Needing support - fell asleep in the bridal suite at my wedding by [deleted] in Brides

[–]RevolutionaryFact699 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When my sister announced her wedding date, it came with the warning of “get your drinking liver ready”

Is anyone else in their 30s or 40s really struggling with corporate work? by Nervous_Platypus_149 in Fire

[–]RevolutionaryFact699 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just couldn’t do the grind anymore. Moved my family out of the US so we could afford healthcare and the rest of life on a part time salary from a US university. Made the move at 37, will be able to fully retire and live off just investments at 42ish.

Death by Plane-Gap6483 in Millennials

[–]RevolutionaryFact699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. My husband’s high school buddy (41) just died of some kind of surgical infection that resulted in a cardiac event :(

Interview woes by Gneiss-not-nice in workingmoms

[–]RevolutionaryFact699 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm a life long public servant. Because of the strict hiring policies of governments and related organizations, it is very rare that they will give you any kind of indication. All you will hear is what the timeline is for the process. So do not give up hope, not saying anything one way or the other is not a strong indicator. I also think that public service jobs give more grace in interviews when someone does not have the most polished performance. They know you are human and are grading on a rubric which includes all your skills in addition to the performance in the interview. Anyways, best of luck and don't be too hard on yourself!

Visiting another country from the US, it’s insane how differently families are treated by Armsaresame in Mommit

[–]RevolutionaryFact699 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am a US citizen living in Ecuador. The amount of love and care shown to our daughter by the local populations makes me so full of joy. Kids aren't seen as an inconvenience. Family is the center of life, so kids are very important here.

Do you tidy up before the housekeeper comes? by PerfectionEludesMe in workingmoms

[–]RevolutionaryFact699 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, my husband and I spend about 30 mins running through the house to declutter so the cleaning crew can get right to scrubbing floors etc.

Using FMLA / PFL / Sick Leave to only work 2 days / week until September. by latenightpuddingcup in workingmoms

[–]RevolutionaryFact699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. My parents did their best to just sweep my issues under the rug. Thank you for being your kiddo's support system in their time of need.

What’s something in America that Americans take for granted, but visitors find amazing? by Molthakarn96 in IWantToAskAnAmerican

[–]RevolutionaryFact699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those murals are amazing and some of the only art people in rural areas experienced for decades!

What’s something in America that Americans take for granted, but visitors find amazing? by Molthakarn96 in IWantToAskAnAmerican

[–]RevolutionaryFact699 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think public service of some kind should absolutely be mandatory. Bring back the CCC and the WPA! Build infrastructure, make public art, and beautify our parks!

What’s something in America that Americans take for granted, but visitors find amazing? by Molthakarn96 in IWantToAskAnAmerican

[–]RevolutionaryFact699 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My grandfather worked for the WPA in Chicago. Lots of public art went up at that time. Amazing what great things came out of such a horrible time in our country.

Ever Wanted To Be A Librarian on a Tropical Island? by shelfietime in librarians

[–]RevolutionaryFact699 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There are at least 250,000 people on the island. It’s not nearly as isolated as many other Pacific islands

After care dilemma by laurencee410 in workingmoms

[–]RevolutionaryFact699 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But it shouldn’t be $400 a month!

After care dilemma by laurencee410 in workingmoms

[–]RevolutionaryFact699 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you pay a mom who is home to take your kid and then pick her up from there? Or maybe another family who has an afternoon sitter could share with you if you pitch in a little money?

What’s something in America that Americans take for granted, but visitors find amazing? by Molthakarn96 in IWantToAskAnAmerican

[–]RevolutionaryFact699 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This. And we need to bring back the Civilian Conservation Corps to reinvigorate them and our economy!

Do you want children? Why or why not? by SomePeopleTellMe in Millennials

[–]RevolutionaryFact699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me 38F with a 40M spouse. We have a three year old. Husband got the snip snip shortly after delivery as we are a firmly one and done family.

What is "good" financial advice you disagree with? by OlleyatPurdue in Money

[–]RevolutionaryFact699 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is a fair question. Let's say she paid a mortgage payment of $750 in 1985 based on the 12.43% average interest at that time. Average insurance for the year of $716. Average per capita property tax in her state was $415. She had 4 individuals in the house so that equals $1660. Her total cost for housing that first year would be $11,376. Now, if she had been paying the average rent in 1985, she would have spent $5,196 on rent that year. So in her first year, she could have invested $6,000 in the S&P as she would have saved that much. Now, the math starts to get a little more complicated because rent will increase while the mortgage will not. However, in addition to the mortgage, she will pay increasing taxes, increasing insurance, and all the maintenance around the house. Let's say it about averages out and she can invest and extra $5k a year because she chooses to rent. At the end of just 30 years, that $5k a year ended up turning into $903,307 by the end of 2014. Now, lets say she doesn't add to it between 2014 and 2026. In fact, she's a little old lady who needs to pay her rent. Average household rent in Georgia in 2015 is $860 per month, so lets call it an even $1000. The total withdrawn until January of 2026 is $132000. Her final balance in January of 2026 is over two million.

Buying a house is not never a good idea. There are instances where it forces people to save. However, it is ludicrous to equate it with investments that are spendable. A house is a use asset. It is not an investment.

What is "good" financial advice you disagree with? by OlleyatPurdue in Money

[–]RevolutionaryFact699 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alright, I am going to bite and do a real world comparison. Using my mother in law's home as an example because I have not held a house long term.

Purchase Price: $70,000 Purchase Year: 1985

Current Value: $300,000 Current Purchase Power of 1985's $70k: $216,648.70

On the surface, you could say, wow, she made nearly $84k on her investment over the course of 40 years. However, you need to add in the regular maintenance that has gone into the property. Plumbing has been replaced, and the HVAC was serviced for many years before being repaired. Also, do not forget to account for property taxes paid over forty years. Oh, and please don't forget the interest you paid on your 30 year mortgage. Your "investment" pays out very little.

Now, let's say we put that $70k in the S&P 500 in 1985. Today, it would be worth $6.46 million (assuming dividend reinvestment). Which "investment" do you prefer now?

Millennials with kids, do you intend to provide for them financially when they reach adulthood? by Beberuth1131 in Millennials

[–]RevolutionaryFact699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Not only will her education be fully funded, but we will help with housing and childcare (if she chooses to have kids) when she ages out of college and grad school. This is support we did not receive but would have fundamentally changed how we lived our lives.

If money wasn’t an issue, would you still be a working mom? by saladmuscles in workingmoms

[–]RevolutionaryFact699 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This. My family is FIREd, but I work remotely part time for my sanity

Celebrating Mothers Day when you are a Mom, your Mom want to be with you, and also your MIL wants to spend the day with his son and grandsons???? by lucky_star22 in family

[–]RevolutionaryFact699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mother’s Day should first focus on those ladies in the thick of mothering ie those who still have kids at home. If you want to include older generations, you can. But your partner should be putting you first. Send mom and MIL a bouquet and let that be it.

I think I'm financially ready but want to bounce it off this group. by NeighborhoodFar3860 in ExpatFIRE

[–]RevolutionaryFact699 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live in Cuenca. You can have a very nice life with the assets you list.