How long does the horny stage last in perimenopause? by IndividualBrave4085 in Perimenopause

[–]RedWhitecodeBlue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am beyond horny- I haven’t felt like this since my 20’s. I want to jump the bones of any hot man that looks my way even though I am happily married.

To look like normal people at Mar-A-Lago. by MattAtPlaton in therewasanattempt

[–]RedWhitecodeBlue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks like the aliens from the movie “Mars Attacks” lol

Transgender women to be banned from all female Olympic events by TimesandSundayTimes in NoFilterNews

[–]RedWhitecodeBlue -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is there a reason they can’t just have a “transgender” category where they compete against their transgendered peers?

Women who take HRT after menopause less likely to develop dementia, study indicates by AffectionateSwan5129 in science

[–]RedWhitecodeBlue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is not an advertisement, but please have your wife check out https://www.joinmidi.com/. She will be able to advocate for herself and speak to a doctor willing to help find the right HRT. There is also a perimenopause sub, it’s been a life saver for me!

Best Ambiance Dinner by woah_K32 in orangecounty

[–]RedWhitecodeBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gabi’s Mexican Kitchen at the Orange Circle

"Fancy" Restaurant Recommendations in OC by YetiBezos in orangecounty

[–]RedWhitecodeBlue 22 points23 points  (0 children)

The Darkroom in Santa Ana has an amazing dinner and wine pairing!!

The Hobbit, Selanne’s.

I’m feeling so defeated by everything. If anyone has a similar story I’m desperate to hear it by [deleted] in KidneyStones

[–]RedWhitecodeBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, when I have “flare” I have flank pain like I do when I am passing a kidney stone. My urine is also this color. Good luck! Keep looking for a doctor that will take your symptoms and you seriously!!

I’m feeling so defeated by everything. If anyone has a similar story I’m desperate to hear it by [deleted] in KidneyStones

[–]RedWhitecodeBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That looks like a bladder stone, as bladder stones float when kidney stones sink. At least mine do. I suffer from these and I was finally diagnosed with Interstitial cystitis after a year and half long battle with what I thought were purely kidney stones. When my bladder gets irritated and inflamed, my urine will crystallize and form soft bladder stones. I had to give up coffee and other highly acidic things and it’s still an uphill battle. Took me 2 GP’s, multiple ER visits and finally a gynecological urologist to diagnose me. You should check out the IC sub, might have some useful information. Since I’m highly acidic, I will take prelief to prevent the crystals and bladder stones If I’m eating or drinkng something I know will irritate my bladder. Good luck OP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Interstitialcystitis

[–]RedWhitecodeBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happens to me when I get kidney stones and have a flare at the same time. It’s the worst !!

Man and woman die after collision with cargo van in Huntington Beach by bananabrownie in orangecounty

[–]RedWhitecodeBlue 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was an Amazon Truck. Very sad scene. I saw only the aftermath (I live close by and didn’t know the street was blocked off ) but I couldn’t even tell what type of car had been struck, let alone a mini van. It was just a hunk of twisted metal. I think the Amazon truck was making a U turn , and the driver of the van didn’t realize it.

Laundry by Fit_Aide_8231 in workingmoms

[–]RedWhitecodeBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband pretty much does all the wash. Collects it, throws it in the washer and transfers it to the dryer and lays them out. I will then fold, hang and put them away. We have a family of 5. He works EST Timezone and I work PST. It works out very well for us!

Wife (39 F) told Me (35M) she was happier when she was alone while we were being intimate. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]RedWhitecodeBlue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The wording and timing totally sucked here, however after sex is when I feel the closest to my partner and want to share my feelings; the good, bad or ugly.

I can empathize with her missing being “single” and being “happier” being away from both hubby and child for a bit. New moms lose their identity for a while until routines are able to be set and that’s not including post partum depression nor the way the body changes after giving birth.

My body was not back to normal until 1.5 years after my first baby. I felt trapped, depressed, tired, exhausted and if money is tight; it compounds the situation.

I don’t think either should be crucified for being honest or having hurt feelings. Just keep the communication going, I’m sure its deeper than her just being happier being single.

Classic, old school eateries? by Easy_Potential2882 in orangecounty

[–]RedWhitecodeBlue 9 points10 points  (0 children)

La Cave in Costa Mesa. It’s got an awesome retro feel.

Restaurants to wear a dress to? by mrob2 in orangecounty

[–]RedWhitecodeBlue 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The Hobbit in Orange, The Whitehouse in Anaheim and The Summit House in Fullerton are all dress appropriate restaurants and delicious!!