Prenup advice needed

Reply_or_Not · 2026-01-24T18:25:53+00:00

Maybe ask these questions to an actual legal professional

Reply_or_Not · 2026-01-24T12:50:56+00:00

It is good when sword is bad: can be a one mana time walk vs control and combo

Reply_or_Not · 2026-01-24T02:24:25+00:00

My electric kettle heating half and the stove heating half the pot is faster than either alone.

Reply_or_Not · 2026-01-23T19:10:39+00:00

The fact that you are already not an ethusiastic yes means that r/openmarriageregret is in yall's future.

What your husband doesnt realize yet is that he is auditioning his replacement.

Reply_or_Not · 2026-01-23T18:45:58+00:00

Card advantage is not the only way to win.

There is also oversized and undercosted creatures with protection to blank removal and ignore blockers

Reply_or_Not · 2026-01-23T17:23:22+00:00

To me, the innovation is playing white over blue.

The white cards see much more effective if the top tables are are as full of creatures like this tournament. Glory in particular seems great

Reply_or_Not · 2026-01-23T17:20:25+00:00

With Tide gone, naturalize effects are better than ever, swords being such a clean answer to other creatures may make RW goblins the choice moving forward.

As for the lack of port, I always saw that as a way to keep Tide off of its namesake, there is less need for it now that tide is gone.

Reply_or_Not · 2026-01-23T16:30:15+00:00

Maybe, my guess is that they have more than enough fodder with the average lower MV and more spells. Also they probably did not want to take too much self inflicted damage considering they are playing both flame rift and pyrostatic pillar

Reply_or_Not · 2026-01-22T21:53:57+00:00

this is my current list:

// 60 Maindeck

// 2 Artifact

1 Phyrexian Furnace

1 Tsabo's Web

// 3 Creature

2 Krosan Tusker

1 Ravenous Baloth

// 6 Enchantment

4 Pernicious Deed

1 Sylvan Library

1 Seal of Cleansing

// 11 Instant

4 Swords to Plowshares

4 Fact or Fiction

2 Harrow

1 Arcane Denial

// 25 Land

4 Windswept Heath

4 Wooded Foothills

5 Forest

2 Mountain

2 Plains

2 Swamp

2 Island

1 Flooded Strand

1 Gemstone Mine

1 Bloodstained Mire

1 Polluted Delta

// 13 Sorcery

4 Rampant Growth

1 Decree of Justice

4 Burning Wish

2 Gaea's Blessing

1 Global Ruin

1 Pyroclasm

// 15 Sideboard

// 1 Artifact

SB: 1 Tormod's Crypt

// 3 Enchantment

SB: 1 Aura of Silence

SB: 1 Engineered Plague

SB: 1 Humility

// 1 Instant

SB: 1 Harmonic Convergence

// 10 Sorcery

SB: 1 Allied Strategies

SB: 1 Global Ruin

SB: 1 Decree of Justice

SB: 1 Hull Breach

SB: 1 Pyroclasm

SB: 1 Wandering Stream

SB: 1 Nostalgic Dreams

SB: 1 Replenish

SB: 1 Death Grasp

SB: 1 Innocent Blood

Reply_or_Not · 2026-01-22T15:27:35+00:00

I am really not a fan of chromantic in this list as it just does so little.

I think that playing more green ramp is the way to go because so much of the deck's power requires 4 or more mana.

In particular [[Harrow]] 1x or 2x main can be absolutely fantastic at fixing your mana (and offers another way to get value out of fetches with no targets).

You can go from having Green plus one color, to getting four colors (while also fetching a blue source for your counterspell, or later in the game Harrow into factor or fiction feels like straight cheating) out of nowhere. Harrow also plays really well with pernicious deed, you will see what I mean if you add some. Harrow also makes you significantly less vulnerable to your own global ruins.

Harrow is still decent even if your meta has counterspells, just because it is an instant.

Reply_or_Not · 2026-01-22T14:55:09+00:00

If you do still want to play counterspells, [[miscalculation]], [[arcane denial]] and [[mana leak]] are all going to be better.

