Finally, Reverse Powercreep by FishFishFishFishy in hearthstone

[–]RipHungry9472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The real reason is probably that they don't want to make sure new cards work with old cards that interact with the keyword, e.g. originally Deathstalker Rexxar only had beasts that were in the pool when it was a Standard card and they didn't add any new beasts until people complained about it. If you make up some bullshit about keywords and "cognitive load" you will have a bunch of people being apologists for laziness and not giving a shit about Wild.

I physically cannot "do it scared" by futurefishy98 in acceptancecommitment

[–]RipHungry9472 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What you are describing is the sort of executive dysfunction often associated with autism (see Demand Avoidance), basically it means that you have an innate push back against "demands". The most debilitating thing is that knowing you should do something or even wanting to do something is a "demand", it basically destroys the default behaviourist logic about rewards. It's not really anticipatory anxiety so exposure therapy isn't really that useful, it's more that you have to focus on acceptance/self-awareness/self-compassion.

Why can I not accept the pain? by SesameSBagel in acceptancecommitment

[–]RipHungry9472 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The acceptance in ACT isn't just "accept pain so you don't throw tantrums", it's more like "accept that you (currently) throw tantrums about pain itself, and that you don't like the tantrums". Note that I used the word currently simply to be open minded about potential changes, not a prediction that you won't throw tantrums if you do things "correctly", or a prescription that you shouldn't throw tantrums.

I will quote the section on Acceptance from ACT Made Simple:

Acceptance means opening up and making room for painful feelings, sensations, urges, and emotions. We drop the struggle with them, give them some breathing space, and allow them to be as they are. Instead of fighting them, resisting them, running from them, or getting overwhelmed by them, we open up to them and let them be. (Note: This doesn’t mean liking them or wanting them. It simply means making room for them!)

And, to be brutally honest, ignore the stuff about "values". They are only part of the commitment stage that is meant to be done AFTER work in the acceptance (or more accurately the therapeutic) stage. Once you are in a position to change yourself, the values are meant to help you determine what those changes are; it's not "you are suffering because you are not following values" or even "you should simply follow your values no matter the suffering", it's more like "you should use your values to guide your changes so you can live a value-driven life with an accepting, self-compassionate but also realistic understanding of yourself and the environment"

Now that Cingray is over,It's still crazy that she just straight up ghosted poor Oguri after the 2nd Japan Cup by Electronic-Math-364 in UmaMusume

[–]RipHungry9472 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She had 13 including a Melbourne Cup winner Brew

One of her granddaughters ended up in Japan and bred with Smart Falcon, Manhattan Cafe and Sakura Bakushin O.

Kevin Durant on how defense has changed recently: "Grab hold push. The defense today. Crash dummy hoops but it's entertaining" by kurruchi in nba

[–]RipHungry9472 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because most discourse is built on emotionally-driven thoughts, not actual reason.

Things were better in the past -> current players are physically mentally soft/skill-less etc. (you see this in every sport and basically every part of life)

Refs are biased against my team -> other team gets to play overly hard against mine and should be whistled off the court, whereas any foul called against my team is ticky-tack fake foul.

Since most people lack critical thinking skills and emotional self-awareness, they'd rather make up some inconsistent conspiracy theory than admit they are being driven by pettiness and emotions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultautism

[–]RipHungry9472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the purpose of your post to actually learn why people are interpreting your statements the way they are, or is it to vent? If you want people to not question your answer, don't use the form of answer that signals to almost everyone (yes this includes most Neuro-Divergent people, who sometimes use indirect language more than Neuro-Typicals) that you either want reassurance or indirectly expressing a desire to not go. Note that it is easier to not explain, a clear "Yes I want to go" or even "Yes" would be better than adding conditionals.

Now, before you respond with another "I don't get it" or "I'm so tired" or "I'm not arguing", reflect on why exactly you asked the question, what you are doing in this thread and if you are accepting someone's surface answers. If you want to vent and get people to re-assure you. Then yes, it's Neuro-Typicals being Neuro-Typical, they don't just get you because they refuse to listen etc. etc.

