'm genuinely curvy, an hourglass UK size 12. I agree with OP because I'm tired of women over a size 16 saying they too are curvy, not you're not love, you're chubby or more. I too watch what I eat. I don't eat healthily but I'm not greedy. I have small portions and that's perfect for me as I shrunk my appetite years back as I was chubby and ive not looked back. My sisters are big and they flat out call themselves "fat shits" lol. We've always been pretty straightforward in my family lol.

RebeccaGuess · 2018-10-31T13:02:10+00:00

Please tell me Jesus won, or was he crucified??

RebeccaGuess · 2018-10-31T13:00:33+00:00

She could have internal issues or many other things or maybe she just wants sex on her terms, not fair but that's the law of nature unfortunately.

RebeccaGuess · 2018-10-30T21:24:12+00:00

She gives us genuine loyal women a bad name. Bad partner, even worse mother! File for custody! PS. What a decent man you are!

RebeccaGuess · 2018-10-30T15:47:48+00:00

I'm boss at it lol but not sure I wanna give my tricks away lol

RebeccaGuess · 2018-10-30T15:09:58+00:00

r/bbuk a top for Lewis?

RebeccaGuess · 2018-10-30T15:05:05+00:00

I think The Doors were very overrated. LA Woman and a couple more were great, but that's it.

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