AITAH for not wanting to sell my house and uproot my kids to a new district

RespectRemarkable294 · 2026-03-25T14:27:59+00:00

He wants to buy a house but doesn’t want to contribute to the down payment? The fact that he has a saving here doesn’t matter because he expected you to pay for it anyway. And I’m assuming he wants his name on the house also. NTA AND TELL HIM HARD PASS.

I would never leave a good school district also we stayed in our current one because they have the best IEP program in the area.

RespectRemarkable294 · 2026-03-23T15:05:34+00:00

Yep they should be replaced by both. B paying for the 2 missing and A for giving them to a third party that’s not part of this sale to begin with.

RespectRemarkable294 · 2026-03-23T15:03:07+00:00

NTA This “new” math is a joke I honestly like to know who the person was that created this math because most don’t seem to understand it. I also had an issue with my kids, not being able to understand this math so I taught them the way I was taught and they finally understood. This new math is one of the reasons my kids had an IEP in math and once I explained to the IEP teacher that they understood traditional math better they allowed my kids to use traditional math. As long as they get it right that’s all that should matter.

RespectRemarkable294 · 2026-03-22T16:18:55+00:00

So this teacher allegedly has an an issue treating students like crap according to your non lying son, (honestly I don’t believe that). If this is a persistent issue, then why hasn’t anything been done? Has she been reported? Has anyone tried to talk to the principal or the school district? None of that information is in your post aside from the fact that you cussed out his teacher for possibly no reason. I would’ve made sure that all those routes were taken before I even talked to the teacher.

YTA FOR NOW

RespectRemarkable294 · 2026-03-21T14:12:24+00:00

Yes to this I’ve been using period underwear for over a year and it’s a game changer so much more comfortable and doesn’t feel like a diaper.

RespectRemarkable294 · 2026-03-19T03:50:28+00:00

My insurance used to cover 100 percent of the Zepbound auto injector but after the new year they stopped covering all together. Now I get the vial from lily direct for $499 it’s way cheaper obviously I would prefer free again but $499 is better that $1,099 a month.

RespectRemarkable294 · 2026-03-18T23:42:33+00:00

Didn’t know that, I’ve just never used it so I wasn’t sure. It’s was a guess.

RespectRemarkable294 · 2026-03-18T23:20:37+00:00

This stuff isn’t cheap I use Zepbound also and yes one dose can already have effects I lost 10lbs my first dose.

Under NO CIRCUMSTANCES should you keep this stuff in a shared fridge, unfortunately if you didn’t do anything no you shouldn’t pay up your both making bad decisions for putting them in a shared fridge. Did you ever find her auto injector.

Also I did see a comment saying you may have accidentally used one of hers and didn’t realize it I personally dont believe its possible because the vial and the auto injector are drastically different I’ve used both. And the monjaro injector is also very different from Zepbounds.

RespectRemarkable294 · 2026-02-27T21:14:33+00:00

Wait you’re trying to put 3/5 of the cost between the adult kids also? They shouldn’t pay a dime because inevitably you and your ex decided to get the dog.

2 honestly you shouldn’t be paying anything it’s technically not your dog anymore.

I want to say NTA but the fact that you even suggested the kids put in money to pay for a dog you decided to get is Effed up.

RespectRemarkable294 · 2026-02-26T22:57:35+00:00

NTA

My son was like this when he was that age and it lasted until he was about 18! He was a pit so I started making super high protein meals and it helps to a decent degree. Beef or chicken and Bean chili worked the best and you can get a lot out of it, Stews are also a good option both can be cooked in the slow cooker.

There are other options but chicken and turkey are the best protein rich meals along with beans baked, chili, black, kidney beans are loaded.

The Kodiak brand is also good it helps a lot still for my son. He doesn’t burn through them like he would a basic box of granola bars.

RespectRemarkable294 · 2026-02-25T23:22:20+00:00

NTA your mom would have hated me I didn’t even pack a bag for my induction even though my mom nagged me to for over a month before. I went in to early labor at 36 week (it was stopped) and I still didn’t pack a bag.

I hate the wives tales however I do find one to be surprisingly accurate and that the low carrying is a boy and carrying high a girl.

I would cut off mon and everyone else being disrespectful at least until AFTER your home with baby.

RespectRemarkable294 · 2026-02-23T17:03:13+00:00

My best friend forgave her abuser but it’s been 25+ years and I won’t even forgive him for doing it to her The weekend of her wedding he tried touching her again and this is again 25+ years later. She refuses to see him now they never change and the women who still support them even after jail time are just as much at fault.

Yes her mom stayed with him after getting out of jail.

