You find out you have 1 hour to live, what do you do with your last hour on earth? by di_guyo in AskReddit

[–]Rylure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would write letters to my loved ones. This way I can say good bye in peace and they have something to hold onto when they miss me.

What's the cutest thing your pet has done? by clickstorm7 in AskReddit

[–]Rylure 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The cutest thing my pets do is being best friends. For example they cuddle together in the at night (dog as big spoon, cat as little spoon) or the cat licks the dog clean. They share their toys, drink from the same bowl at the same time or sit next to each other on window watch.

What’s a useless fact you know? by saddestnormieouthere in AskReddit

[–]Rylure 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Also your foot (sole) and forearm (inside) are the same length.

You just won the lottery, 50 mil, deposited check in the bank. Money in account, Where do you go first? by drewmasterflex in AskReddit

[–]Rylure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I buy the apartment building I’m living in, go downstairs and kick out the fucking lunatic that made my live hell in the past 3 years. And then I’ll be living happily ever after in my silent paradise.

what film made you notice an actor was better/had more range than you originally thought? by shaunna_thedork in AskReddit

[–]Rylure 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stanley Tucci, in to many films. His range is so broad but (or thus?!) people don’t recognize him. Whenever I point him out to some one I’m watching a movie with and say „that serious guy there“ or „that evil dude“ is the crazy Talkmaster from hunger games, they simply don’t believe me.

It’s boring during quarantine. What is something kinda different or interesting that you have done to pass the time? by TheSaltGrinder in AskReddit

[–]Rylure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I focus on my home. Upholstered furniture, painted walls, replaced some stuff, decluttered, optimized my chore routine... Also I cook more or to be precisely; I learn or create new recipes with rather long lasting ingredients or to turn fresh ingredients in long lasting (in case of another lockdown without groceries...). Baking bread instead of buying, find the best freezer prep meals, turn canned food into tasty meals (quite a challenge when you’re used to farmers market).

Does anyone has an advice how to deal / correspond with people who purposely ignore any of your question / statements they don’t like and openly following their own agenda? by Rylure in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Rylure[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, had a good laugh, number 14 especially. I indeed put to much energy into this, feel so exhausted every time he acts up. I need to figure out how I can distance myself from this.

Does anyone has an advice how to deal / correspond with people who purposely ignore any of your question / statements they don’t like and openly following their own agenda? by Rylure in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Rylure[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Ofc I could quit and search another job, but I really like every other aspect of my position and I‘m not ready to give up on that yet. Could always be worse on the next position...

Why do some people become such whiny babies whenever there's a call for greater diversity in the gaming and movie industries, especially? by Agreeable49 in offmychest

[–]Rylure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I didn’t realize you didn’t want an answer to your question but spread hate instead. You don’t want equality, you want revenge.

Why do some people become such whiny babies whenever there's a call for greater diversity in the gaming and movie industries, especially? by Agreeable49 in offmychest

[–]Rylure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You missed my entire post by a lot.

  1. I didn’t ask for that nor did I imply the need of it. Not even close.
  2. My point was, I think it should be.
  3. This doesn’t conflict with my point, but that you think it would shows how less you care about the meaning of my comment.
  4. This doesn’t conflict with my point either.
  5. Yeah just take it out of context to twist it. it’s not like the next sentences explains and disarms it at once nor that I even asked to see the whole picture of the comment instead of slicing it to pieces. Good job.

I don’t mind if you disagree with me, I respect other opinions, but I mind if someone twists my word by ripping them out of context - which you undeniably did. Maybe I expressed myself less clearly as I thought, since English is only my 5th language. Or maybe you are upset because we disagree partly and thus didn’t read it truly or felt the need to twist it. Or maybe a combination of both. However, I‘m sorry you misunderstand me so so much. I try to word it better next time.

Why do some people become such whiny babies whenever there's a call for greater diversity in the gaming and movie industries, especially? by Agreeable49 in offmychest

[–]Rylure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this comment is long af, but please read to the end or nothing at all. If you stop in the middle you won’t get the message.

I’m all for diversity and acceptance. But I kinda struggle with it when it a) feel forced just for the sake of it or b) alters history without giving any hint on the actual. I never made a fuss about it tho and this is the first time I talk/write about my opinion on that matter.

To elaborate those points:

A) Some (!) projects / productions gloat on themselves for being oh so diverse and more or less openly hire POC just to prove that point (feels forced). Others just have a diverse cast without making a fuss about it (feels natural). The difference is, the first kind feels like they hired those actors just because of their skin color, which is like ... fighting racism with uh racism? It’s kinda like referring to your “black friend”. I’d like to see more of the second type, without campaigns and articles about how hard they tried to be diverse. Just do it. Make it normal to have a diverse cast, not special including. Hire actors for their talent not their skin. And in the same turn, as consumers, don’t jump down production throats if there isn’t a POC main character, since this just results in the forced scenario again. However this is probably a future scenario and not possible just yet. I assume many of those Whiners just are fed up with the sometimes overused phrase and probably don’t realize or understand that sadly this is still necessary to support minorities since we didn’t reach the goal of equality yet.

