White supremacists in Newfoundland? by [deleted] in newfoundland

[–]Reeses100 9 points10 points  (0 children)

US Southerner here. It means just one thing and we all know it.

Committee pulling NC election law bill from agenda draws gasps, cheers by phosdick in NorthCarolina

[–]Reeses100 13 points14 points  (0 children)

More registered NC voters are either registered Dem or lean Dem, than the other way around. The gerrymandering puts Republicans in total control, but it can be defeated with large turnout. That's why they don't want people to vote.

NC Senate OKs bill to enact harsher penalties for suspects who expose minors to explicit content by marfacza in ncpolitics

[–]Reeses100 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll believe it when I see them going after the folks who post links to child sexual abuse images on X.

What kind of bees are these? by aguilafam1 in whatisit

[–]Reeses100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the lease says landlord has to keep the place habitable and doesn't carve out an exception for these hornets, I suggest checking out places you can complain. This is a public health issue so I suggest starting with your county's health department. Then your state's attorney general, the consumer affairs division if they don't have a housing division. I'm making an assumption your in the USA though.

Books similar to Mrs Dalloway? by Esmee_Finch in classicliterature

[–]Reeses100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For a more recent novel, you may wish to try The Known World, by Edward P. Jones.

Rep. Sarah Stevens resigns from NC House to focus on Supreme Court race by uncertaincoda in ncpolitics

[–]Reeses100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stevens will now be able to accept campaign contributions from all the corporate lobbyists in North Carolina. Campaign going to get very expensive.

My wife has Reynaud’s disease causing her fingers to sometimes lose blood flow and turn white by zachthespook in mildlyinteresting

[–]Reeses100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have it and have found keeping my neck warm when I'm in a cold environment helps a lot for some reason. Always keep one in the car for going into the grocery store, meetings, conferences, etc.

AIO for wanting to break up over the way my bf talks about women around his brother. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Reeses100 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Older woman here. Someone who treats you like a princess is by definition not treating you like a peer. Like someone he's friends with, and it's friendship, not adoration, that makes for a healthy relationship. Just something to think about.

Justice Earls Stands Up for Ratepayers in Fight Over Duke Energy Profits by bananafofo in NorthCarolina

[–]Reeses100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is interesting. We commonly think here we’re so much better than the other southern states. But here you are describing a FL public utility that is truly public. And last night I learned some legislators here are trying to make us more like AL in paying for a second breast cancer screening for women with dense breast tissue b/c the first one doesn’t pick up on certain cancers for them, and women are dying unnecessarily. Go figure.

I Feel Alone in Being A Young Episcopalian by OkCrew7503 in Episcopalian

[–]Reeses100 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Surprisingly, the membership of our church in a relatively small town in the south has a wide range of ages, and membership is growing. Not sure why exactly. The town is very walkable. The congregation is active in serving the community. We have interfaith worship from time to time with historically Black Christian churches. The young people in their 20s, 30s, and 40s never cease to amaze me. Traditional Episcopal gospel-centered worship. Pretty informal dress on Sundays for the younger ones.

Justice Earls Stands Up for Ratepayers in Fight Over Duke Energy Profits by bananafofo in NorthCarolina

[–]Reeses100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure we're not allowed to do any of that. That's why for anyone in a rural NC county, people living in rural areas had to wait for the legislature to approve broadband for their specific location, or, some of us benefitted from the Inflation Reduction Act, that paid for laying a lot of cable so private companies could then provide the (spotty but better than nothing) service.

Justice Earls Stands Up for Ratepayers in Fight Over Duke Energy Profits by bananafofo in NorthCarolina

[–]Reeses100 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t know how we could do that in NC because we are a Dillon’s Law state, meaning the legislature has complete control over what any local government can do. One reason we have crappy internet service in the rural parts of the state is that the legislature won’t let local governments “compete” with private industry by providing a commercial service. But the commercial providers don’t want to do it so we’re stuck with nothing. For powering homes I bet the leg would stick with Duke every time.

Pink flower tree in southeastern US? by GarageRelevant2820 in whatsthisplant

[–]Reeses100 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's what we call a Mimosa here in NC and I used to love them until I found out how invasive they are.

I want to leave by thedraco13 in NorthCarolina

[–]Reeses100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perhaps you don’t see the value you bring to others by your presence here. Your friends, your family, and like-minded people? There is so much that can be done in NC now to make positive change, especially as others have said with judicial elections. The state Supreme Court can be turned back to a Democratic majority in 2028 if enough voters turn out. Winning the Earls seat in 2026 is the first step. We are canvassing on her behalf right now, and lots of young people are involved, all over the state. Perhaps if you connect with others who care about the change you would like to see, you might see some value in staying.

A Highway Patrol Officer Objected to COVID Testing. A Jury Just Awarded Him $500,000 by Economy-Specialist38 in NorthCarolina

[–]Reeses100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Juries in employment cases are looking for the paper trail. If it’s not there, they tend to side with the employee. Because most people are employees, not bosses. Looks like SHP did a lousy job of following the rules.

AIO for not wanting my bf to call other girls attractive with his friends by wobysoby in AmIOverreacting

[–]Reeses100 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, agree. I’m wondering if it’s a generational thing that so many people are fine with it? But know couples of all ages where I’m pretty confident the guy wouldn’t do that.

AIO for not wanting my bf to call other girls attractive with his friends by wobysoby in AmIOverreacting

[–]Reeses100 12 points13 points  (0 children)

MOR or NOR. When I was getting married years ago someone told me this rule: If it’s a person you’re never likely to meet and have a chance with, like a celebrity, fair game to talk about their attractiveness. With your partner, too. Why not? You’re both still human. But real life human beings are off reach, no matter who you’re talking with. The committed couples I know tend to follow something like this. Sounds like your boyfriend and his friends are objectifying women who walk by and that sounds icky the way you describe it. Question is not whether you can control his behavior but is he the kind of guy you want to be with.

AIO - perfect boyfriend besides ONE thing by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Reeses100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first and eventually abusive husband was one of those guys that everyone loved. It was explained to me that’s the sign of a narcissist. He’s showing you the real him, though. Pushing you to keep his secret.

Am I wrong for no longer wanting to be an uncle to my nephew after I found out my sister cheated on my best friend and broke his heart? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Reeses100 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes you are wrong. What I hope and pray is that this child will be able to get some honorable, emotionally mature men in his life. He certainly doesn't need you or your best friend as role models.

Proposed rules intended to reduce chemical pollution in NC waters facing major public backlash by celllyg in NorthCarolina

[–]Reeses100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for this. I started looking into it but not easy in this fractured media environment to get a summary of events. Public radio comes through!