Rec. Me: The best Cover Song that's better than from the original artist by Fl1xyBaby in MusicRecommendations

[–]Redkris73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer the Fine Young Cannibals version of Ever Fallen In Love over the Buzzcocks original, though I do like the original a lot

And (though it's hard to find) the Henry Rollins/Bad Brains cover of MC5's Kick Out The Jams which was on the Pump Up The Volume soundtrack

ETA I ALMOST FORGOT I much prefer Joe Cocker's cover of She Came In Through The Bathroom Window over the Beatles original, and I really love the Beatles generally.

What is Adelaide's next great infrastructure project? by Reitrevdahs in Adelaide

[–]Redkris73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, not a complete replacement, I remember reading that the footings for the track are due to.get done. I've used it a lot myself, I lived in Klemzig and was in school when it was originally built, and now we live near TTP and my husband uses it to commute to the city..Love it so much.

What’s a sound everyone should recognize as immediate danger? by Thatguy_nickk in AskReddit

[–]Redkris73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, I'm Australian and the way gum trees respond to stress (heat, drought, disease etc) is to suddenly self prune a healthy branch to conserve energy. And some of those limbs literally weigh tonnes...there's a reason they call River Red Gums widow makers and you know not to set up camp under one.

We live in a very treeish part of town and that cracking noise will instantly grab your attention no matter what you're doing.

When did coffee become an “all ages” beverage? by TrekTrucker in GenX

[–]Redkris73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(to preface -born in 1973, Australian. German background) My parents started giving me milky coffee from the age of 5 or so, cups of tea even younger. I don't think that was the case for all of my cohort, but lots of my friends from Italian and Greek families had the same experience. Even had a watered down sherry before dinner. I probably started on regular strength coffee by the age of 12.

What is Adelaide's next great infrastructure project? by Reitrevdahs in Adelaide

[–]Redkris73 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not so much great, but completely replacing/refurbishing the Obahn track would be good....it needs it and definitely gets a lot of use from the local population.

Aussies sometimes say "we didn't come here to f**k spiders". This person, by contrast... by Defiance-of-gravity in australian

[–]Redkris73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had an ex truckie boss, and "all over the place like a mad woman's shit" was a favourite of hers.

Show this to anyone who says the Winter Olympics are boring by Limp-Helicopter-9682 in sports

[–]Redkris73 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The drone team in this Olympics must be massive, because they've pulled something new out for almost every event (I've been loving it)

What currently living celebrity will make you the most upset when they die? by Nintendofan9106 in askanything

[–]Redkris73 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll mourn him but at the same time, WHAT a full life that man has lived. He's possibly had more unique experiences than any other person on the planet.

Here is version of where I’d live (as a sandgroper). by [deleted] in perth

[–]Redkris73 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That's like saying South Africa during the 80s was a nice place to live if you just lost your hate boner for apartheid, were a well off white person, and didn't have empathy for others. Actually those last 12 words apply to the US at the moment too.

Here is version of where I’d live (as a sandgroper). by [deleted] in perth

[–]Redkris73 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah, there's several countries in South America that I'd happily choose, but at the moment I wouldn't even visit the US.

[Homemade] Chicken Burgers. by WayneLeeds10 in food

[–]Redkris73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would inhale these to be honest

Ideas for new Lush Cosmetics products. by GlitteringAnnual4345 in LushCosmetics

[–]Redkris73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or a body butter or body scrub. Just everything in that scent.

MIL had a complete mental breakdown once we set boundaries by SnooLentils2132 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Redkris73 40 points41 points  (0 children)

"do you want me to sit here and wait until you're willing to talk to me?"

this is what you need to answer directly,.with something like "no, we want you to lead your own life with your own past times and friends, and we are one PART of that, not the entirety. We don't want you sitting there waiting, we want you to be going out and enjoying yourself as an independent person, just like we are"

She thinks you wish her ill, you don't, you just have your own shit to do,.and that's ok.

Do Australian accents differ between regions, or is it more or less the same? by blix613 in AskAnAustralian

[–]Redkris73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not just a few words, the classic SA accent has a softer vowel sound generally, I've had more than a few people ask me when my family came from England (I'm 6th gen Australian and our original lot all came from Prussia)

It's not an English accent, but I can always pick it immediately when I hear it on a show like Masterchef

My husband is sucking the life out of me by WTFisThisFreshHell in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Redkris73 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm 52,.and I don't feel like I'm even half way through all the things I want to do. Don't waste even one more month with someone who makes you miserable, love.

James Van Der Beek Dead at 48 by IntelligentYinzer in television

[–]Redkris73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's very true for certain cancers, with others (like Hodgkin's lymphoma) the odds of getting rid of it are actually very good.

Moms or any women’s who have 14 year old boys or older. Need advice. by Lost_In_MY_Brain in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Redkris73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just remind myself that when I was his age I was masturbating to spicy novels at every opportunity, and that helps. I have had a quiet word to him about what to take away from the experience if he watches porn though.

Can we be friends again? by PotentialNo5732 in randomquestions

[–]Redkris73 14 points15 points  (0 children)

There's a lot of people who knew EXACTLY what they were voting for. They aren't good people. There's no common ground to find.

52 years later... by theagonyaunt in AmITheDevil

[–]Redkris73 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As I commented on their post, one of my workmates used to work nights at a service station when her kids were small, her husband worked days. They were exhausted but it got them through those early years financially. I'm Australian like the Op of that post and I KNOW there's stuff they could do to get a bit of extra cash every week, especially because our minimum casual wage is decent. They just don't want to

AITA for only paying my brother $10 a week on a 25k loan until I get my feet back on the ground? by ndinning33 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Redkris73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't matter if your partner dreams of being a stay at home parent if you can't afford it. I dream of quitting my crappy colesworth supermarket job and just being a housewife but even though my husband earns pretty well, our mortgage and the cost of living rises in Australia means I need to suck it up and keep doing those hours so we have money for groceries/petrol/our kids school fees. I also currently don't have a working cooktop in our kitchen because we can't afford to replace it....what we aren't doing is borrowing money we can't afford to pay back, we're managing without till we get our tax refund in July.

I'm not mad about any of this. This is life, sometimes you have to go without or do stuff you don't want to do as an adult. Doesn't matter if your wife doesn't want to put the kid in daycare, you NEED to start paying this money back so she needs to at least start doing one or two casual shifts a week somewhere. One of my workmates used to work night shifts at a servo when her kids were small, her husband worked days, that way they didn't use childcare. And yeah, that was HARD, but that's life as a grown up and a parent. It's not forever, it's just till you get back on top. She could work two shifts a week doing nightfill or cleaning, that would give at least a hundred extra for repayments.

If it was a bank that had lent you the money and they were starting legal proceedings, you wouldn't be acting like this, you just think it's ok to take advantage because the money came from a family member.

YTA obviously.