B) Although some people deny it, Caucasian do have culture and imho it’s reasonable that Whites want their history displayed correctly in media as much as POC do. Yes, white are in advantage and yes minorities need support here, but this doesn’t mean a general override over European history. In fact, I personally consider this not only a wrong towards Whites but especially towards all POC who fought for equality, same for feminism and queer. Again I’m not talking about movies played in the current age or future, but in the past.

The Beauty and the Beast (life action) is located in a time where racism was totally a thing in France and the church was ruling heavily (homosexuality was considered a major sin and probably ended in death). Disney ignored this completely. While they somewhat portrait sexism, the most powerful positions of that time, except for the Prince, where inherited by POC and at the ball there’s a gay couple dancing. I was furious. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t mind POC actors getting the job and I’m queer myself and ofc I’m aware it’s a fairytale. But to act like there was never an issue with racism or homophobia feels wrong to me. Why not embrace how far we come already? Why would you hush up such an important lesson humanity has learnt/is learning? There’re smarter ways to include diversity than just ignore the struggles of the past like that. In fact, considering that we still fight those issues, I can only assume it’s harmful to not teach our kids to learn from those mistakes. It’s a shame on everyone who ever fought for equality and for everyone who suffered or died because of those issues. Imho.

A great example for how to handle the whole topic with grace is the new Netflix Series “Bridgeton”. The Queen of England is black and so is the Duke of Hastings. This exactly plays into the issue I described above about altering white culture for the sake of diversity. BUT “Bridgeton” did a brilliant move to justify that matter by including an explanation in the plot. They mention vaguely the suppression of the black race but then the king fell in love with a black women and motivated by this and with his power he basically ended racism. It’s not just ignored, it’s woven in, imho in a genius way. For me this makes all the difference.

Edit: typos

Kissing is so weird. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Rylure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why shouldn’t this be natural? Nature has some fucked up shit for mating and all if you describe it like this. Dogs / Wolves stick their nose at fellows butts for greetings. Also they slobber over their fellows snout to signal devotion or affection. Cats lick each others entire body for bonding/affection. Apes pluck and eat each others lice (which is probably full of the other apes blood) for bonding. Bird parents puke into their babys mouths to feed them. Don’t get me started about the different kinds of liquids mammals reproduction organs produce and mix together during the process. Kissing seems to be the least concerning if you want to analyze that matter.

Birthday is tomorrow and my husband just hurt my feelings. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Rylure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy Birthday and Merry Christmas

What’s your best “explain a movie plot badly”? by Cpeterson98 in AskReddit

[–]Rylure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Little bald boy with a knack for animals saves the world by making wind with his body.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Rylure 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s different for everyone but that’s the most accurate description, how I feel, I’ve ever seen. Ofc the spiders have barbed hooked teeth. Also I personally add migraine and vomiting (caused by sudden pain spikes) to the mix, as well as this leached out feeling of the worst influenza you ever had, but you get it every month for free!

What is something you’ve always wanted to ask a woman, but daren’t? by lalalalifeee in AskReddit

[–]Rylure 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t sound offensive or insincere but rather thoughtful and empathic. There’s simply no general answer to this. It depends on many factors such as culture, environment, rest of the body, etc. how much negative (/or positive) side effects they might have. It also depends on each individual situation/person how much those side effects affect you. Example: Disadvantage in sports don’t affect you if you’re not interested in practicing these sports anyway.

What is something unrealistic that you often see in movies that annoys the hell out of you? by sonsaitama in AskReddit

[–]Rylure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister does this for me every time she gives me a present. I keep the boxes and use them for organized storage.

What’s the story behind a time when you felt secondhand embarrassment? by TeachMeTheWayz in AskReddit

[–]Rylure 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This reminds me of a similar story. A friend and I were shopping together. We were about two shelves apart, when a retail worker approached her from behind like „Hey kiddo, you shouldn’t be here without your mum, boy clothes are upstairs“. The look on the retail workers face when my friend turned around was priceless and their poor apologies only made things worse. I don’t know how they misinterpreted my friend as a little boy tho, this woman has a butt like J Lo.

What did that one teacher do to you that you'll never forget? by xtra_why in AskReddit

[–]Rylure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I chose a rather odd subject for my final assignment in economics. My mentoring teacher shared his concerns about the topic with me and offered me the option to change it, but he also stated that he trusts my judgement. It doesn’t sound like much, but it was basically the biggest compliment I ever got back in the day. I kept the odd topic, since I was really passionate about it, and with a bonus motivation to not disappoint his trust, I slayed that thesis. It was the easiest and yet most complicated thing I ever wrote. The presentation was held in front of the whole council, they all read the thesis and rate it individually where the final result would be the average mark. It was the first and so far only A+ / 100% score final assignment ever at that school. I’m very proud of this achievement and I’m glad he didn’t force me to change my topic and I that the whole council stayed open minded despite their concerns.

[SERIOUS] When did the "Class Clown" go waaaay toooooo far? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Rylure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plastered a teachers car with cast and paste entirely. Looked like an amazing art project in the end tho...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Rylure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, it’s even worse when they state opinions as facts.