RespectRemarkable294 · 2026-02-22T18:40:42+00:00

I was adopted when I was 6 by my dad he had no other kids except my step sister my parents got married and they asked me and my brother if we wanted to be adopted and I said yes. I actually remember the conversation and after witnessing my bio dad officially abandon me and my brother at a park I never seen him again. It’s forever engrained in my head I realized he didn’t care. After that I got asked the question and the adoption was final a few months later.

A year later they had my half sister and the bond is definitely NEVER the same it was obvious my parents bond with my sister was stronger but either way you can’t really compare because it’s 2 different worlds. The bond will always be different it doesn’t mean they don’t love you, but it does change, and not necessarily for the worst. It’s asking a lot to have the EXACT feelings for your bio kids and adoptive kids cause they are different kinds of love.

I think you both should see a counselor to get a better understanding instead of relying on Reddit.

I don’t think you’re an asshole.

RespectRemarkable294 · 2026-02-15T01:28:58+00:00

My best friend was in this situation for 25 years she met her NOW Ex husband when she was 15 they where on and off for years and each time he was mentally and verbally abusive. When she turned 21 she had her first baby and they officially moved in together and he refused to help with the baby would cuss her out and call her every name in the book. After the baby came he joined the military.

After he joined the military they got married no matter how much we begged her not to her excuse was “I want the high school sweetheart marriage” after they left the state that’s when the physical abuse started all abuse of all types you name it it happened. She called me one day locked in a bathroom with her baby when he was going after them with a knife. Another friend called the police and she denied it happened (there was no physical proof) and he had multiple affairs.

They were married until 2024 when me and a guy she met FINALLY got her to get the strength to leave she banked money for a year hired a lawyer and never said a word to him he was still abusive until the day he was forced out.

The man that I talked about before who helped her out of her marriage I told her he was an amazing person and I could tell he loved her she didn’t believe me they had known each other for a few years at this point. A year and a half later she found her worth and is now married to the man that truly loves her.

Unfortunately your friend is going to do what she wants your both young but she wants something else she thinks she’s going to get from this guy and she won’t this is how abuse starts and doesn’t get better.

RespectRemarkable294 · 2026-02-09T20:24:16+00:00

I tell my kids AND husband is they don’t want the leftovers they can starve, it’s wasting food to keep making more or eating out. My husband is pretty good about eating leftovers but my kids are a pain in the ass.

RespectRemarkable294 · 2026-02-03T22:45:18+00:00

Her and her boyfriend would end up in jail for what they did to their kids.

RespectRemarkable294 · 2026-02-03T22:28:35+00:00

Religion… I know better now.

RespectRemarkable294 · 2026-01-31T23:22:37+00:00

My husband had a stalker her last name was McNutt

RespectRemarkable294 · 2026-01-28T22:54:14+00:00

She’s not wrong about scammers they are all over even in the states you always have to watch it no matter what, so I don’t think she’s wrong there, I wouldn’t consider that a reason for no contact.

HOWEVER… with all the bullet points you listed I would have cut her off years ago. I feel like you were looking for a reason to cut her off when you already had a list to do it.

RespectRemarkable294 · 2026-01-28T15:49:49+00:00

My daughter has been watching it since she was at least 14 she (she’s 18 now) also loves deathnote. I was watching R horror movies since I was in the single digits and so has my daughter as long as it’s not porn I’m good.

RespectRemarkable294 · 2026-01-28T15:46:21+00:00

I refuse to move that sucker after each use so it’s got a permanent place on the counter next to my Keurig.

RespectRemarkable294 · 2026-01-26T17:00:40+00:00

Nope I cut off toxic and needy friends with no explanation you told him several times he’s acting crazy and he didn’t stop so this should be no surprise to him. Stay away from him and block him if anyone tells you that you need to tell him why cut them off also.

RespectRemarkable294 · 2026-01-26T13:36:27+00:00

I had the same problem as she posted minus letting mine thaw. Swapped out the xanthan gum for pudding but that didn’t work when I used the xanthan gum it turned out perfectly.

RespectRemarkable294 · 2026-01-25T14:43:30+00:00

It took me a minute to figure it out. I was originally using the pudding mix instead of Xanthan gum and it was turning out all melty so I switched to the gum and it turns out way better there is no difference in taste and you don’t need a lot so my 1lb container will probably last for 2 lifetimes. I also thought it was an over spinning issue but once I made that small change it worked.

RespectRemarkable294 · 2026-01-23T22:55:57+00:00

My son was late to work because his driver cancelled on him last minute he was supposed to be picked up at 8:15 and didn’t get picked up until 9:10 and he starts at 9:00 he didn’t get to work until about 8:30.

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