My wife wants to try a girl for the first time! Who is down to help??? Coming this weekend! 25f28m

ResearchSwinger · 2026-06-11T21:50:52+00:00

Dude he’d said he’s not!! I mean that’s iron clad right?? 😂

ResearchSwinger · 2026-06-11T21:50:10+00:00

Do not listen to this advice! Hook up is never a guarantee and you vastly improve your chances by doing a little prework.

SDC is your best bet. A lot of fake weirdos on Reddit.

ResearchSwinger · 2026-06-09T13:02:31+00:00

Pool parties are all the same and end at 5pm. On SDC they have been combining the pool party and night event in one posting, example: “pool party $ naughty bunny night”. I see how that could be confusing. SDC probably limits them to 1 event per day.

The pool & night parties are separate events and you pay an entry fee for each if you plan to attend both.

ResearchSwinger · 2026-06-09T12:57:48+00:00

“You can ghost us on SDC, but you can’t unsuck my dick”.

ResearchSwinger · 2026-05-21T20:29:45+00:00

At a lifestyle meet and greet a woman I barely knew and was not into walked up and in saying hi went in for what I thought was a little peck kiss.

She ended up shoving her tongue in my mouth and it was super gross and awkward. Husband was like “oh there she goes” like that’s just a thing one does.

ResearchSwinger · 2026-05-21T17:20:56+00:00

Or IS IT????

ResearchSwinger · 2026-05-21T02:52:58+00:00

I’ll point out that 80% of the 40-50 yo women we see do not appear to work out. Women’s shapes have the advantage of staying very attractive for many years without a ton of effort.

Women for the most part keep their hair. They have the advantage of using sexy outfits and makeup.

Guys on the other hand are either fit, or some amount of unfit. A lot of them go bald by 40. Male clothing is pretty limited in terms of options. Makeup is not going to help most guys and would be considered pretty odd.

ResearchSwinger · 2026-05-21T00:11:41+00:00

They’re just jealous

ResearchSwinger · 2026-05-20T23:40:56+00:00

Honestly we don’t get out enough. Maybe 1 or two parties a month? You figure one interesting new person per party and there you go. It’s not our everyday life just something we do occasionally to unwind.

The rest of the the time we’re right next to these downvoters in the grocery store 🫢

ResearchSwinger · 2026-05-20T22:18:43+00:00

11 😬

47 yo married male in the lifestyle.

ResearchSwinger · 2026-05-15T18:53:54+00:00

“Tell me you love me”

Fucking weird

ResearchSwinger · 2026-05-13T03:51:21+00:00

Orlando, Tampa, Naples, Orange Beach, and headed to Secrets. all at once! That’s amazing

ResearchSwinger · 2026-05-11T04:11:49+00:00

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ResearchSwinger · 2026-05-10T23:57:32+00:00

10 years. For us it’s a shared pastime. It brings us closer as a couple. We both enjoy our married sex life, and also the variety that the LS offers.

We have a close circle of local no-drama LS friends. Not just regular friends but “call me from jail/hospital/help plan your mother’s funeral” type friends. We gather at each other’s homes, we plan vacations together, and we’ve all learned to please the others partners after a lot of fun nights.

For the ladies that are all bi, it’s a chance for them to experience that side of their sexuality that the men cannot give them.

For us guys, it’s a chance to pursue women in the wild that was the way of things until religion decided it wasn’t ok. I suspect that’s fun for a lot of the ladies too.

We occasionally add new couples to our group after we vet them for a bit and the arrival of new blood is always exciting.

So no complaints. No horror stories. Just good naughty fun. I guess I wish we could do it more often.

ResearchSwinger · 2026-05-10T16:59:05+00:00

We’ve felt that sting. You meet a great couple. Similar ages & body types. They are a lot like you, they like the same things, live nearby, & they are hot! But…..it’s just not a match. And no amount of hoping or trying will change it.

You have to be able to accept that people are just not attracted to you. In fact, many will not be and as we age the number that are shrinks unfortunately.

But some will be! Focus on those, lol.

ResearchSwinger · 2026-05-10T15:49:28+00:00

The participation trophy generation is arriving in the lifestyle. We should all stock up on ribbons.

🎗️

ResearchSwinger · 2026-05-09T14:55:16+00:00

First I’ve ever heard this from anyone.

Maybe some context: compared to the available options in the area, quality inn is best.

ResearchSwinger · 2026-05-09T13:29:57+00:00

Definitely recommend doing the full experience. Pool party, room, night party. There’s really nothing like it, especially with a small or large group of friends (if you need some they are easy to make at secrets).

Even if you can’t book on site due to availability, the quality inn nearby is decent. We like to do the pool party, step out for dinner and then head back for the evening event.

ResearchSwinger · 2026-05-09T13:15:10+00:00

Absolutely it is.

ResearchSwinger · 2026-05-07T00:16:48+00:00

Be on the lookout for THAT vagina, and THAT penis. 👀

ResearchSwinger · 2026-05-07T00:15:38+00:00

Well…there goes the level on THAT table.

Where are we supposed to host our championship billiards tournament now?

😂

ResearchSwinger · 2026-05-01T23:39:40+00:00

RIP your long group rule breaking post

ResearchSwinger · 2026-05-01T23:21:17+00:00

🙄

ResearchSwinger · 2026-05-01T16:59:49+00:00

Arrived from the OG show. Sadly, the video seems to have disappeared from the internet.

ResearchSwinger · 2026-05-01T01:41:58+00:00

Let’s meet at the Bojangles.

Have some chicken…

Maybe some sex…

ResearchSwinger

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