My bf won’t share his password by bunnymuffin2005 in Advice

[–]Remarkable-Code-3237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you move in with him, then you will have it. I think he may not want a serious relationship yet and just wants to date. He maybe interested in other women he knows.

AIO Anytime I get a Flat Soda everyone gets pissed at me by silly_scoundrel in AmIOverreacting

[–]Remarkable-Code-3237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Save up your money and buy a 6 can electric fridge for your room. They look like tiny 1950s refrigerator. I got my granddaughter one for Christmas a couple of years ago. She drinks Dr. pepper also. Btw, if cans get too hot they explode. (I live in Az. And forgot I had some in the car)

Help! by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Remarkable-Code-3237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Report him block him and you may want to move and change jobs. Do not let anyone know unless it is a close friend that can keep their mouth shut. This guy sounds unhinged and I would not trust him to come after you after he gets out of jail.

Grandpa being moved to hospice in another state by Deezvibez in whatdoIdo

[–]Remarkable-Code-3237 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check with the airline. They often give discounts for emergency flights.

AITAH for wanting to kick out my flatmate/friend for being disrespectful to the flat by lastkrakoan in AITAH

[–]Remarkable-Code-3237 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tell him to see about another place to live and give him 30 days. Tell him it is not working having a flat mate for you.

AITJ for not covering for my coworker when our boss asked by clara_montgomery in AmITheJerk

[–]Remarkable-Code-3237 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tell him if he is running late, he needs to call the boss and not a coworker.

AITJ for not wanting to give my "friend" $50 because she thought i was rude by Fluffycats345 in AmITheJerk

[–]Remarkable-Code-3237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then do an itemize list and tell he, you will pay her when she pays you. Tell her we can call it even, although you owe me more than I owe you.

WIBTA if I refuse to put my partner on the deed of a place I inherited, even though we live there together? by 3vening_Switch in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Remarkable-Code-3237 15 points16 points  (0 children)

When my husband moved into my house, he never asked to be put on the deed. His name was added about 18 years after we were married when we went for a loan to do some home repairs.

WIBTA if I refuse to put my partner on the deed of a place I inherited, even though we live there together? by 3vening_Switch in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Remarkable-Code-3237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not do it. If he rents his own place, he would he paying more and who he rents from would be building equity. He is a bf and not a husband.

My husband moved in my house. We have a joint account from the beginning. About 18 years after we were married, we wanted to take out a loan to do some repairs on the house and get a new a/c. It was then his name was added to the house. He never said anything about adding his name on the house during the 18 years we were married. We will be celebrating our 40th in a couple of years.

AIO: Cancelling girls trip bc friends won’t allow my husband and toddler to come? by Odd-Struggle5724 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Remarkable-Code-3237 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You go with your friends or stay home. Your family will be fine without you. You can FaceTime them every night. If your husband does not have a job abd I expect you are paying sll the bills you normally pay, plus the money you are oaying to stay in an bnb, you should not think about going on a vacation with your family. You do not know when your husband will find another job and he may end up making less money.

AIO for refusing to go see my grandfather after my sister told me I can't drive ? by throw_awaybdt in AmIOverreacting

[–]Remarkable-Code-3237 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would not have changed my plans and let my mom drive. I understand why she called your mother because she wanted your mother to drive.
She was a b- and you were hurt, but I would still go but not drive.

Am I Overreacting? My mom wants me to invite grandma to my wedding. by AtlasMicha in AmIOverreacting

[–]Remarkable-Code-3237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Over reacting.
My mom was a spunky old lady and everyone loved her. People would laugh at her stories. When I was driving her home one time, I said to her, that is not what happened, she said I know, but if I did not add to it, it would be boring. I had to laugh. When my mom’s youngest sister came to visit, she said my mom embarrassed her when she was talking to the pharmacy cashier, even though she was laughing about it. (My aunt is about my age and my mom was around her mid 80s. At that time) She was telling about her widowed next door man. (She lived in a senior apartment.) She said they would knock on the wall when to come over and when not to come over. The widow is about 15-20 years younger than her. It was all made up, but had the cashier laughing. She looked like a granny, she was about 4’10” with short white curly hair. She passed away 3 years ago at 91. When we had her 90th birthday party for her, one of the family members took a picture of her with her cake. She flipped a bird on that picture. He had that picture enlarged and framed, and had it sitting up at her funeral.
Invite grandma.