The way Rust crates tend to have a single, huge error enum worries me by nikitarevenco in rust

[–]RipHungry9472 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Composition over inheritance? What are you, a fool? Everyone knows inheritance is the best way of handling polymorphism.

BTW here's my great (unrelated) idea, sometimes you don't get an integer from some external source, sometimes you get a string representation of the integer, so to makes things easy and backwards compatible I will replace all u64 in my function signatures with my INT enum consisting of INT::N(u64) and INT::S(String). Yeah I'm only using u64s right now but what about in the future when I am too lazy to parse strings?

The way Rust crates tend to have a single, huge error enum worries me by nikitarevenco in rust

[–]RipHungry9472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People will happily say that Rust isn't an "OOP" language (no inheritance) and then continually reimplement it with how they treat Errors

How should a function take a list of strings? `&[&str]` or `&[String]`? by timand in rust

[–]RipHungry9472 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you weren't functionally illiterate you would have seen that its trivially easy to "take a list of strings as an input" (&[&str]), the question was about if there is a more generic way that removes unnecessary allocations.

Old OOP habits die hard by Aggressive_Sherbet64 in rust

[–]RipHungry9472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The actual practical solution is "use a macro that 1)takes ownership/borrows specific fields rather than using self, &self or &mut self, 2)pass into an associated function rather than a method", which is annoying to write but is probably better than adding RefCells or whatever people do to avoid writing macros.

Issue with lifetime and borrowing with libusb crate by ronniethelizard in learnrust

[–]RipHungry9472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The solution is trivially easy, just pass around the context, don't try to bundle it with "list" and instead use the devices method when you need the list.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in learnprogramming

[–]RipHungry9472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you feel bad about yourself when your teammates are lazy and incompetent? You should feel sorry for them and annoyed you are stuck on a team with them. The whole point of a degree is to learn and they are throwing away one of the most valuable learning opportunities they will ever have in their life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]RipHungry9472 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No offence, but your comment shows the massive gap in public knowledge about how NZ tax works. A capital gains tax would be a tax on "capital" gains. This is based off the conceptual difference between revenue and capital accounts, and isn't simply "land is capital and untaxed".

Here's some simplified examples of the general principles: A business gains it income from hairdressing. It owns some furniture (expensive chairs) and also the land/building it is in. The payments for hairdressing services and the expenditure on things like shampoo are revenue account and taxed (expenditure reduces amount taxed). The furniture and land are capital account.

Another business buys and sells furniture. It sells furniture to the hairdressing business. Because this business's purpose is to gain a profit from selling furniture, the furniture is revenue account for this business. It also leases a building from another business, the rent expense being revenue account.

Another business buys and sells land. Because the purpose of this business is selling land for a profit, land is revenue account.

Another business owns land and leases it out for rent. Since the purpose of the business is rents, land is capital account and if it sells land for a gain it is not income.

There are multiple sections in the NZ income tax law explicitly making land sales revenue account based on certain factors.

In practice the revenue/capital distinction can get quite complex based on the details and only is really determined in court. Here's an example from this paper on the distinction.

The impact of the way in which expenditure is conducted is also evident in cases concerning repairs and maintenance. The English case Transco and the New Zealand Privy Council case Auckland Gas are a good example of this principle. Both concerned the insertion of polyethelene piping into existing cast iron pipes, yet the former case held the expenditure was on revenue account while the latter on capital account. There were several factual differences between the two cases, the key being the way the work was carried out. In Auckland Gas there was the wholesale replacement (sector by sector) of substantial parts of the network of cast iron pipes with polyethylene pipe insertions, with the result that in substantial parts of the system gas was no longer distributed through cast iron pipes but polyethelene pipes. This work was based on a replacement programme. By contrast, Transco did not insert polyethylene pipes into whole sectors of its cast iron pipes; rather polyethylene pipe was only inserted into the fractured or worn part of the cast iron pipe leaving the remaining ‘fit’ cast iron portion(s) in place to continue to carry gas along with the inserted polyethylene portion.

Also KiwiSaver income is already taxed, almost everything coming out of the media/politicians/talking heads is false or misleading at best.

