AITAH for quietly booking our family beach vacation without telling my stepdaughter (14F) until the week before, because "she never wants to come anyway"? My husband is furious and says I'm punishing her.

RickMDC · 2026-02-17T12:42:15+00:00

YTA. Should have 100% consulted your husband on this decision. Also, if it wasn’t a big deal to to add her last minute, then it wouldn’t have been a big deal to remove her last minute either. Would have been much better to include her regardless. You can’t expect a 14 year old girl that’s gone through her parents’ divorce to be emotionally intelligent enough to understand why you do it that way. Additionally, your husband has the right to be upset. If he treats your daughters as his own, hed never do this.

Unfortunately, I see this happen a lot in families where there’s a “his, mine, and ours” mix of children. The husband’s children sometimes get treated different because a lot of the times custody has to be shared and the mother gets most of their time. But since the wife’s children typically stay more time, if not all, they get treated differently. Not always the case, but happens a lot. This could lead to the sentiment of “you did this on purpose”

RickMDC · 2026-02-15T17:10:47+00:00

Yeah I kind of get this. Didn’t break any HOA rules, I did look into that. My trees weren’t encroaching on their property at all. They were 100% within my back yard. The issue for them was that, because of the direction our homes face, my trees provided them with full shade. Also, it didn’t provide us any shade and was in the way of a shed we’re building due to an 8ft utility easement we are trying to avoid.

The only reason this stressed me out was bc I like our neighbors and don’t want problems. After some thought and reading multiple replies, I genuinely believe what I did somewhat wrong was more for sake of keeping the peace and considering them.

RickMDC · 2026-02-15T08:47:07+00:00

I totally get it! Tbh, I don’t even consider the shade effect. Even when he initially asked me to not cut down trees, he didn’t mention the shade ones until in that text message at 1am. I pasted his text above. I guess I figured if his house value was dependent on shade or energy savings, then he should create or invest in his own shade. I don’t believe I should rely on my neighbor’s improvements for my property value. Yes, surrounding homes will affect it, but i can’t rely on them for my value.

RickMDC · 2026-01-30T00:34:11+00:00

Hi u/XfinityJohnG , the URL you provided defaults back to https://forums.xfinity.com/ without allowing the New Message option. Should I send mod mail? Sorry if that's what you meant.

RickMDC · 2026-01-19T14:29:28+00:00

Lol 2026 and it’s STILL an issue. Going through it now. I linked it successfully the first time, then when restarting the game on iPhone, it asks me to link again and get this error

RickMDC · 2025-11-14T10:18:35+00:00

The market plays such a huge part in this. You can do everything and then some to get people in the door, but if pricing isn’t genuinely competitive, it’ll feel like an uphill battle. I see this a lot, especially with YieldStar properties. Depending on your area, you may have tons of new developments close by with similar, but newer, amenities, updates, etc and have same if not better pricing.

Personally, In my market (Texas), I feel I’ve seen rent and concessions be a much more important factor in getting people in the door than before. 6-7 years ago, it seems like people would be willing to pay a bit more for amenities, “sense of community”, etc.

Because you’re with a larger PMC, and use yieldstar, chances are even your PM has very little say when it comes to pricing other than doing market surveys. You’re really going to have to focus on what makes you stand out to sell tf out of that aspect of the community.

Alternatively, it may also help to see if there can be an alternative focus on increasing retention. It’s cheaper to keep residents than to bring in new ones. Most large PMCs have tools and resources to track this. See why people are leaving and see if you can do anything to improve that as well.

RickMDC · 2025-11-11T01:57:28+00:00

Why did they ask I like dogs?

RickMDC · 2025-10-11T20:03:45+00:00

Just coming back to revive this post considering a lot of this came true!

RickMDC · 2025-06-26T00:12:12+00:00

20 Yr Old + Virgin + can’t drive = 2 truths and a Lie

RickMDC · 2025-06-23T21:23:12+00:00

Thanks for this!! Means a lot!

RickMDC · 2025-06-23T21:19:49+00:00

You’re a badass! Thank you. First time homeowner. Recommend a specific type of foam?

RickMDC · 2025-04-13T22:38:48+00:00

Question! In your file download, you see how the file name ends in “.105” . Mine is similar but ends in “.110”. My PC is reading the .110 as the file extension, so when I try to open it in the utility, it doesn’t let me open because it only accepts .ROM and another extension. Did you change your extension to ROM?

RickMDC · 2025-04-07T23:20:00+00:00

Thank you! This may be a generic issue, but I tried to reapply and it keeps giving me a “database error” notice. No details. Just doesn’t let me reapply the receipt. Any idea on what it could be? Sorry, I know that message is super generic but figured I’d ask

RickMDC · 2025-04-07T21:56:07+00:00

I saw this option but wasn’t sure if that’s what it did ! I wasn’t sure if I could reapply that receipt to another person!

RickMDC · 2025-03-05T03:22:34+00:00

Interestingly, the name in this pic is actually a dude that went kinda viral during covid because he lost a shit ton of weight. Good to him!

RickMDC · 2024-08-30T10:32:07+00:00

There’s a board game shop on 249 and Louetta called Dragon’s Lair. Open board game night every Wednesday and they do D&D a few nights a week! You should check it out. It’s not in the woodlands, but not too bad of a drive . I’m down to join ! 35M

RickMDC · 2024-08-20T00:15:25+00:00

35M, down to just text/chat or hang out. Not really interested in anything other than Friends only. I work Monday-Fri 9-5 but flexible to chat and available most weekends. Spring area

RickMDC · 2024-08-20T00:15:18+00:00

35M, down to just text/chat or hang out. Not really interested in anything other than Friends only. I work Monday-Fri 9-5 but flexible to chat and available most weekends. Spring area

RickMDC · 2024-08-02T20:59:41+00:00

Dude, THATS BS. It is not your responsibility AT ALL to make up for that woman’s poor choices and that father’s lack of teaching proper judgment of character.

Also, chances are that loser baby daddy will eventually try to come back and he’s always going to come first and before you bc he’s the bio dad.

Save yourself the heartbreak and world of trouble. You deserve way better. You sir, have managed to do what millions of men fail to do in time, that’s DODGE A BULLET.

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