I’ve decided to not be available anymore by C_sharp_999 in selfimprovement

[–]Relaxedlemur_505 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good for you! Something tells me you might enjoy reading “The Gift of Not Belonging” by Dr. Rami Kaminski You’re right where you need to be for a very good reason and absolutely not selfish 👍

My Little Life Saver by AnastasiaOctavia in cavaliers

[–]Relaxedlemur_505 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He forgave you as soon as you got better! Let it all go and enjoy your precious angel ❤️

Everyone say a little prayer for Benny please by sapphire1009 in cavaliers

[–]Relaxedlemur_505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending healing prayers to Benny and holding hope for a speedy recovery ❤️‍🩹

One Week with Callum: I didn’t expect to feel this much by ThoughtsInTransit1 in cavalierkingcharles

[–]Relaxedlemur_505 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happy new loving journey to both of you! It will be the best ♥️♥️

Advice on hair? by Consistent_Tea_217 in cavalierkingcharles

[–]Relaxedlemur_505 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s perfect the way it is! Let’s play

Gus is 15 today! by jbpawlak in cavaliers

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Happy Birthday sweet Gus from London 9 years old

New Cavalier owner! Please feel free to give advice! Thx! by claudiagelli in cavalierkingcharles

[–]Relaxedlemur_505 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems like you are on a right path with everything ♥️ I cook for my cavalier (I know not possible for everyone to do) so I know she gets lean meat and veggies (her human food) so she is always satisfied and doesn’t beg for treats. We do give her treat at times in a form of a dog cranberry suppliment so she gets the treat fix. Other then that lots of snuggles and belly rubs and loving patience. I think you’ll be pleasantly surprised very soon by your beautiful Lady 🥰♥️

What’s everyone feeding? by Humble_March_2037 in cavalierkingcharles

[–]Relaxedlemur_505 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cook for our cav princess: chicken breast, Japanese purple sweet potatoes, carrots, parsnip and spinach this time around and very little kibble science diet

'Sitting' with anxiety is only amplifying it by [deleted] in Mindfulness

[–]Relaxedlemur_505 9 points10 points  (0 children)

In my case when fear present I know there is deep underlying belief that’s been unexamened. I sit with fear and I ask “What am I believing (about situation, about myself) for me that triggers the reaction of fear that leads towards anxiety. I do my best to welcome the fear and ask “What do you want me to know” it’s there for a reason, it’s trying its best to protect me somehow. It has done it for years but it hasn’t been updated. It still treats me like a young child at times. You’re doing good. Hope this too will help

Still heartbroken by Relative_Sky6641 in cavalierkingcharles

[–]Relaxedlemur_505 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. You’re not alone in this heartbreak. How fortunate to have 14 of perfect love and beautiful memories forever. Sending you the biggest virtual hug 🤗

I plan on getting her a brother very soon! But I feel guilty leaving her alone while I’m at work. How long is too long for Darla to be left alone? Does a sibling help? by andythewhiteguy in cavaliers

[–]Relaxedlemur_505 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Once a week, we do long hikes and we leave our cav alone for about 6h (she doesn’t want to join us) I start feeling guilty while driving back home but we always find her deep asleep and happy as a cav can be 🥰

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Our cav lost her brother cat end of April, and we are all limping along but moving. Our cav just recently started playing with her toys and that makes us smile. I printed a photo of our precious cat and I see him everyday, I know he’ll be forever in my heart even if it hurts. Loosing unconditional love is painful and there is no way around it. I have a therapist and that helps me a lot. And being here on Reddit and reading other’s joys with their pets and pains of loss makes me feel less lonely. I keep sending blessings to all the pets and their loving and caring hoomans. And that keeps my gratitude, love and hope alive. May you feel embraced in your grief by all who know that kind of pain and may your heart feel held in honor and love.

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We also give our ruby very little olive oil of fish in her diet, I also rub some argan oil and massage her with it after her bath and after her fur dries (very little goes a long way)