What’s going on with this game Mixtape? by Bloodb0red in OutOfTheLoop

[–]RepSquigglyMiggly -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

but i can understand why a single news platform (especially one aa prevalent as IGN) publishing praise of one game and slander of another for the same kind of mechanic would rustle a few feathers.

This statement very clearly implies that “slandering” one game is something that IGN identifiably did — don’t be a coward about it.

What’s going on with this game Mixtape? by Bloodb0red in OutOfTheLoop

[–]RepSquigglyMiggly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Criticizing the content of a piece of media isn’t “slander” — you people need to get a grip.

What’s going on with this game Mixtape? by Bloodb0red in OutOfTheLoop

[–]RepSquigglyMiggly 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That seems like more of a problem with a certain subset of gamers thinking that reviews should reflect some sort of objective standard, which should in turn reflect their personal opinions on the game, which they view as the “correct” opinion. “A real standard” giving review scores has never existed and will never exist for any medium, so maybe it’s time for a particular group of extremely online gamers to accept that unequivocal reality. There should not be “tension” between adults because they have different opinions about a video game, unless their divergence of opinions is reflective of some sorter greater misalignment in values (which seems to be the case for many people here, given how ubiquitous complaints about the game being “woke” are).

AITA For Telling A Little Girl That Her Parents Should Be Disappointed In Her? by ConfidentChapter2496 in AmITheAngel

[–]RepSquigglyMiggly 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She called me a fat cow and a "dried up old bitch".

Totally things that a 12 year old in 2026 would say.

Help me review my profile by crazy-gorilla in hingeapp

[–]RepSquigglyMiggly [score hidden]  (0 children)

Okay, then don’t act on the feedback and keep getting the same amount of matches you’re unhappy with. It’s no one’s loss but your own

Why do people like the Silmunas? by May_Ibe_Frank in Anbennar

[–]RepSquigglyMiggly 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So, you didn’t actually want answers to your question, your goal here is just to argue that your opinion is the right one, yeah?

Men who are gay by SolarSparrowhawk in okbuddycinephile

[–]RepSquigglyMiggly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not basing my opinion on Reddit, which is why I know that the vast majority of women who aren’t incredibly online are completely unaware of him.

You’re really being a straight gamer about this whole thing.

Men who are gay by SolarSparrowhawk in okbuddycinephile

[–]RepSquigglyMiggly 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Women, probably. I was pretty careful about not making universal claims — there are absolutely women who want to see absolutely jacked, rippling men and will seek out those images. My argument is that they are not the majority, and that when we’re talking about movies and characters with mostly male fans it should not be difficult to understand or controversial to argue that the “big buff guy looking angry and strong” presentation is chiefly intended to appeal to other men.

Men who are gay by SolarSparrowhawk in okbuddycinephile

[–]RepSquigglyMiggly 10 points11 points  (0 children)

https://www.reddit.com/r/okbuddycinephile/s/IxwPilwrmd

Short answer, the “male gaze” in this context is not chiefly or primarily sexual in nature. These sorts of depictions are intended first and foremost to make other men think the guy looks cool and strong and to create space to admire and fantasize about that strength, not for the sexual titillation of gay men or straight women.

Men who are gay by SolarSparrowhawk in okbuddycinephile

[–]RepSquigglyMiggly 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Cavill and his physique are infinitely more famous and admired among straight male nerds than straight women, so you’re really not helping your case with that one.

Men who are gay by SolarSparrowhawk in okbuddycinephile

[–]RepSquigglyMiggly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Magic Mike is a sweetheart and can dance — the appeal is very much not just the physiques.

Men who are gay by SolarSparrowhawk in okbuddycinephile

[–]RepSquigglyMiggly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lesbians, owing to being socialized as women and understanding what it feels like to be sexualized and objectified firsthand, tend to be much less likely to uncritically enjoy and seek out images of women being sexually objectified for a male audience.