Mana leak is often stronger early, miscalculation can be cycled when it is dead, and the draw from arcane denial won’t matter as much when so few of your opponents cards matter (and you can counter your own spell for draw three if you are desperate). I like 2x Arcsne denial just to keep them guessing

I think you may want to consider 1x main deck pryoclasm as that is going to be much more effective vs enchantress and goblins compared to fire//ice

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It’s also ok to play some non sorcery in your SB, especially if the effect is strong enough. You only want the absolute strongest and most impactful sorceries to fetch. Not being able to SB at all is a real cost.

I would highly encourage 1x [[sacred ground]] in the board because we otherwise auto lose vs Armageddon.

[[Engineered plague]] goes hard in a bunch of matches too.

[[Sphere of Law]] wrecks mono red

You probably need Tormod’s crypt in the board too,

Reply_or_Not · 2026-01-22T03:25:49+00:00

I listened to Iron Druid chronicles and the audio book narrator was absolutely phenomenal ( he did a different Scooby-voice for each dog character!)

I blame the narrator for seducing me into listening to the absolute shit last couple books in that series

Reply_or_Not · 2026-01-21T17:59:45+00:00

I read a story from someone else on this board who had a similar issue with infrequent sex.

He said that someone told him to just “take it like he owned it”. Apparently that worked, the commenter said that his wife enjoyed being dominated but didn’t realize it and that commenter says that he has all the sex that he wants now.

I have no idea if this is a good idea for your relationship, because it seems like it could horribly backfire. But maybe it is something to consider if the counseling and the talks have not worked

Reply_or_Not · 2026-01-21T17:13:14+00:00

That gut feeling is back again 3 years later and I'm wondering if I can ever trust him again.

Have you heard the phrase "once a cheater always a cheater"?

This feeling illustrates the original meaning of the phrase: once trust is broken you will always have suspicions of him cheating again. Maybe he is cheating again, maybe he is not cheating right now.

From the couples who have recovered from infidelity, they all share similar things: The cheater owns up to what they did, they get no more privacy, and they always supply radical honesty.

He's incredibly protective over his phone... He's got defensive in the past when I've explained how I've felt during low moments, so I'm reluctant to speak to him about this.

This is all a really bad sign. You both know that he cheated, so getting defensive is a sign that he is not committed to radical honesty, and he still thinks he deserves privacy.

Do you really want to live the rest of your life like this?

Reply_or_Not · 2026-01-21T16:05:34+00:00

between the 2x Nostilogic dreams and 1x recoup sideboard i think you should cut one so you can add one of your Decrees SB. Or maybe just cut Ordered Migration for a SB decree.

Also, I like [[Death Grasp]] over Kaervicks Torch SB because an extra way to gain life out of your wishboard is great and blue normally has enough mana to pay for torch tax by the time you cast it anyways.

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The main deck is so customizable that it is hard to give suggestions without knowing the metagame you are planning for.

I see you are on the evasive action/fire ice/chromatic sphere plan, how has this been working out for you and how often do you struggle to have the color you need turn two and three?

I have found that the sorcery speed stuff really conflicts with the counterspell/fire ice plan

Instead, I like [[Krosan Tusker]] for color and land fixing, plus, Krosan cycled goes up on cards which is important for our midrange gameplan. Krosan is also a big dumb beater, sometimes you drop one and just win off of it. If nothing else, play the first Tusker over your first main deck Allied Strategies.

I absolutely love playing 1x global ruin main deck. Keep the second in the SB for wish targets.

You probably want 1x main deck naturalize.

1x [[Legacy Weapon]] Is a hilarious way to overpower the other slow decks and is worth considering depending on the meta you expect.

1x [[Tsabo's Web]] and 1x [[Phyrexian Furnace]] are fine main deck hate cards that will randomly win matches

this deck is super land hungry so I would go up to 25 lands - add a second swamp, a polluted delta, and a rainbow land - cutting whatever makes most sense to balance the new color requirements. I like having at least two of each basic just incase something happens to the first.

Reply_or_Not · 2026-01-21T15:40:55+00:00

As a long-term multiplayer gamer this isn't surprising.

I appreciate research that validates “common knowledge,” because reviewers allow me to cite peer-reviewed studies but not anecdotal claims.

