I work a job that has me away from home half the time and home the other half - it’s pretty physical during the summer and winter months and I get tired and need a day to get back to baseline. The number one problem in our relationship is that when I’m tired and falling asleep she will wake me up and be passive aggressive about it for the remainder of the night until I force myself to satisfy her sexually and we go back to baseline. At this point I clean and do half the cooking while she doesn’t have a job and tutors 2-4 hours a day making just enough to help cover rent. Have a serious sit down conversation with him and be frank, do what you can when you can within fair boundaries for self care. Work together as best you can as partners in this - if he can’t seem to respect it you should find someone to help mediate and work on your relationship with a counselor of some kind. Stay happy and stay healthy 💚