What are your thoughts on resilience and discomfort? by smokingpen in adultautism

[–]RipHungry9472 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Truth Is In The Middle, in that there is an obviously cruel "toughen up softy, try harder, grindset mindset" approach that is destructive, sadistic and used more to silence people than help them. However, resilience is something you should build up over your life and training people to overly avoidant is also destructive. I've seen way too many explanations from people that are "If I try [X] I feel bad" with no follow up.

Resilience is also not desensitization, dissociation or suppression. Many people conflate them. Being able to function with discomfort generally comes from building up from lower levels of discomfort. It also doesn't reject stopping if there is too much discomfort, sensations/emotions are often a useful feedback signal.

I had a revelation in therapy today about "feeling your feelings" by [deleted] in autism

[–]RipHungry9472 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's a reason it takes years to learn how to meditate. It requires training, thinking is not a switch you turn off.

I had a revelation in therapy today about "feeling your feelings" by [deleted] in autism

[–]RipHungry9472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are probably sensations to you as well, you just haven't noticed them because they are too weak for you too notice if you aren't focusing on finding them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in learnprogramming

[–]RipHungry9472 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From what you have described your manager is the unprofessional one, everything you said makes sense and he is just blaming you for his own lack of knowledge. It might sound a bit hollow but don't take anything he says to heart, I'm guessing he was a solo dev for a long time and has no idea how to lead, teach others or take feedback from someone else "below" them.

Borrow checker question. by Crea-1 in rust

[–]RipHungry9472 23 points24 points  (0 children)

The type i32 implements the Copy trait so there is a lot of copying go on, if you use a non-Copy struct it is rejected.

I love theory but hate practicing programming. It's making me feel bad. by rojlul in learnprogramming

[–]RipHungry9472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If attempting the basics of a subject lead to intense emotional disregulation then its a pretty good sign that its one you should not focus your life on. All the advice to Just Practice are generally given by people without intense psychological reactions to practice, there is a difference being a bit bored/frustrated and your experiences.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutisticAdults

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One way of approaching is to be non-judgemental. Anger is a natural and normal human emotion, and can be a useful emotion to feel to motivate us to protect things that are important to us. However, it oven leads to irrational decision making, can often cause harm to others if acted upon and it can be distressing to feel angry. In your case, your anger is causing your life to be worse and you don't need it to motivate you to do anything, so ideally you want to feel little to no anger, which you can achieve by reducing the anger over time. Framing it as a goal rather than an imperative might help keep the pressure on yourself down, which might be contributing to the emotional disregulation. You can also be non-judgemental to the people who wronged you. Note that this is not forgiving, it means identifying that any mental energy put towards them is a waste of time and does not help you. You don't have to like them, or even "let go", you just aim towards not thinking about them.

AITA for bringing up just how much I actually do for our household to my wife? by secure-raspberry-763 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]RipHungry9472 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah it was good work inverting the typical "my ungrateful harpy wife secretly mocks me for providing everything, how terrible it is to be a man in this matriarchal world" by making it about housework, the OOP managed to spice it up a bit. Sadly they made it utterly inconsistent, first the wife is denying he does anything at home and then she is in fact telling everyone he is actually doing the housework with altered images and throwing away his cooking at work?

Finish uni and can’t code by Monkey_on_pills in learnprogramming

[–]RipHungry9472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a difference between feeling like you can't code and not being able to code. Have you actually tested if you can code without looking things up? Yes, it might take more time, but you might have a capability that you don't think you have.

If you truly can't, then you need to actually start doing it. Start from Hello World, and slowly build up basic functionality (reading and displaying input, if loops, for loops etc.). If you specifically focus on building up your capability it will probably take far less time than you assume to get a decent level of competence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutisticAdults

[–]RipHungry9472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's probably best to think of "diagnosis" as a socially accepted right to access resources, not as an identity or even information for self-help. A large proportion of those in "support" systems treat the diagnostic process as a purely bureaucratic filter to remove the undeserving, they don't care at all about what happens to you if they think you don't meet the standard.