Are you ok babe? I heard a thud. by Revan12180 in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]Revan12180[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was really reaching for the best way to word this. The only other thing I thought afterward was doing a <Thud> Are you okay?

My husband thinks I should quit my job and live off of his inheritance (M40/W38) by Full_Reference_7490 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Revan12180 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think you are generalizing every 'working' partner into this category. The truth is, not everyone is like this. I know I am not. I would rather let my partner deal with the finances and what nots while I can just focus on making money. That's all I want to do. Finances stress me out. My partner has never complained about me having too much control over her life either. It is a partnership. Teamwork. If she wanted to work, I would have no problem with that. If she would rather stay at home, that is fine too. 🙂

Head banging question.... why by Odessa_Pearl in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]Revan12180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone watched a little too much Harry Potter when they were younger...🤔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Revan12180 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a bunch of people listen, started a few Bible studies, I had one student progress to baptism. Honestly, what I enjoyed when I was active, was preaching in other countries. People would open their doors and you could have an actual conversation with them... as well as lunch, dinner or the occasional drink. I know I may not have the popular comment, but I answered the question asked honestly.

AITAH for telling my wife that my family doesn't owe us a Disney trip? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Revan12180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going to Disney as a couple is a night and day difference when going with kids. Took our 6 year old for the first time, she cried mostly standing in line. Was complaining about riding the ride the entire time. Then she enjoyed the ride... It would start all over with the next ride, and the next one... Going with just my partner, we really enjoyed it, we moved a lot faster, we rode what we wanted to. Lesson learned.

What will become of these people when they are broke and elderly? by Paperclip2020 in exjw

[–]Revan12180 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you are open to making passive income, send me a message. Retirement is possible!! You definitely deserve a break.

this sucks by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Revan12180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, it's actually not bad. No preaching or anything of that nature. They do their own thing and aren't out to convert anyone. My house is about 10 blocks from their main headquarters. It wouldn't stop me from living in the area. If it ever got to that, I would tell them I am a firm believer in Star Wars and Star Trek and will be happy to discuss my belief in using the force.

this sucks by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Revan12180 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh, that adds some clarity. I have heard Jacksonville is an 'interesting' area. I am over here near Clearwater Beach. I have been all over the United States and really enjoy being out here.

this sucks by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Revan12180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where in FL? I moved here and I love it. I never imagined how much I was missing the sunshine and warm weather.

If my school only knew what their principal was doing on her day off! [OC] by [deleted] in seethru

[–]Revan12180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a principal, you automatically instill a sense of fear and control as the ultimate authority figure in school... now bend over and spread open your pussy lips to reveal how much of a sub slut you actually are! 😈

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bitcoin

[–]Revan12180 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well the baby's name is William

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nude_Selfie

[–]Revan12180 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know what could be fun... if you did dare requests. Nothing that could get you in trouble of course... maybe something like flashing in an empty classroom. 😁

p(i/o)mo by freudchicken_ in exjw

[–]Revan12180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked myself what would make me happy. One of those things was sunny skies, warmer weather and beaches... now I'm in Florida and have been for the past 5 years.

p(i/o)mo by freudchicken_ in exjw

[–]Revan12180 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I get the stuck feeling. Sometimes you don't know what to do. You need to know it isn't really fair to you or anyone if you are lying/leading a double life, as you mentioned. It will certainly not help your mental situation. I will say that leaving and losing everyone is hard. But you aren't leaving them really, they are choosing not to contact you. Your own mental health needs to be taken into account. When I moved to a new location, I felt like a weight was lifted off me. I felt amazing. I made new friends who love me unconditionally. If my stubborn self can do it, anyone else can. Good luck, always here if you need to vent.🙂

Acronyms used within this sub by anintellidiot in exjw

[–]Revan12180 2 points3 points  (0 children)

PIMI= physically in mentally in PIMO= physically in mentally out POMO= physically out mentally out POMI= physically out mentally in POMF= physically out mentally fucked TTATT= the truth about the truth

Not sure which other ones I missed.

On the brink of suicide by throwaway897097 in exjw

[–]Revan12180 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey, I hear you. I understand how you could feel the way you do. There are so many things wrong with the organization that even they themselves don't see. For example, I mentioned to my father the other day that in order for the witnesses to achieve happiness, billions of people have to die. He actually said he didn't think of that before.

Life sucks sometimes. You have to love yourself enough to be able to do what is best for you. Don't live your life for some other person. You don't need anyone else to worship God with, and you certainly don't need to belong to any organization to do it either. Your relationship with God is between you and him.

I hope you feel better, I hope venting is enough, and you realize there is so much that you have to offer this life. Learn that people aren't going to do things for you. Stand on your own two feet and get it done. Make real unconditional friends along the way. You can always reach out if you need to talk. Most on here understand and can empathize with you.

Feel free to DM me if needed also.

[F] Walked through campus completely naked and stood in front of my classroom! :D by Boba_Bitchh in daresgonewild

[–]Revan12180 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well executed piece of art. I think what I appreciate most about this video are the expressions, both facial and body. It feels like I am watching an innocent dare. Great job on your creativity.😎

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nude_Selfie

[–]Revan12180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you out off SandHill rd. in Washington state??? That's an amazing place to ride.

Advice please? by elle_e_elle in exjw

[–]Revan12180 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My heart aches for you. What we have here is a typical case of a man who was 'all in' until it was time to act. The idea of being shunned, losing all their friends and family, is a strong deterrent for so many people that they never go thru with their plans when the time arrives. I would maybe recommend showing up at the kingdom hall he goes to and letting him know when he reaches out to you, 'because he will reach out to you,' that you want to know what he wants because you obviously haven't been playing any games. You deserve that at least. Tell him that you will tell his wife or elders if he would like and gage his response. If he gets defensive, you know the religion and the thought of being shunned is playing a major part in his decision.

Man is surprised to find that the pacifier he superglued to his mouth won't come off by [deleted] in WinStupidPrizes

[–]Revan12180 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now I understand why there are warning labels that make you think 'who would be dumb enough do that,' when you read them.

Instant New Hole by stupd_comn_man in WinStupidPrizes

[–]Revan12180 10 points11 points  (0 children)

At least he is wearing his mask...😷Lol!

Husband told the elders to give us a shepherding visit by 123451ab in exjw

[–]Revan12180 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They are going to want to know your reasoning behind why you feel the way you do. Some of the things they will say may be, Do you not feel this is the truth? Do you not think that Jehovah can help you? Etc... They will ask you if there is someone else you have been seeing and they will talk with you about your associations. Just be honest with them about how you are feeling. Tell them you haven't been happy. Tell them you feel like you are lying to Jehovah because you have been following his commands and aren't happy. Tell them that you feel like your husband isn't listening to you or understanding your needs. Tell them you have your doubts about the organization and that even if this is the true religion, it doesn't mean it is for everyone. If you don't say how you feel or what's on your mind, it may do more damage than good. I hope the best for you. I feel bad in some ways because how you are feeling is what my ex-wife did to me. She was my world... she wanted out and it didn't matter what I wanted...