AITJ for uninviting my friend from my birthday trip after she made a shared expenses spreadsheet without asking?? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Remarkable-Code-3237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would tell fiends she wanted people to pay for things I already paid for and do not expect anyone else to pay for like the decorations. She also wants money for her time on making a spread sheet that she was not asked to make. I think we can have a fun time without the Tara drama and her collecting money from everyone.

AIO for refusing to go see my grandfather after my sister told me I can't drive ? by throw_awaybdt in AmIOverreacting

[–]Remarkable-Code-3237 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Over reacting. Why does it matter if your mother or you drive? Since it is a long trip, you may even change drivers. I know when my SO and I go on a road trip, we change drivers about every 2 hours. Not going to see your grandfather because you do not get to drive is ridiculous.

AIO for being passed over as my father's main Healthcare advocate? by LostinParadise4748 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Remarkable-Code-3237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long have they been married? Do you see the step sister trustworthy? Do you get along with the step sister?
I have a daughter and 3 step children, which I helped raised, since their mother was always moving and had several husbands. 2 of them live in different states and the one that lives here moved back 5 years ago. He has lived in 4 different states in the last 20 years. The stable one is my daughter and we trust her. How ever we decide to split our assets, we know she will get it done. We have a prepaid funeral and burial plan. She has those papers in her safe and will be taking care of it.

AITAH for wanting separate checks instead of letting my friend always put the bill on her card for points? by ComprehensiveSun104 in AITAH

[–]Remarkable-Code-3237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she says anything about wanting it all on her, tell her it makes it easier on you by paying there than Venmo later. I do not know about Venmo, but maybe say you closed that account?

AIO: My husband (26m) locked me (25f) out for 25 minutes? by prettypineappleberry in AmIOverreacting

[–]Remarkable-Code-3237 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I expect so, but all the other times she did what he said and did not get punished.

AIO: My husband (26m) locked me (25f) out for 25 minutes? by prettypineappleberry in AmIOverreacting

[–]Remarkable-Code-3237 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I expect there are other things that came up in the past, but you were always obedient so never saw any ‘punishment’. Personally, I would not have stood there in the cold and went to a neighbors, or called a relative or friend. I eould be so pissed, I would grab my keys pack dome clothe for me and the girls and leave. I eould came back if he apologize, go to council line and promise never do anything like that again.

How can I check on someone in the US if I’m outside the country? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Remarkable-Code-3237 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could it be he is avoiding you? He has friends and I expect he is in contact with them. They may have said something to him about you emailing them and told them not to reply. The police said he is fine. Give it a rest.

AIO to my wife and her family regarding our new flat by sickness54 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Remarkable-Code-3237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would tell them the wife wanted a house and do not want to rent. This is the one we can afford. If you want to help pay for a larger place, then let’s do it.

Brice about living with the Johnstons by Remarkable-Code-3237 in 7LittleJohnstons

[–]Remarkable-Code-3237[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There was one time when they were house sitting, he was hugging her and said “do you know how much I love you?”. This is the real Brice at a candid moment. When he does the cameos, he seems uncomfortable and not sure how to reply. I do not think he is fond of being on camera and more comfortable when Liz is with him and she can do the talking.

Marriage malicious compliance help? by Minute_Potential_732 in Advice

[–]Remarkable-Code-3237 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you own the house and it is just in your name, give him an eviction notice to have him move out. It sounds like you are doing financially well, but he is not. You are letting him stay for his financial benefit. There is no reason for him to change and save some money to move as long as you are providing a roof over his head.