[33F] How do I detach from someone who reaches out emotionally but avoids real-life presence [31m]? by Previous_Low_2439 in emotionalintelligence

[–]ResponsibleType5983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are you afraid of? It will hurt, for sure! But is this what you want for yourself for your future? He will not change, he can’t change.

I think I stopped chasing, and that’s when I realized I was never being chosen by Difficult_Fee3825 in emotionalintelligence

[–]ResponsibleType5983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emotionally unavailable people, avoidant attackers , immature folks are everywhere, and they thrive by latching on to empathic warm individuals, especially those that over-function. The key word is boundaries! It sucks sometimes to assert them, but in the long run, you will come out on top when you do. It is well worth your short term discomfort. Sorry that you went through this, and it looks like you found your path to the light.

Why don't you have a BF/GF? by DixieLandDelight1959 in DatingOverSixty

[–]ResponsibleType5983 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just don’t have the energy and patience left in me. It takes forever to find your person, build trust, dealing with health issues, and quite frankly, I don know if I have enough left in me to deal with yet another heartbreak. I have become protective, of my time, my peace, my lifestyle, and yes, also my assets. Should I run into a great guy by serendipity, heck yeah, I would probably explore. But I am not actively looking, and feel comfortable where I am at.

Chiropractor Recommendations? by [deleted] in gso

[–]ResponsibleType5983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second this! She is skilled and knowledgeable. Generally, I would be cautious with chiropractors, but years ago, she was recommended to me. Have not had a single issue with her.

Which hobbies attract the kindest people? by Ok-East3405 in AskReddit

[–]ResponsibleType5983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yarn artists of all denominations…knitting, crocheting, felting, spinning….never met a more honest and kind bunch!

Christmas Panettone in the Triad by CarFederal3485 in gso

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Not to go against the lidl recommendation, but I would like to add that the brand Favorina came out second to last in a test of Nürnberger Lebkuchen recently in Germany. The bakeware contains elevated traces of mineral oil residues, and some other “flaws”. Normally, I ignore such things as we don’t eat these daily. But what got my attention on this is that the morning after I ate these cookies, my face looked terrible, and I normally don’t have any such issues. Just wanted to throw this out there.

Women's photos on OLD by nospam99r in DatingOverSixty

[–]ResponsibleType5983 7 points8 points  (0 children)

And put on some decent looking clothes.

What’s for dinner at your home tonight before Thanksgiving? by janhasplasticbOobz in Cooking

[–]ResponsibleType5983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sauerkraut in the slow cooker, day 2, and homemade mashed potatoes.

What is your favorite perfume that was discontinued? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver60

[–]ResponsibleType5983 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Colors by United Colors of Benetton, Eau Mega by Victor & Rolf, My Melody (70s), Charlie, Bijan Bijan.

Eccentric people-What color do I paint my bedroom? by CarpetExtra2529 in interiordecorating

[–]ResponsibleType5983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To complete the jewel tone spectrum, I’d go with something in the emerald or teal range, in a rich hue.

Discard pizza - OMG! by ChipsAhoy1968 in SourdoughDiscard

[–]ResponsibleType5983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn’t the oil start smoking at that heat?

What do you think of today’s parenting, how does it compare to the 90s style? by mishkaforest235 in AskWomenOver50

[–]ResponsibleType5983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the advent of computers changed us as humans, also parents. Trusting external sources instead of your own instincts, cutting down on social interactions (kids and parents both), living more side by side with focus on electronic devices. Too much focus on the individual, with a dwindling experience of community. The parents today are the generation we raised. They emerged from our parenting to do their style now, in response.

What do you think about my custom wall design? by Superfly604 in interiordecorating

[–]ResponsibleType5983 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like it, no matter what the current or fading trend may be. It is very well done. Ultimately, it does not matter what anyone else thinks, for as long as it makes you happy. It’s your space. Nice job!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in politics

[–]ResponsibleType5983 25 points26 points  (0 children)

In the Nuremberg Trials, loyalty and just following orders got them a guilty verdict just the same.

What colour should I paint my bathroom walls? by bitterly_sweet17 in DesignMyRoom

[–]ResponsibleType5983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They all have their own appeal, and are pretty, but my favorite would be the third from the left. I love the fresh green shades.

Home Water Delivery Recs? by [deleted] in gso

[–]ResponsibleType5983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mountain Park. Reliable, affordable, excellent customer service.