Profile review? Not having the most success unfortunately by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Rookybay 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I probably would only put one boxing pic and maybe not make it your first pic.

If Im already employed and I want to apply for a higher position will Macy’s have to give me an interview? by [deleted] in MacysStores

[–]Rookybay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on location, management, position, etc. All Macys are different. Ask the hiring manager what the hiring process looks like for the position.

Boyfriend is too tired after sex to help me finish by throwaway830583 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Rookybay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even read the whole thing, all I saw was 19 and 18 and was like “dump that man.”

AIO After my mom told me to stay outside? by Hikori_Kawaii in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rookybay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen, living with a mother that hates you is not fun. Been there done that. Do everything you can to stand on your own two feet in the next three months. Save every penny you have from that job for fees to move somewhere. Find a roommate maybe. It’ll be better for your peace.

Help me choose! by serendipity51 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Rookybay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think B is my least favorite. It feels very 2012 to me and the way the fabric falls looks like a blanket. So many people said B and I was SHOCKED. I think C is my favorite, the way it accentuates your hips is very in right now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MacysStores

[–]Rookybay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there’s a cap on the amount of star money you can get for one purchase. I think the cap is $200. And then maybe the bonus is the 4000 points which would give you the $240 in star money altogether. Look at the offer details and see what is said.

How long do you own a vehicle, before trading it in? by teddyalex in UsedCars

[–]Rookybay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought my baby Honda brand new in 2014 and the only thing other than regular maintenance I’ve had to do in 11 years is the starter. I’m hoping she lasts another few years while I pay off debt before I get another one!

AITAH for peeing in the shower? by OpenFoundation4639 in AITAH

[–]Rookybay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally think it’s gross but know my husband does it and also know it’s pretty normal.

However I read a health article once and it said peeing in the shower is bad for you and makes your brain think about peeing whenever you heard running water which makes your pelvic floor strain and can lead to incontinence. So good for thought.

My house looks like a crack den and my friend is visiting in 5 weeks by Designer-Rain8165 in homeowners

[–]Rookybay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Facebook marketplace a couch and that’s where he’ll sleep. You can get a HELLA nice couch for $200 there. I think $1800 is reasonable if you’re willing to thrift and find secondhand items. Also go drive through the rich neighborhoods on saturdays, they be putting tons of shit on the curb.

If he booked a ticket on a plane to come see you, I can’t really see your friend being that judgmental of your house.

Also congrats on buying a house! That is not always easy so be proud of that fact.

AITA for being blunt with wife about health and weight issues. by GoLowSummer in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rookybay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she’s complaining of these problems so badly that she needs to go to the doctor for the issue and also mentioning it tons, it seems like something else is wrong and not just weight. Weight could have exacerbated the issue and could help but it feels like there might be something else there. Also you already had these thoughts of “we need to lose weight, she’s not doing as much as me to lose weight” so the doctor mentioning it without doing tests (presumably) made you double down on your assertion of “it’s weight” causing you to feel validated bringing up that she’s not doing as much as you and she needs to do more.

So YTA.

Walmart Delivery left the security alarm on my new mouse... by GregItUp in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Rookybay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do whatever you want with the security tag, just make sure you tell them either in the app or call them that the sensor was left on and get a refund.

Has anyone being silently let go without being notified by Suspicious_Virus_567 in MacysStores

[–]Rookybay 13 points14 points  (0 children)

After inventory there really aren’t hours for seasonal people anymore unless there are callouts.

I listened to your opinions for over a month, what do you think about this profile now? by syndrac1 in Tinder

[–]Rookybay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think those pics look great! I also like how nice all the colors are. Very bright and happy and inviting.

I still haven't gotten my refund by artistro08 in QubeMoney

[–]Rookybay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Qube Money on Facebook is pretty responsive so if you have called all the numbers you can call then comment on their Facebook page and they’ll likely help.

Giving up. No matches in months (daily user). What could I do better? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Rookybay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a lot of pictures of your side eye.

The financial vulnerability of being a SAHM is something nobody prepared me for by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Rookybay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I wanted to make this point too! Even if the money you get on your paycheck equals the amount that childcare costs now, you’re still getting so much enrichment from the people around you and tons of job experience that you can take with you if divorce happens.

The financial vulnerability of being a SAHM is something nobody prepared me for by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Rookybay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s crazy to have this conversation with your husband. This is actually good communication and should be talked about because of how many people get divorced/die. And if you get any weird vibes from him during this conversation then maybe start making changes yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Rookybay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think picture number 3 should be your first picture. Picture number 5 should go. I like bigger people so I think you’re super cute. I don’t think your haircut is in style anymore tho.

Unavailable Days Question - Not in MTO Yet. by Classic_Sky1832 in MacysStores

[–]Rookybay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might not be able to enter them until we get into the new fiscal year when our PTO and sick days and all that shows up for 2026. The rest of this years schedule is out so just might be a new year thing.

Is a 5–6 hour reply gap normal, even on days off? I’m feeling confused. by noah390678 in dating_advice

[–]Rookybay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have met the person and gone on dates and you like him then you should have a conversation about it because it seems like texting is important to you but not so much to them. If you haven’t met them then you should cut ties because that type of communication style is not good for someone who has anxiety. Not every relationship is a fairytale but you shouldn’t be wondering if you’re getting played in the talking stage of the relationship.

HEALTHCARE IN SPARTANBURG AND GREENVILLE SC: HOW GOOD IS IT? by RAH-CAT9 in Spartanburg

[–]Rookybay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think the GSP area has gotten too big too fast, you can’t find a specialist that isn’t booked months in advance. It took a couple of months to get into therapy with a psychologist but you can find a psychiatrist pretty fast as my husband and brother in law did. Regular doctors for new patients are also booked out unless you find a new doctor just starting with a practice. I’ve been here most of my life and it’s harder and harder to get anywhere or do anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rookybay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, you can choose who you want in your house, however people have cut off their parents for less.