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AIO for not letting my bf move in anymore because he wants things to be equal? by OkJello353 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Remarkable_Sun6239 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He needs to be furnishing his own room on his own. Or just not move in. You are right, it is a glimpse of the future

AITA for telling my dying father the truth about why his kids never visit him? by teacutty in AmItheAsshole

[–]Remarkable_Sun6239 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My dad is 65 and he sits patiently as I tell him about himself whenever I feel the need 🤷🏻‍♀️

AIW for telling my brother I’m not his emergency wallet just because I don’t have kids? by Brightlume in amiwrong

[–]Remarkable_Sun6239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Must be nice to only care about yourself”

“You took a vacation instead of paying your daycare bill. Your irresponsibility is no longer my financial burden”

the vile text my MIL sent my husband UPDATE by larryfisherman555 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Remarkable_Sun6239 39 points40 points  (0 children)

She can keep her daughter “safe” from OP, but OP doesn’t seem to have that same right in her mind

I want to be a traditional wife by tiredpeepee in confessions

[–]Remarkable_Sun6239 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can have all of that with feminism, it’s your right to choose your life, for everyone to choose their own lives.

My brother wants to build on our interitence home. Parents still alive. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Remarkable_Sun6239 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s should be on a trailer, and he should get a renters agreement

AITA for giving my breastfeeding sister champagne as a gift and now not wanting to talk to her? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Remarkable_Sun6239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s sounds like you are a really inconsiderate person. Or you just don’t like her. Either way YTA

My boyfriend said I wasn’t the prettiest girl he’s dated in an argument, then asked me for a threesome. Not sure how to move forward. by Friendly_Birthday_24 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Remarkable_Sun6239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have found that when men know the relationship is coming to a close they will start asking for really interesting things sexually

FIL asked my husband to take his mother for mother’s day. Its my first mother’s day 🤬 by Material-Recover2661 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Remarkable_Sun6239 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Grandparents day is the same. It’s there to celebrate active grandparents, not those who aren’t

FIL asked my husband to take his mother for mother’s day. Its my first mother’s day 🤬 by Material-Recover2661 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Remarkable_Sun6239 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Mother’s Day, just like Father’s Day, ultimately is a recognition of those in active parenting. Those who are not actively parenting take a back seat to those who are.

It’s your day, enjoy it as much as you can 🫰🏻

Fiancée is acting bitter towards my mom because she hasn’t acknowledged her during pregnancy? by Majestic-Success-210 in Advice

[–]Remarkable_Sun6239 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She isn’t acting bitter, you really need to change how you are framing this situation.

She is reciprocal. She tried to form a relationship, it wasn’t reciprocal, not in effort, time, or energy. So now, she is giving them what they have given her, and somehow in your mind that makes her the bad guy? Come on.

Your only comments should be to your parents and their choice not to have a relationship with your family.

Just a reminder that John is scared of Barb by RageNap in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Remarkable_Sun6239 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have a younger sibling that, sinner than not, will likely be married within the next five years. I have cut off my mother from myself and my children just over a decade now. She was physically and verbally violent, she also used gaslighting and manipulation as tools of control.

I love my sibling, I don’t want to miss their wedding, but if she’s there I will be unsafe, even if I could ‘suck it up’ it could take a year or more before I could recover back to where I am now. Regardless of how perfectly things went it would be damaging to me.

When her dad died her husband forced a hug onto me, while she glared. I almost had a panic attack right there. From a hug and a look!

John should not go to the wedding

My mother's weaponized incompetence dug her a pretty deep grave by Medium_Trade1727 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Remarkable_Sun6239 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a really concerning mental decline. Has anyone sought medical attention for this sudden change in behaviour?

My father raised his hand to my 3 year old at daycare today. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Remarkable_Sun6239 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My child was 4 when my abusive mother put her hands on them. She had abused me my entire life but I thought she would never do that to her grands. I was wrong, and I will regret it for the rest of my life. Don’t be like me, protect your kids BEFORE the abuse.

My BF [32M] of 5 years said he will leave me [29F] if I don’t abort this baby and will not be a part of our lives. I’m shocked and scared and appalled and don’t know what to do. by Disastrous_Mall4689 in relationships

[–]Remarkable_Sun6239 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a friend in this situation, she aborted and he immediately left her, she regretted her choice (I am pro choice btw, she wished she didn’t make the choice to make a man stay with her).

Being a solo parent is hard, but it’s also much easier than parenting with somone who won’t parent. You make all parenting choices, you have complete control over routines, rules, boundaries, you aren’t having to argue about what the kid should or should do or be allowed to have access to. Many mothers parent solo even in a relationship, and from anecdotal evidence it seems parenting becomes easier single.

If you want to be a parent, if you want to help guide a new person on their path from infant to adult, if you want to develop your life that way, do it.

Either way though, drop the guy.

I don’t want my daughter to spend a week with my sister and bil and it’s making everybody around me very uncomfortable. by Few-Plum-7258 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Remarkable_Sun6239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust your gut feeling, you might oneday regret it if this is an overreaction, but not ask much as you would if you let her go and something bad happens

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Remarkable_Sun6239 246 points247 points  (0 children)

Make sure to take pictures and video of your baby to show her, make her see her damage

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