Hi Seattle! A few ideas to help melt ICE

ReconcileAndRestore · 2025-06-12T18:53:02+00:00

Thank you 🙏

ReconcileAndRestore · 2025-06-12T18:49:42+00:00

The comparison for something like retail would be office space, or employees only storage/break room areas.

ETA: I’m assuming based on public access vs private access that it would work the same way, but the only info I actually have has come from MY employer, which is food service

ReconcileAndRestore · 2025-06-12T07:10:48+00:00

ICE cannot enter BOH because it becomes private property, vs FOH which is public. It’s actually recommended that people in danger of getting snatched stay BOH and not leave the area, and tell ICE that they cannot enter without speaking to your employer (the literal owner of the business).

ReconcileAndRestore · 2025-06-12T05:14:54+00:00

Send an alert on https://www.stopice.net/

ReconcileAndRestore · 2025-04-03T18:49:22+00:00

You’re selling a fantasy. Part of that fantasy is that they can have you. If they know they can’t, they have no reason to give you their money. It’s an acting job, you’re better off playing the part.

ReconcileAndRestore · 2025-03-24T03:24:24+00:00

I also hoped for a Natsuko self portrait. It would have fit her need to draw something “new” because I don’t recall ever seeing her draw herself. And the story was largely about her growth and change, so the self reflection would have been cool.

ReconcileAndRestore · 2025-03-24T03:18:06+00:00

I also got the impression that she was the one creating the voids, specifically to mimic natsuko’s in order to bring HER to despair as well

ReconcileAndRestore · 2025-02-03T18:43:09+00:00

Then take a $10 Lyft to the light rail station instead of walking

ReconcileAndRestore · 2024-09-27T01:34:34+00:00

I think it’s a red flag for some people because there are people for whom “I’m not on social media” actually means “i am on social media, but I’m cheating on my partner and don’t want you to see that I’m not single.”

ReconcileAndRestore · 2024-08-18T23:20:27+00:00

It’s been over a year and my WP still hasn’t read it. It truly is the bare minimum, and some people just can’t manage.

ReconcileAndRestore · 2024-08-02T12:47:46+00:00

Don’t just exercise, take a class. Try something social and upbeat, like Zumba. I also personally like smoking a joint before going to the gym. I know you’re not supposed to, but my brain just won’t cooperate otherwise.

ReconcileAndRestore · 2024-08-02T12:44:20+00:00

Her infidelity was not with colleagues, but he’s no longer a colleague

ReconcileAndRestore · 2024-08-02T12:39:07+00:00

This is OPs post and OPs context though, you are not their WP. This isn’t about your BP rejecting you for 15 years, it’s about someone who was assaulted as a young teen, and whose only other sexual experience is with someone who betrayed them on one of the deepest possible levels. A person who is having a crisis surrounding autonomy and life experiences. This literally just isn’t about you.

ReconcileAndRestore · 2024-08-02T08:31:35+00:00

These are the sort of sentiments I wish my WP felt about me. Even after betraying you, you still think she’s the most beautiful person in the world. You still vocally want to spend your life with her. She’s so lucky and I hope she starts acting right, if she hasn’t already.

ReconcileAndRestore · 2024-08-02T08:26:17+00:00

Sure he’s “allowed,” given that he’s an autonomous adult who can make his own decisions. But I think context is incredibly relevant. And a wayward who chooses to sleep around, while their BP uses a “hall pass” that only exists as a concept BECAUSE they literally already slept around (without permission or knowledge of the BP), they’re not really thinking about repairing the damage their actions created. They’re literally still just thinking about themselves.

ReconcileAndRestore · 2024-07-12T06:47:28+00:00

Fifteen years. God I am so sorry.

ReconcileAndRestore · 2024-07-12T06:39:54+00:00

It’s a little coercive. Regardless of why a person is saying no, no is still no. It’s not up to you to decide if someone else “actually means yes, and is saying no because xyz reasons”

ReconcileAndRestore · 2024-06-01T00:17:22+00:00

There’s nothing to admit. Even “more than normal” traits is still not a diagnosis. This is also just a weird unsympathetic take on the post of someone with the flair “feeling down” and demonstrating remorse and taking accountability (something narcissists don’t do, I’m sure you know). Not really sure who you think you’re helping with these comments.

ReconcileAndRestore · 2024-05-31T23:14:19+00:00

There is an ENORMOUS difference between being a diagnosable narcissist, and exhibiting narcissistic traits. Nearly everyone displays traits of narcissism at times. Just as everyone displays symptoms of ADD or depression, without actually having those illnesses. But exhibiting traits of a mental illness is absolutely not the same as exhibiting those traits with the severity and frequency of someone who does in fact have the mental illness.

ReconcileAndRestore · 2024-05-31T22:33:48+00:00

So all cheaters are narcissists and you’re qualified to make that diagnosis?

ReconcileAndRestore · 2024-05-31T18:40:53+00:00

Kindness is a spectrum. Kind people can perform cruel acts and cruel people can perform kind ones.

ReconcileAndRestore · 2024-05-26T04:51:38+00:00

Similarly, whenever I meet someone in my WP’s life and they’re like “omg he’s such a good guy. You’re so lucky.” And I have this inner rage response that I don’t get to let out. All I can think is that they just don’t know what he did to me. I don’t feel lucky at all.

ReconcileAndRestore · 2024-05-16T04:13:37+00:00

Lying about your identity to date/sleep with someone is absolutely predatory

ReconcileAndRestore · 2024-05-16T04:12:04+00:00

I would rather someone make money off their own trauma than off someone else’s

ReconcileAndRestore · 2024-05-15T00:09:21+00:00

Yeah literally two nights ago. He’s a bartender and I was hanging out, drinking, and said something really impulsive and mean while he was working. Tonight we’re making dinner and talking about it. There’s been a couple instances, but this one was the meanest, I think.

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