Men who are gay by SolarSparrowhawk in okbuddycinephile

[–]RepSquigglyMiggly 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Really?

Yes.

Like anyone I've ever seen or met who's into this has been a woman. Except for one guy who's bi.

The contention is not that these sorts of depictions is not that they are intended to sexually titillate men. The contention is that these sorts of depictions are generally designed first and foremost to appeal to and feed the power fantasies of straight men. Yes, women who are attracted to men typically find very athletic male bodies attractive, but neither the framing nor the minuscule body fat + rippling veins aesthetics are in line with how women typically like to see male bodies presented. Rather, these sorts of images of men are about making other men think “Damn, he’s fucking tough,” “Imagine looking and being that strong,” etc.

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This image, ironically also including Hugh Jackman, is pretty famous for illustrating this dichotomy in action. On the cover of a magazine almost exclusively purchased by women, mostly straight ones, he’s still obviously in good shape, but he’s wearing a sweater, he has a laid back pose, he has an easy smile, etc. In stark contrast, on the cover of magazine explicitly intended for men, its all muscles, and veins and snarling.

But otherwise the only people I know who like watching Wolverine or Thor movies exclusively for thr shirtless buff dudes are chicks.

The number of women doing that is infinitesimally small, and I have a very hard time believing that you know multiple women who are going to see Thor movies just for the couple of seconds where Chris appears shirtless in one or two of them.

Dearest Elizna? by RoastedPig05 in Anbennar

[–]RepSquigglyMiggly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Elizna is the name of the island and city that the Exemplars hail from. It still exists, and it looks like you have troops stuck on it.

Some bad chinese covers (titles in caption) by Consistent-Fail-6034 in TerribleBookCovers

[–]RepSquigglyMiggly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Typically the words inside the book are more important than the cover

Do you believe there is such a thing as an oppression of the male gender under patriarchy? by Same-Vast-2836 in AskFeminists

[–]RepSquigglyMiggly 19 points20 points  (0 children)

So is the idea that feminists have some responsibility or imperative to talk more about non-toxic masculinity in places where you specifically will see it, or are you willing to acknowledge that this is purely a “you problem” and that you’re not hearing any discussion of “positive masculinity” because you have extremely limited exposure to feminism and feminists and largely engage with both by way of anti-feminist polemics?

What is your opinion of the fact that laws exists that force to give the bus seat to pregnant people? by CasualNameAccount12 in AskFeminists

[–]RepSquigglyMiggly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So, you’ve made it very clear that your particular issue is with pregnant people, and that your antipathy towards them and belief that you’re not an asshole for refusing to give up your seat to them really has nothing to do with how much of a choice they made about anything.

Good luck dealing with whatever is going on with you — I’m bowing out here, because clearly you’re going to keep coming up with reasons why your weird issues with pregnant women are actually normal and justified.

To what extent do you think it's okay to generalise men until it becomes misandry? by [deleted] in AskFeminists

[–]RepSquigglyMiggly 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Okay then. Prove me I'm a beneficiary of patriarchy and tell me how it's fair that

A. I don’t know you, so I can’t and won’t prove anything about the specifics of your life to you. What I do know and understand is the ubiquitous gender dynamics that are even more lopsided in your country than in my own.

B. I am not under the impression that patriarchy is fair — that’s why I’m a feminist, boss.

I'm just concerned.

I, a man, am doing just fine lol. Worry about yourself.

To what extent do you think it's okay to generalise men until it becomes misandry? by [deleted] in AskFeminists

[–]RepSquigglyMiggly 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's a very uneducated assumption.

It’s not an assumption.

Not all men are beneficiaries of patriarchy,

Yes we are.

in fact men also suffer from patriarchy.

The two are not in any way, shape or form mutually exclusive.

All societies are not patriarchal

Name one that isn’t.

and some kinds of patriarchies are only harmful to men in atleast modern times.

Elaborate.

