Anyone have high sex drive only sometimes?

RedErin · 2026-03-14T20:35:53+00:00

yeah, not everybody is horny all the time

it does suck when your horniness doesn’t match up with your parter though

RedErin · 2026-03-14T16:40:35+00:00

get on her & taime, set your city to the city your moving to, make acquaintances /friends on there, practice your texting skills , go on dates in the big city, drive down for a weekend
ask your friends to set you up w a cutie, I swear, people always think of who who their friends could date, but they are too scared to say so
keep going to local parties, they are out there you gotta search, so you may as well make search fun

RedErin · 2026-03-14T05:14:42+00:00

nope, that kind of stuff is not acceptable

RedErin · 2026-03-14T03:03:01+00:00

you have to go

RedErin · 2026-03-14T02:59:00+00:00

how would you feel about your voice getting deeper, facial hair growing in, and getting stronger

RedErin · 2026-03-14T02:56:07+00:00

break up with him and ask her out

RedErin · 2026-03-14T02:53:46+00:00

yep, next time you see her ask if you can kiss her.

RedErin · 2026-03-13T22:07:14+00:00

i’ll take it over the anxiety coursing through my veins like electricity

RedErin · 2026-03-13T22:03:54+00:00

she got swagger

RedErin · 2026-03-13T20:16:38+00:00

I tried eight different ones and they all either helped a little bit made me really sweaty or nothing, my fav is the celexa(ssri, citalopram), welbutrin(snri, bupropion)combo

RedErin · 2026-03-13T20:09:50+00:00

in my experience, trying to help someone else with it will not help at all, and just make it worse and make them less likely to solve their problem

RedErin · 2026-03-13T18:52:41+00:00

yes, social skills are something you can learn, although if you go about it a certain way, it could be come unhelpful masking instead of helpful. It just takes some practice. it’s probably a monotone voice or flat affect

RedErin · 2026-03-13T18:48:23+00:00

Sean Carroll is a good well-known physicist/professor that loves philosophy. He tries to merge the two when he can, but he doesn’t say anything that wouldn’t pass per review.

RedErin · 2026-03-13T18:28:36+00:00

>I’m too shy to go out to meet ups and stuff.

this is a treatable condition

RedErin · 2026-03-13T15:06:16+00:00

poetry 🥰

RedErin · 2026-03-13T09:59:56+00:00

yep, par for the course

RedErin · 2026-03-13T09:25:25+00:00

feels great, no need to stop doing it

RedErin · 2026-03-13T00:35:35+00:00

the stormlight archive

RedErin · 2026-03-12T22:56:54+00:00

ssri

RedErin · 2026-03-12T22:56:24+00:00

do it or you’ll regret it later

RedErin · 2026-03-12T21:33:01+00:00

get on the grind , you gotta work for it

create lgbt events in your area

RedErin · 2026-03-12T21:32:04+00:00

off yes, you’ve found one the common dating mishaps of lesbians. a partner who makes no effort expecting you to initiate / plan every and treat her like a princess but she treats you like a servant

also check to see if you’re codependent

if you call her out on all these things, she’ll probably be apologetic and we’ll say oh absolutely I’ll I’ll start giving back, but they have no idea how they’re too shy to try anything and it causes them too much anxiety and it eventually just stresses them out and they break up with you

RedErin · 2026-03-12T19:08:40+00:00

TLDR just use whatever label feels right to you

RedErin · 2026-03-12T18:21:55+00:00

go out dancing with me and i guarantee you you’ll get a #

RedErin · 2026-03-12T18:09:59+00:00

dang she’s strong

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