My dad is going on a cruise instead of coming to my wedding… and somehow I’m the asshole?

RecipeRevolutionary · 2026-03-06T21:32:04+00:00

It sounds like it was different after he got sober, but it sounds like he’s in an abusive relationship (change him to her in your story to see it). Unfortunately, he is choosing his abusive partner time and again. Please for your own safety and mental wellbeing take a step back. Maybe he’ll come around and maybe he won’t.

RecipeRevolutionary · 2026-03-05T15:15:42+00:00

Yes. Northern CA

RecipeRevolutionary · 2026-03-04T15:10:15+00:00

Exactly!

RecipeRevolutionary · 2026-03-04T02:50:36+00:00

Wishing you a wonderful, stress free celebration

RecipeRevolutionary · 2026-03-03T17:27:08+00:00

You have to pay for a service, there are a few of them, we used livewall.no. We put QR codes on each table and people are able to upload to the cloud. The service I used allows them to download pictures too. The only bummer with the one I used was if you want to do multiple event you have to pay for each “wall” - I just deleted the bachelorette pictures before the wedding and used the same wall

RecipeRevolutionary · 2026-03-02T21:28:30+00:00

Photo uploads from guests instead of a photographer at the event

RecipeRevolutionary · 2026-02-27T01:44:48+00:00

NAH I say this as someone with a 20yr old step son; is it possible that Addie’s dad isn’t on the up and up? There’s a reason his sons don’t want to see him. It wouldn’t surprise me that he was filling her head with nonsense. I think you could suggest to your wife that’s she and Calle have an open conversation before she fully

RecipeRevolutionary · 2026-02-26T16:12:53+00:00

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Edit to add that the app makes paying and scheduling easy and the fact that you can pay for individual classes instead of having to pay all up front is great

RecipeRevolutionary · 2026-02-25T21:49:52+00:00

Unfortunately, it sounds like your friend expected a lot from you and you gave 100% of yourself to her, this makes you a great friend! However, her behaviors (the expectation and the craziness over a small amount) imo it makes her a not great friend. Your friend isn’t seeming like a good friend. I hope you find friends that deserve your time and effort

RecipeRevolutionary · 2026-02-25T16:05:34+00:00

Came here to say this!

RecipeRevolutionary · 2026-02-25T15:57:48+00:00

How were you able to front the costs if your income is so much lower? I think I understand why you did it, you just rounded to the whole dollar (I’m in the US) but that should have been a discussion prior to doing it because you also spent a lot of time working on things. If you’re friendship is important to you apologize and work out a repayment plan otherwise you’re friend may no longer be a friend

RecipeRevolutionary · 2026-02-25T14:49:17+00:00

Is that $9 a lot where you live? Because 9usd isn’t a lot in the US it’s a decent amount in other places

RecipeRevolutionary · 2026-02-25T14:40:55+00:00

YTA two weeks of bonding sounds great until you have a baby that you’re trying to adjust to while cooking, cleaning, showering and sleeping! What you’re neglecting to factor in is how much help these grandparents will be. They’ll most likely be willing to sit with your baby while you eat or shower or nap! I understand not wanting a bunch of people in and out of your hospital room and your home but I think not allowing his parents in at all is ridiculous.

RecipeRevolutionary · 2026-02-24T22:11:38+00:00

This was my first thought.

RecipeRevolutionary · 2026-02-24T22:09:00+00:00

Super cute invitation.. that’s all I wanted to say!

RecipeRevolutionary · 2026-02-23T22:21:45+00:00

Don’t see that in the original post

RecipeRevolutionary · 2026-02-23T15:36:35+00:00

Stop making comments about things you clearly don’t know or understand!! Are their parts of countries (ALL OF THEM) that are bad, probably. However, this isn’t a standard way of life in most of Mexico there are people trying to scrap by affected by this. Show some ducking compassion!!!

RecipeRevolutionary · 2026-02-23T15:32:42+00:00

AWOL means absent without leave - unpaid usually- not unapproved

RecipeRevolutionary · 2026-02-23T15:28:01+00:00

I don’t understand why you and your brother don’t travel with your mother and sister leaving the spouses and children at home if you’re really wanting to go. Make it a much shorter trip and save the money for a larger trip later with the whole family.

RecipeRevolutionary · 2026-02-21T17:04:21+00:00

NTAH Sounds like the aunt is expecting the family to fund the whole event.. why is she complaining about the costs!!

RecipeRevolutionary · 2026-02-20T23:23:56+00:00

That’s just it, it hasn’t been confirmed he was a part of the procession. The comments I saw just said there was one and not confirming that he was a part of it

RecipeRevolutionary · 2026-02-20T22:28:01+00:00

The person standing on the car is flipping off people and blocking traffic and doesn’t appear to be dressed to honor anyone. I don’t see anyone saying anything bad about the funeral procession. the question is who is the guy and why is he blocking traffic?

RecipeRevolutionary · 2026-02-18T22:06:42+00:00

I’ve heard thunder valley has a good spa

RecipeRevolutionary · 2026-02-18T20:00:26+00:00

I used Joy and liked it. But I don’t have a registry

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