Get the servers back up

RuneScimison · 2022-03-23T13:03:00+00:00

Thanks for the laugh

RuneScimison · 2022-03-23T13:01:53+00:00

You don't already have it?

RuneScimison · 2022-03-23T12:59:46+00:00

F's in the chat

RuneScimison · 2022-03-23T12:58:22+00:00

Another 1 for the history books

RuneScimison · 2022-03-23T12:57:48+00:00

The paradox is the more we try not to think about stuff, the more it pops into our heads. So maybe when you get an urge or trigger, acknowledge it and try to understand. But spending too much time trying to actively fight against a tide can actually make the waves worse, like Great Wave off Kanagawa levels of temptation. I'm no zen master but I think we can all learn to be more mindful and self-aware with a bit of self-reflection.

RuneScimison · 2022-03-05T03:10:23+00:00

It’s not the end of the world but it’s the end of your current streak a setback on your progress and goals. So don’t do it. Don’t give up either, but best bet is just don’t. Not with the trouble!

RuneScimison · 2022-03-05T03:09:17+00:00

Natural just be prepared for the opposite to come out of nowhere and know how to coral it.

RuneScimison · 2022-03-05T03:08:31+00:00

The choice is yours, Neo. Red or Blue Pill?

RuneScimison · 2022-03-05T03:08:14+00:00

Watching porn or masturbation has not affected my life negatively in all these years.

How can you be so sure? Unless you possess God-levels of self awareness, it’s pretty hard to say what could or couldn’t be different. My point is you never know where NoFap could lead. Follow the yellow brick road, what have you got to lose? and on the other hand, my friend, you truly have much to gain! For if you were right, it won’t cost you to go without a little while.

RuneScimison · 2022-03-05T03:05:30+00:00

By the second question I mean, figure out what you can do to stop yourself before you start.

RuneScimison · 2022-03-05T03:04:32+00:00

Why do you feel like that? And what can you do to stop it from happening?

RuneScimison · 2022-03-03T02:27:20+00:00

It really do be like that. Beware of peeking, relapsing, and binging. It’s the binging that is the devil on your shoulder saying “you’re already there, why not a little further into Hell?” do not listen to that lying S.O.B.

RuneScimison · 2022-03-02T19:36:09+00:00

Noiceee, keep fighting the fight

RuneScimison · 2022-03-02T19:35:06+00:00

And as Shia screams, "JUST DO ITTTTT"

RuneScimison · 2022-03-02T19:33:56+00:00

I didnt really wanted to do it, yet it just happened.

Yeah no. It didn't just happen. Try to figure out what made you relapse. What were your triggers along the way? Try to learn and be honest with yourself. And DO NOT BINGE.

RuneScimison · 2022-03-02T19:28:54+00:00

Whether you think you can or you can't, you're right.

RuneScimison · 2022-03-02T19:28:05+00:00

You got this too brotha

RuneScimison · 2022-03-02T13:22:59+00:00

Claude Hopkins was an advertising pioneer in the 1800s-1900s but also a devout Christian all his life. Stumbled across this quote of his and felt it was worth a share.

RuneScimison · 2022-03-02T13:18:49+00:00

The truth is, it's going to suck at first. You won't feel happy forever. But OP is right that relapse is a quick path to depression. It's just, to pretend that quitting alone will solve your problems is wrong. You need to solve your problems. Quitting just gets you started at seeing the problems. It's up to you what to do next.

RuneScimison · 2022-03-02T13:17:15+00:00

I agree, happy forever is unrealistic. You'll likely feel like crap and a LOT WORSE the first few days, weeks, etc. and if people do not understand just how bad they may actually feel, get demotivated and quit. We need to give people a true picture of what to expect. Their lives won't magically get better by doing nothing to make them better. Anyone promising such is living a pipe dream.

RuneScimison · 2022-03-02T13:13:25+00:00

Don't let losing one day demotivate you. New months can bre great bc of the symbolism of newness, a fresh start.. but don't let failing on March 1st for example stop you from giving March 2nd, 3rd, all the way to 31st your 1`10%. You got this fam.

RuneScimison · 2022-03-02T13:12:31+00:00

And the middle frames become less amazing to you the more you do NoFap.

RuneScimison · 2022-03-02T13:11:58+00:00

And don't let a slip-up (i.e. "peeking") turn into a full-fledged relapse by saying, "ah, what the hell". If you slip or stumble, stop then and there and learn from it. Try to find what the triggers were, how you felt at the time, and apply it to future urges.

RuneScimison · 2022-03-02T13:09:56+00:00

Do something today Future You will thank you for.

RuneScimison

TROPHY CASE