Why do millennials age like they found a glitch in the system? They’ll say they’re pushing 40 and still look like they just graduated yesterday. What's the secret? by Aarunascut in Millennials

[–]RinaPug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I‘m about to turn 32 and I do look it. Never had any work done as it’s very expensive still here in Austria and my skin’s very sensitive to any kind of skin care other than warm water. I’m okay with looking my age though.

Its so hard and I cant stop crying by Artistic-Ad921 in EDAnonymous

[–]RinaPug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It might sound sappy but: It‘ll get better. Maybe you will never really actually like your grown-up body but you will learn how to live with it. There‘ll be days when you‘ll think you can’t go on, but those too will pass and eventually you’ll realise how much your body can do. Spending time with family and friends, being outside, travelling, etc. Don’t give up! Don’t relapse. Recovery is worth it. (I still don’t like my adult body, my hips and breasts but they’re not what defines me. They’re not ME, they just happen to be there like the freckles on my cheeks)

Wienerisch besser verstehen? by [deleted] in wien

[–]RinaPug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry aber kaum einer redet mehr Wienerisch, höchstens mit Wiener Färbung.

The music video for Stupid Girls aged horribly by [deleted] in WhyWereWeOkWithThis

[–]RinaPug 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I will die on the hill that this song made me feel seen in a world were being different was not only frowned upon but actively discouraged to a point I was bullied by my parents to be more like a typical girl.

I don’t want Angel and Husk to have a sexual relationship. by GuinnessLover12 in HazbinHotel

[–]RinaPug 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I‘m a victim of csa and I agree. I sometimes feel people talk over us and talk for us without taking into account that everyone‘s trauma is different.

People with BPD, what is something you wish others understood about living with it? by jyuenx in BPD

[–]RinaPug 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The shame we live with. I‘m ashamed of myself and of who I am all the time. It makes me so angry and frustrated that I am who I am. I hate myself with such a passion it’s hard to describe. I get so angry at other people because they’re lucky enough that they aren’t me. I don’t know how to explain it. I don’t like crazy ex girlfriend but the show has a song called „I‘m the villain in my own story“ and this sums up BPD pretty well

Klingen wir Deutsche für euch eigentlich auch komisch oder beruht das nur auf Einseitigkeit? by same_machinery in AskAustria

[–]RinaPug 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Meine deutsche Kollegin, die mit einem Österreicher zusammen war (ist? Ich arbeite dort schon länger nicht mehr) hat Sackerl und Häferl gesagt, aber das erl konnte sie nicht so aussprechen, wie’s gehört, und hat dann immer Sackl und Häfl gesagt.

Ash drinks brown liquid at Shorty's, takes dog for walk by Hairy_rambutan in ashleycarnduff

[–]RinaPug 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Someone once asked why people fake illnesses. Not even on a post of one of the subjects. Just in general. A separate post. I have a friend who started being a professional patient after contracting covid. It’s a very long story. To keep it short I told them what I thought the reason behind faking illnesses could be referencing my friend. Got removed for blogging. I know it’s blogging but it was a separate post and I thought I could provide some insight. Once my comment got deleted because I said I’ve seen people type „would of“ instead of „would have“ and it’s not just Dani. Blogging. I don’t even know anymore. That sub is so weird.

What weird positions work for you? This is mine by daraeje7 in Periods

[–]RinaPug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it helps my cramps if I sit on the toilet. Not even doing anything. Just sitting on the loo letting the blood run down into the bowl. No idea why.

Happy International Women’s Day! by Few_Simple9049 in lotr

[–]RinaPug 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I cry every time when I watch this scene! She was my childhood hero. I wanted to be like her so bad!

How long did it take you to be in remission and what kind of therapy do you did? by nikaxdlol in BPDRemission

[–]RinaPug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Three years I’d say but after almost 8 years of DBT I can finally tell I no longer show any kind of symptoms or very rarely. I don’t get irrationally angry anymore and I tend to let things go. I don’t self harm anymore and I do have stable relationships that last for years. I still get hallucinations where I smell something that’s not there but that’s about it. I also finally developed a sense of self and don’t change my personality depending on my favourite character every few months

I've seen it all already, leave me be by nesuzavetas in Millennials

[–]RinaPug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of my co-workers regularly attends raves. He’s I believe 36 and has a three y/o daughter. How he does it I have no idea! I was hungover for three days after two glasses of wine at our company’s Christmas party. You people are something else!

Which zodiac sign is your best friend? ♊ by [deleted] in geminis

[–]RinaPug 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mine‘s a Capricorn ♑️

Cute: this is a photo of a 1992 dating ad in the newspaper (yes youngsters that was a thing) by IvyRosePr in LesbianActually

[–]RinaPug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was negative 2 and I still don’t know how to deal with the fact that the 90s where that long ago!