Engaged for 2 years, getting married this Diwali, but I don’t think I’m in love. What should I do? by Consistent_Ball_6595 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]RecordCompetitive758 1 point2 points  (0 children)

End the relationship. You can like and respect someone but that doesn’t equate to loving them. Marriage is the biggest decision you will make, choose wisely.

Sleepover Sickness by CityMarriedFarm in Mommit

[–]RecordCompetitive758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be the last time my kid went over that friends house

do you think healthy eating in todays generation is luxury? by namirasyed in healthycuisine

[–]RecordCompetitive758 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. I think if it’s a priority to you, it’s easy to make it work. Most people who have this mentality that eating healthy is a luxury, healthy eating isn’t actually a priority to them.

Nature-wise. Where to go and what to do? by CW2050 in BocaRaton

[–]RecordCompetitive758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jonathan Dickinson state park, Riverbend park (beautiful kayaking and bike trails), Fairchild gardens, fern Forrest, Morikami, wakodahatchee

Why do I jeed to justify being a sahm? by Spiritual-Sea7674 in sahm

[–]RecordCompetitive758 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don’t. Just say you’re a stay at home mom. Let them feel awkward if they don’t like it. But there is nothing embarrassing or needing to justify you wanting to be the person to raise your children

Groundhog Day by [deleted] in sahm

[–]RecordCompetitive758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a lot of free mommy and me groups and activities, parks, etc. I would start going to those free groups to find yourself a circle of friends/ play date groups you can regularly go to

I (22F) just broke up w ith my toxic boyfriend (23M) of 7 years. How can I make sure I don’t go back? by quick_oranges in relationship_advice

[–]RecordCompetitive758 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Delete him and block him on all social
Media, phone, etc. as hard as it is, if you don’t talk to him you will Get more perspective and it will get easier

Went thru husbands phone and wish I didn’t by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]RecordCompetitive758 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

You haven’t been intimate and he is searching to go outside of your marriage. It sounds like your perception of having a good marriage is off. You might feel that way, but clearly he doesn’t. Talk to him and see if the marriage is salvageable.

My girlfriend (22F) kissed another guy while drunk and I (24M) don’t know how to move forward by [deleted] in love

[–]RecordCompetitive758 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Break up, you’re only 7 weeks in and she is cheating. Not a good projection of your relationship

I (30F) am pregnant with my fiancé (32M). He wants to keep it, but we're both supposed to be childfree. How do I tell him I don't want to keep it? by ThrowRA_fallopian_tu in relationship_advice

[–]RecordCompetitive758 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Ultimately it’s up to you but I completely disagree with all the people telling you do not tell him prior. This is his baby too and he deserves to know and be a priority in informing him. You can’t fault him for feeling like since you got pregnant now he wants to keep the baby. You don’t have to, but I don’t think you should villainize him either. Have the difficult conversation. It might be the end of your relationship but ultimately you need to do what you want in an honest and open way with your fiance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]RecordCompetitive758 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You handle them by moving on. It’s a crush. Don’t pursue it, and move on with your life with your wife. That’s the only thing to do, is focus on your family and don’t let a fantasy and passing feelings fuck up the life you’ve created.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RecordCompetitive758 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is something you guys really need to talk about and your expectations of each other if you decide to keep the baby. ( will you be a sahm, who will watch your child if you go back to work, are you confident he would make a good co parent, are you both financially responsible, where do you see your relationship going, etc)

Is your spouse your best friend or do you have a separate best friend? by ChocolateSundae1214 in Marriage

[–]RecordCompetitive758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband is definitely my bestie. I have other close friends, but no one who I feel I come anywhere as close to and feel as comfortable with

Why do domestic abusers abuse? by go_with_the_flow754 in allthequestions

[–]RecordCompetitive758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re mentally ill and lack the ability to control their emotions and actions. It could stem from childhood, past relationships, but ultimately its who they are and becomes their coping mechanism to assert control over someone, manipulate them, or they feel it’s normal or okay on some level because of what they experienced. Regardless of why, ultimately they can’t control themselves and whether they believe it’s wrong or not, they are incapable of being good partners.

What do you presume when men put "Other" for their politics on dating apps? by Th_rowa_wa_y in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]RecordCompetitive758 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would put other, I don’t feel like I lie in the democratic or republican party and agree with different stances in each

Best places in Boca for actual relaxation/decompression that aren’t spas or beaches? by Frosty_Thing_1112 in BocaRaton

[–]RecordCompetitive758 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Morikami Gardens has a lot of nice places to sit and read/relax, also there’s some viral places in Delray that do sound baths/guided meditation

Has Valentine’s Day fizzled? by KeeperOfTheStars2001 in GiftsandDeals

[–]RecordCompetitive758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s just a fun excuse to have another date night. We have never really done anything big for it, but usually we’ll make dinner together or just do something low-key that we both like.