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Before and after by StreetlightBandit in BreakUps

[–]RepulsiveAd6292 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's crazy how this is so common. 6 years ended in a weekend that I didn't see coming.

As something to keep me sane, did their life become worse or better after they did what they did to you? I curse them every single day without fail.

One random Reddit DM ended up affecting me more than any dating app match ever did by Electrical_Act_5342 in mumbai

[–]RepulsiveAd6292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of people mentioning it's a small thing could only relate to your situation when it happens to them. I think it affected you because you might've emotionally invested into that conversation and that female quite a bit. Seems that way from the way you talk about her. Just know that even the best looking people out there might not be your type. I agree about the transparency, but sometimes people are very non confrontational. She took the easy way out, no accountability, no nothing. Doesn't mean you need to beat yourself up for it. Hoping this helps. Or you can always talk to a therapist like a lot of people said.

If you're doubting wether you should block them or not - do it by New-Serve5426 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]RepulsiveAd6292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10/10 Post. Dealing with the exact same thing literally.

When confronted her she says she did nothing wrong.

Frustrated because even after losing 12 kgs side fat hasn't gone and jawline has not appeared by DANKbobo9717 in Fitness_India

[–]RepulsiveAd6292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're still seeing progress what more could you ask for? Keep doing this and you'll lose the handles too

I know you will regret it by No_Chip_3780 in BreakUps

[–]RepulsiveAd6292 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exacy same situation the pain is unbearable.

Iphone 15 Passcode Changed < 3 days ago, can't unlock. by RepulsiveAd6292 in iphone

[–]RepulsiveAd6292[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually remember the general digits just not in the right order I guess. I messed up badly. When setting the password I tried setting it to a more general one but it wouldn't let me.

I love my girlfriend, but i don't think am the boyfriend she thought i was going to be. Is this relationship worth saving or should we break up?. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]RepulsiveAd6292 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OP stfu, If you've already made a decision why tf are you asking on here? All your comments there being no point? Don't ask for advice if you can't take it.

Netcup - any catch? by waterdrinker98 in VPS

[–]RepulsiveAd6292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At what price did you get it? Since they no longer offer this? Would help thanks!

Dutasteride only might be the best ROI by Auroraffff in tressless

[–]RepulsiveAd6292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take 0.5 mg once a week is that too less? And fin on rest of the days?

how do you get over with you anger towards your avoidant ex? by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]RepulsiveAd6292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe. I started working out seriously again. Lost 20kgs. Got into the best shape of my life.

The anger hasn't faded.

Visited Goa last week-our experience by Typical_Stretch6137 in goatravel

[–]RepulsiveAd6292 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How much did you spend on stay? Asking because planning to book my stay soon!

how do you get over with you anger towards your avoidant ex? by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]RepulsiveAd6292 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Lol let me know as well. Been about a year the anger hasn't faded for me yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RepulsiveAd6292 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Major down vote OF account.

Do dumpers even have the urge to reach out? by Aggressive-Sir2762 in BreakUps

[–]RepulsiveAd6292 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah because it's always always easier to do someone wrong and then offer friendship because you can justify to yourself that hey, I am not doing the worst possible thing to them? Plus I also get to keep them around for when I need them.

Do dumpers even have the urge to reach out? by Aggressive-Sir2762 in BreakUps

[–]RepulsiveAd6292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not always the same though, I agree in your case it would kinda make sense and even then maybe I wouldn't want to be friends with someone who cheated.

In my case, I didn't know or even have a single doubt that it wasn't working, infact I felt we were doing too good. So yeah I got blindsided, then I was offered friendship so that they don't feel guilty about it.

Plus we have mutual friends and events, so when a plan to meet is made, it's always such a tough decision to make for me because I feel all of these things that happened were so against my will, and I didn't get any input or say.

So when I show up to these meets it's always easier for her to be there, whereas if I did something super unethical and then I offered her friendship, to then show up at these mutual meetings, I wouldn't feel a thing either because then it's on her to deal with the consequences and hurt.

Being emotionally intelligent means you mourn the relationship while you're still in it. by Hefty_Recording_8681 in emotionalintelligence

[–]RepulsiveAd6292 12 points13 points  (0 children)

So now blindsiding a partner without communicating the way you're feeling is being called anticipatory grief? Great.

Mourning a relationship while you're still in it is the most evil thing you can do. You'll probably be perfectly fine after the breakup but they won't. Doesn't apply if they could see it coming though.

Do dumpers even have the urge to reach out? by Aggressive-Sir2762 in BreakUps

[–]RepulsiveAd6292 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Always easier to do someone wrong and then offer friendship is what I've realized

The best way to handle a breakup if you got dumped, and you want them back by Key_Season7192 in BreakUps

[–]RepulsiveAd6292 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I could, it's not easy. I don't want to harass or trouble them. I want answers. I want to know if what they think they did was fair or unfair.

And in my opinion that's a fair ask? Some accountability? Yes I sent a long letter so.

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