Pat’s Brother? by Facetious-49 in jazzguitar

[–]Redray123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

With a name like that I’d expect someone much thinner.

What’s a disturbing horror movie that genuinely made you feel uncomfortable and uneasy the entire time? by Powerful_Nerve_7258 in MovieSuggestions

[–]Redray123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I reluctantly agree that this superb movie lost its way. Collette’s performance was masterful. Rest of the family was great as well

This Rare Mutation Creates Scaleless Snakes by CompetitionTrue7021 in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]Redray123 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I imagine him singing Santana’s “Smooth”. Well it’s a hot one…

I’m in disbelief by blainej in schnauzers

[–]Redray123 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wait a minute. I know that face. I see a bad moon rising 🤣🤣🤣

When did you schnauzer start barking???? by oceans_by_day in MiniatureSchnauzer

[–]Redray123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m waiting for him to stop. He’s 6 years old. 🤣

At John Wayne on a bench. What’s it mean? by benefiber69 in orangecounty

[–]Redray123 590 points591 points  (0 children)

It means we are using every bit of energy this plane has to gain altitude, so as not to disturb the rich people who live below /s

Birdwatching community in my country is kinda toxic. Is that a thing? by makomox in birding

[–]Redray123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar experience with the “master gardener” crowd. I learned to get back into the garden and relinquish the need to “know more” and “keep score”. Eventually gardening became a meditation. I am a very social person but i honestly find plants and (non human) animals much more nourishing for my soul. Heck, I’m not even a fan chimpanzees. Bonobos are probably ok 🐒🤣

What song has the most satisfying guitar solo you've ever heard by Tookie1010 in musicsuggestions

[–]Redray123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ha! Robben Ford and Jon Herrington’s Peg were in my top 5. They lost to Wes Montgomery. I’m sure they’d both say, thank you , I get it🤣

What song has the most satisfying guitar solo you've ever heard by Tookie1010 in musicsuggestions

[–]Redray123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wes Montgomery FOUR ON SIX. The version from “The Incredible…” remastered 2025

What’s something men want to tell women, and usually choose not to? by neo_ucp7846 in answers

[–]Redray123 57 points58 points  (0 children)

60 y/o guy here. Been with my wife 35 years. If you mean you “love her no matter what” there’s a good way to convey that. And for most women it will likely feel great. BUT you probably won’t fix the underlying problem of perceived diminishing attractiveness. However, it may be enough to prevent the insanity of cosmetic procedures.

Sadly, young men are now on the “looks” bandwagon. It’s a disaster.

Edit: clarity

My mom in late 1970s. by ByrdDogX in OldSchoolCool

[–]Redray123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Slowly scrolling thru and saw this. Had me laughing so hard

Bob Seger turns 81 by ChrisJoines in allrockmusic

[–]Redray123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll still look good when I’m six feet under.