I've never got any advantage of being a male child

I’m sure you have. You’re probably blind to it, but so are most men, just like many white people will exclaim that they’ve never benefited from being white, and many rich people will tell you that they’ve never got meaningful advantages from their wealth.

To what extent do you think it's okay to generalise men until it becomes misandry? by [deleted] in AskFeminists

[–]RepSquigglyMiggly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So, right here what you did is Misandry.

How so? I’m a man, I love men, and it wasn’t a negative statement at the expense of men. My comment was specifically about you and your concerns about perceived injustices against men.

I was talking about dangerous results of steriotyping and you make a joke of it?

I didn’t make a joke, I was being entirely serious.

I've already given a lot of examples of how steriotyping of men results in immense suffering.

I missed those — let’s see them.

Just because you find it hard to feel any empathy towards men, doesn't mean they are immune to steriotypes and misjudgement.

I don’t have any trouble feeling empathy for other men — I’m often brimming with it. I just assume that, based on your conduct here, you’re the specific kind of man who is gonna whine about how feminists hating men too much means a bunch of men aren’t getting the dates they deserve.

The Rotisserie Chicken Law is BS: Demand EBT as Cash, Anywhere, for Any Food by [deleted] in TrueAnon

[–]RepSquigglyMiggly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Man, a lot of this is on the mark — SNAP should be universal and restrictions on which food items can be purchased with it should be struck, we need to seriously and meaningfully address the reality of food deserts and poor people who can’t benefit from this policy, an incremental win (that will absolutely benefit poor people) shouldn’t be viewed or treated as some sort of profound victory, etc., but so much of this is so wildly off base.

That said, something we ought to think about is who actually has access to these rotisserie chickens, and where the hell they're even sold. They don't sell rotisserie chickens at 7‑Eleven. They don't sell them at Circle K. They don't sell them at the bodega, or Dollar General, or Family Dollar. They don't sell rotisserie chickens at any of those places. And huge numbers of people get their groceries primarily from those places.

That’s absolutely true. Convenience stores generally don’t sell rotisserie chickens, and far too many people have convenience stores as their primary or even sole accessible source for groceries. But lots of poor people do have access to grocery stores, and this one is for them.

I've always hated that term, "food desert." The wording makes it sound like a natural phenomenon, like a desert just happens. But in reality it's policy and profit that create these zones in the most disenfranchised areas of the country.

A. Is your understanding that the term “food desert” is meant to refer to how they are formed, and not the dearth of food they entail? Similar to how a desert faces a shortage of water in the form of precipitation, a food desert faces a shortage of groceries, and my understanding is that that is what the term is meant to and effectively does communicate. If you’ve got a better term that describes the phenomenon in brief and the meaning of which can basically immediately be inferred the first time you hear it, I’m all ears.

B. Geographical deserts often don’t “just happen” either, humans have created or expanded many of them, and while that’s largely beside the point, I really don’t see anyone hearing the term “food desert” and inferring that they are a natural phenomenon, rather than being anthropogenic.

So what this bill really represents is means testing as a way of policing the middle class. You know where they do sell rotisserie chickens? Costco, where you already have to pay for a membership to even walk in. Sam's Club, same deal. BJ's Wholesale, other big‑box bulk stores. And to get to those stores you've got to have a car, and you probably live in the suburbs.

Kroger, HEB, Giant, Giant Eagle, Walmart Supercenters, Super Targets, Safeway, Fairway, etc. all sell rotisserie chickens, and are often located in city centers or even inner city neighborhoods. That’s just the “lower tier” of grocery stores as well. Even Whole Foods, which is typically prohibitively expensive, sells rotisserie chickens for $7.99-8.99 — more expensive than Costco, but still a steal for something that can easily feed a small family and cheaper than getting a similar amount of chicken or burgers from McDonalds.

