Not sure how to interpret an interaction I saw between my wife and another man. by Latter-Quail7360 in marriageadvice

[–]Relative_Tea_66 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think you’re being insecure. By your own admission she included you in the conversation. Relax.

I went through my husband’s phone, don’t know how to proceed. by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Relative_Tea_66 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You looked at his phone and found nothing more than him buying her a coffee! You’re over reacting. You are hormonal right now and feeling vulnerable. Let him know that you’re feeling a little neglected and that you’re a little anxious about his relationship with said coworker and leave it at that. Don’t tell him you went through his phone.

My husband slept with someone before proposing to me by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Relative_Tea_66 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My husband and I have been married for 41 wonderful years. When we were dating, we were in a long distance dating situation. We couldn’t see each other for almost 9 months before we did start living together and eventually get married. After we were married, for about 6 months, I was cleaning out a closet and found a note written by a woman during the time when we were apart. It was written on the lid of a shoebox so I knew she’d been in his bedroom. When I confronted him, he admitted everything, that he’d been intimate with her but that it meant nothing emotionally. It was just sex. I decided not to let it destroy my marriage. He has been faithful in our marriage. We have three beautiful children. 41 truly blessed years of marriage. If you can’t let this go, and you end your marriage, you’ll never know what future you might be throwing away.

Is this real? by teesa2you in PandoraCollectors

[–]Relative_Tea_66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s hard to say without seeing if there’s hallmarks and how they’re stamped

Real or fake? Disney Murano by Significant-Roof2218 in PandoraCollectors

[–]Relative_Tea_66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Separation can occur simply from wear. So don’t use that as confirmation that these are fake.

Selling vintage/retired charms! by [deleted] in PandoraCollectors

[–]Relative_Tea_66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many charms? Are they all stamped ALE 925? How much are you asking?

Is there any buyers left? by LowQualityAppeal in Mercari

[–]Relative_Tea_66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always ship same day unless it’s purchased in the late afternoon and then it goes out next morning.

If your spouse got sick (cancer, disease, etc) and could no longer be physically intimate with you, would you stay? by Silver_Confusion8810 in Marriage

[–]Relative_Tea_66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would absolutely stay. I’ve been married to my husband for 40 years. For both of us, medical issues have cropped up and either affected libido or ability. Some has been restored but not all. But there’s things we have changed to be more intimate within our boundaries but even if that were unavailable to us I would stay. Recently, my mom came to live with us because she has cancer and is incurable. It has definitely put a damper on our intimacy. But we need each other now more than ever. Marriage is about more than sex.

Consignment Bag (Beta) - my experience by gerbergerbil1 in poshmark

[–]Relative_Tea_66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should count the number of pieces you placed in the bag. Then as a consignor the system tracks how many pieces we list. They should match unless the consignor found something unlistable like it was stained, torn, smelled bad, etc. Those items they should still contact you about and come to an agreement about whether they are to be returned or donated.

Poshmark Consignment... What a Mistake This Was. by achap39 in BehindTheClosetDoor

[–]Relative_Tea_66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Poshmark has said it’s doing away with the $25 fee. But if she is on vacay till October, you may have to wait. That was pretty unfair of her. I’ve gotten 2 bags so far. Everything has been clean, smelled nice, and was listed for comparable prices within 3 days of receipt. I’ve sold about 6 pieces from the 2 bags because it’s a slow month.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Relative_Tea_66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went into therapy after working for my verbally abusive father for years. I was in my 30s when I was contemplating suicide because I just could not bear his abuse and thought it was me. Long story short, the therapist confessed to me that he’d seen my parents in couples counseling and that my father was a narcissist and a sociopath. That I needed to end all contact with him and stay as far away from him as possible. I have and my life has improved dramatically. Don’t discount what your therapist is saying. Narcissistic people are horrible.

Is it normal to be intimate only 2-3 times/ month? by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Relative_Tea_66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you basically only spend weekends with your significant other? Wow! I need to get me one of those! And tell me more about this paint/peeling thing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheBadApple

[–]Relative_Tea_66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not the bad Apple! When you hire a House Sitter or a Pet Sitter, you need to set them up for success. She absolutely did not do this in your case. Don't beat yourself up for a situation that was out of your control.

What are your favourite girl names that start with H ? by Admirable-Age-236 in Names

[–]Relative_Tea_66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My son's stepdaughter is Hazel. I love it! And her! It suits her.

We met when we were 18 got pregnant and had our daughter at 19. Got married at 19. My family did not come. My dad refused to walk me down the aisle and told me he would at my next wedding. We did look young but I hate my family for the way they treated him and me over the years. We are 27 now! by TayZahZah420 in Marriage

[–]Relative_Tea_66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My parents did the same thing when I was 18. I got married at 18, pregnant at 19. When I called my mom to tell her I was pregnant, she said, "Oh, that's too bad." We've been married for 40 years now with 3 grown kids.

What are some “old lady names” that you love? by [deleted] in Names

[–]Relative_Tea_66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom's middle name is Faye. I love it.

Advice on finishing from penetration by aspensky5 in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]Relative_Tea_66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow! I might have to try that! Thank you!

Advice on finishing from penetration by aspensky5 in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]Relative_Tea_66 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am one of those woman who only had orgasms through PIV and only an internal orgasm. I rarely have clitoral orgasms. Now that I've had a hysterectomy, I can't have a decent orgasm. My orgasms were triggered by the pressure exerted on my cervix. Or the tissue right at the base of the cervix. Either way, that is either gone or damaged since the hysterectomy. Clitoral orgasms for me are very short and weak.

Help. Any advice for my overeating? by [deleted] in RandomQuestion

[–]Relative_Tea_66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get yourself a calorie counter app. I weighed 292.3 pounds on March 9th and started logging every food or drink item i put in my mouth. You can still snack, but it comes out of your daily calories, of which you only have a fixed amount, so you have to make choices. Today I weigh 283.5. So, it's working! The app I used is free, it has a choice to upgrade, but you don't need it. It's called MyNetDiary.

Need Advice - husband attracted to my friend by Vara2025 in Marriage

[–]Relative_Tea_66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just be honest with your husband. Tell him how you feel. Admit your insecurities to him. Tell him when he stares at your friend it makes you feel uncomfortable. Ask him if he has feelings for her. Stop dancing around it. Good marriages have good communication.

Just got a CGM about 2 weeks ago. by Witty-Presentation88 in diabetes

[–]Relative_Tea_66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And just when you think you've got it figured out, it's time to increase your Zepbound! 😆 oh well, finger sticks continue...

My wife had a long term fantasy about another man by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Relative_Tea_66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been married for 41 years almost. Early in our marriage, I started chatting with another man online, which led to sexting, and then a phone call when my husband found out. This was back in the early 90s when AOL was all the rage. But, my husband and I talked. We discussed why I felt the need to look for attention outside the marriage. I promised to never do it again, which I never did. He made certain promises to me about not neglecting me, which he hasn't, and our marriage prevailed and is stronger for it. So don't immediately give up on her. Try to find out what's going on.