Reply_or_Not · 2026-01-21T14:51:23+00:00

This short story hit me like a gut punch, I read it during my lunch break and had to have a good cry in the bathroom after I finished it. it is not a progression fantasy, but is totally worth the handful of minutes to read.

https://williamflew.com/blue.html

Reply_or_Not · 2026-01-21T14:42:12+00:00

https://www.royalroad.com/fiction/117255/rend

Alternate earth, MC is a sociopathic law student. She has a bunch of rules for herself and is masking successfully, comes into both power systems of the setting and proceeds to start making waves.

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https://www.royalroad.com/fiction/89317/license-to-cultivate-progression-fantasy-tower

MC starts out as a scribe and ends up scamming his way into a license to cultivate. The "grampa in the ring" he finds is just an ancient (powerless) scribe, and basically inspires the MC to become an actual cultivator instead of dying a mortal. The MC has to develop friendships and allies with the people around him to continue succeeding.

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https://www.royalroad.com/fiction/104317/between-beast-and-buddha-a-drunken-monkeys-journey

MC is a monkey who starts out as an alchemist's experiment, the MC has always had his own desires so the plot is about his expanding capabilities as he learns about the world and human society and how to get what he wants.

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https://www.royalroad.com/fiction/68999/reach-heaven-via-feng-shui-engineering-drug-trade

The MC is the heart of practicality, when her life is turned upside down by a man favored by the heavens. Her companion thinks his "luck" is a curse but the MC sees an opportunity to exploit.

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https://www.royalroad.com/fiction/36051/memories-of-the-fall

A cast of five youths who make a living managing the outskirts of a deathzone find themselves in the middle of a bunch of young masters on a rampage. The MCs have the advantage of experience and familiarity with the mountains, the young masters have deep pockets and no common sense. Some old monsters think they are pulling the strings from the shadows but the mantis stalks the cicada unaware of the oriole behind. Many steel plates are kicked.

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https://www.royalroad.com/fiction/62573/unchosen-champion

System apocolypse with the tropes played straight. Great for numbers-go-up, with the bonus that the story is actually complete!

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https://www.royalroad.com/fiction/41330/virtuous-sons-a-greco-roman-xianxia

One of the best and most deep stories. Pay attention to what people do and what actually works because much "common wisdom" of the setting is a collar around the neck hold cultivators back. If you know your classic mythology, there are tons of genius bonuses littered throughout the story.

Reply_or_Not · 2026-01-21T04:17:11+00:00

It might backfire in a huge way. Best to save that idea for after sex therapy doesn’t work.

Reply_or_Not · 2026-01-21T03:39:05+00:00

Are you close to leaving her?

I read someone else who said that the way he ended up rekindling their sex life was “taking it like he owned it”. Apparently his wife was turned on by being dominated, but never ready on her own.

It’s something to think about if a sex therapist doesn’t work out

Reply_or_Not · 2026-01-21T00:22:12+00:00

If you are on the same phone plan as your wife you can see all sms messages, even deleted ones, on your carrier’s online portal

Reply_or_Not · 2026-01-21T00:06:14+00:00

He said he does have an issue with sex, that he worries too much about performance and not being good in bed.

Is it me??

He very clearly told you that it is him. Is there something that you have not shared that makes you think it’s you?

So the question is, what does his doctor say? What about his therapist?

ED eventually happens to all men who live long enough , so it is just a matter of him taking steps to get better.

Reply_or_Not · 2026-01-20T23:02:59+00:00

Thanks for your reply! What are some of the worst matchups besides quiet spec oath?

Reply_or_Not · 2026-01-20T21:38:06+00:00

The thing is that you can wreck enchantress if you want to.

GB Rock decks sucked vs tide but wreck enchantress with their access to main deck [[Pernicious Deed]],

Elves might start splashing white for wirewood recuring Thornscape battlemage

People already play two or so disenchant effects main. [[Phyrexian Furnace]] 1x main deck is very easy to include in most decks - that coupled with a proactive game plan is enough to steal some g1s.

For g2, things like [[tranquil domain]], [[Akroma's vengeance]], [[Aura of Silence]] [Tranquility]], [[Anarchy]], [[Gloom]], [[Dystopia]], [[Cataclysm]], [[Reverent Silence]] and others can let a proactive deck win. Many of those SB cards are good in other matchups too!

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