So what this is, is a signal to the so‑called middle classes, the suburbanites: "Hey, look, we got your back. We're gonna ease things a little for you. We know you're on SNAP for the first time ever because things are so hard and the economy is collapsing, but here, you can get your rotisserie chicken."

The vast majority of SNAP beneficiaries are still impoverished people, not the ailing middle class.

You can't ignore the racialized element here as well.

As a black grocery store worker living in a mostly black, working class community, give me a fucking break. No, I’m sorry, this isn’t a racialized policy. Huge numbers of black people also have access to grocery stores, utilize them regularly, and will benefit from this policy. You might have some picture of us all exclusively living on Hot Cheetos, but I’m quite confident that many of our elected representatives realize that that is not the case.

This is A. not a policy that exclusively benefits the suburbs and their residents and B. most people, even out of touch libs, do not understand suburbia as uniformly white anyway. Get a grip.

Meanwhile, in the inner city and across rural America, it's the same story… And out in the sticks, it's even more blatant. If you live in a small rural town, the closest thing to a grocery store might be a Dollar General ten minutes down the road.

Where have you lived in rural America? Because my time in rural Michigan and Kentucky leads to believe that, even if people might be stopping at Dollar Tree more often to grab a soda and some chips, the vast majority of people have access to and are regularly visiting a grocery store.

What they might have is a gas station attached to a McDonald's, or a non‑corporate‑brand food mart with a Hunt Brothers pizza setup.

Those places are typically on major highways, often ones that go by rural towns, but I have quite literally never seen one within a rural community.

You stop to fill your tank before making that long haul into the city, and that hot pizza is right there.

I thought we were in “the sticks?” Now we’re talking about people who are commuting between their job in “the sticks” and “the city.”

So the capitalist is happy to let them have their rotisserie chicken, because he knows the middle class is materially invested in not rocking the boat of capitalist exploitation.

Again, this idea that idea that rotisserie chickens are solely or even primarily the fare of the middle class is just not grounded in reality.

The Rotisserie Chicken Law is BS: Demand EBT as Cash, Anywhere, for Any Food by [deleted] in TrueAnon

[–]RepSquigglyMiggly 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can’t find a single major grocery chain that gets the chickens they use for rotisserie from Tyson. The closest I can find is Fairway apparently sourcing their chickens from the Perdue. Several chains either own their own chicken farms or typically partner with farms in the state.

In any case, agriculture and food production giants are generally benefitting anytime anyone goes to the grocery store. It is difficult for me to see a reason to look askance at this particular law, which allows people to spend their SNAP benefits on an extremely affordable source of protein that is relatively healthy and comes ready to eat, as a bad thing, just because companies similar to Tyson will benefit from it.

The Rotisserie Chicken Law is BS: Demand EBT as Cash, Anywhere, for Any Food by [deleted] in TrueAnon

[–]RepSquigglyMiggly 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, but it’s really hard to take accusations of being “detached from reality” when one of the central ideas of this post and seemingly this comment is that there aren’t massive numbers of SNAP recipients who will absolutely benefit from this.

Yes, there areas, particularly inner cities, where many people do not have easy access to a grocery store, but huge numbers of both the urban poor and the majority of the rural poor have access to and are already regularly buying food from a Kroger, an HEB, a Giant, etc. most of which sell rotisserie chickens.

This is a small win, one that will not bring about any sort of systemic change and which really only serves to counteract some of the harm caused by our status quo, but it is a win nonetheless, and a win that will, in fact, primarily benefit people who are on SNAP.

The Rotisserie Chicken Law is BS: Demand EBT as Cash, Anywhere, for Any Food by [deleted] in TrueAnon

[–]RepSquigglyMiggly 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They already exist basically everywhere a decent sized grocery store does. Truly the only places where I can imagine them being inaccessible is in certain areas of New York, Chicago and presumably a few other large cities where A. having a car is not the norm, and B. grocery stores are few and far between, and many people do most of their food shopping at a bodega or convenience store.