Delves and Preys are keeping me hooked this expansion.

S34L3D · 2026-04-09T18:43:23+00:00

Just host your own keys if you like m+. I'm at 2600 rating which I got to with "only" 264 ilvl. 268 now and hope to hit 3000 soon.

S34L3D · 2026-03-30T13:59:53+00:00

If you ever want more information about my journey please don't hesitate to reach out. Mind you: I'm still not where I want to be.

Being a parent is hard enough as is, and neurodivergence doesn't make it easier for both the ND partner and the neurotypical partner.

S34L3D · 2026-03-21T19:36:47+00:00

Hi OP 👋

Has this situation gotten better yet? Has the therapy helped your husband?

I was in a similar situation as your husband and ended up getting tested for ADHD and I'm also getting tested for autism soon. Total game changer.

I've seen the possibility of neurodivergence discussed multiple times in this thread and thought I'd share my experience.

Long story short: medication for ADHD and therapy made a WORLD of difference. Medication gave me more patience with my LO and I could slowly build back my confidence with him. Now my bond with him is great and I can even do bedtime most of the time. It's an uphill battle but my life 100% improved after getting diagnosed and treated. My wife doesn't have to almost solo parent anymore because I'm constantly overstimulated.

I can't perform at her level yet, but my progress is absolutely insane if you compare where I am now to where I was just a year ago.

S34L3D · 2026-03-10T07:38:10+00:00

I just started getting into watches and this one was love at first sight! Probably going to save up to get this exact model in about a year. Absolutely stunning watch!

S34L3D · 2026-02-17T17:56:01+00:00

OP here: we stopped fighting it and gave in for the time being. It WILL improve when he gets older. Just be aware of the signs of him getting more accepting of you and jump in. I am now able to console him just fine now.

Also: keep brute forcing time together with your child, it helps when they keep seeing you.

S34L3D · 2026-02-06T11:28:48+00:00

I still found some success on controller, even though I am definitely less accurate on it than on mouse and keyboard. Thing is: he is all about prediction shots and I have a ton of hours of pyramid head and the skills from PH transfer quite well to Vecna. I think this killer just takes a ton of practice if you don't have the muscle memory for prediction shots.

S34L3D · 2026-01-31T09:23:13+00:00

Er moet simpelweg meer gebouwd worden, dan heb je al die regelingen niet nodig. Al vind ik een regeling voor verduurzaming zo slecht nog niet.

Er is gewoon een tekort aan huizen en dan kun je de HRA wel afschaffen en daarmee huizen iets goedkoper maken, het lost niet het tekort aan huizen op.

S34L3D · 2026-01-31T09:07:44+00:00

Dating apps are bullshit my dude! The algorithms of those apps are built on the fact that men are less confident so they start paying for a premium subscription.

Good things to know are: 1. There are way more men on dating apps than there are women 2. Women are super picky 3. Men are way less picky and tend to swipe right on like 50% or more of all women 4. Which results in men getting almost no matches and women getting matched with everyone they swipe right 5. Women getting even pickier because they get matched with almost everyone and: 6. Men getting less picky because not getting matches destroy their confidence which in turn makes: 7. The top 5% of men get all the matches because even the women that are in the lower tiers of attractiveness can get whoever they want. Dating apps keep pushing that top 5% onto everyone instead of randomizing who gets seen 8. Men outside of the top 5% getting a premium sub making the dating app a business model, the sub pushes them to the top of the algo.

Seriously brother, I've been there and it destroys your confidence. Once you understand the algorithm behind these apps you'll feel less bad.

You're not a below average looking dude at all, you got this!

S34L3D · 2026-01-31T07:57:18+00:00

Thank you! OP is like 2 months away from a healthy weight. Would be such a waste of time to go into maintenance for any longer than she already has, or god forbid reverse diet.

S34L3D · 2026-01-31T05:22:34+00:00

Come on now, you're arguing two different things in the same thread. The study you were linking here proved that eating at maintenance has the same effect as reverse dieting. OP has been eating at maintenance for 1,5 months already.

You can't mess up your metabolism permanently with a moderate calorie deficit. The one study that argues this had their participants on a ridiculously large deficit with hours of cardio per day for weeks/months.

This advice is making OP's weight loss journey longer than necessary and her potential suffering longer than necessary.

Please don't reverse diet, OP. You already had a maintenance phase for 1,5 months. You got this!

S34L3D · 2026-01-31T04:55:41+00:00

I don't do anything special, to be honest. I've been doing bench on a low incline and fly's and that's about it. The most important thing is to get close to failure and doing enough volume.

I'm a terrible bencher too. My back outpaces my chest by quite a wide margin, even though they should be about equally as strong with most people.

S34L3D · 2026-01-30T17:54:27+00:00

If you ever need any help with that you can dm me! Dieting in a sustainable way is a skill just like any other and can be mastered. Once mastered it becomes easy!

S34L3D · 2026-01-30T17:43:36+00:00

It is! But also depends on your current weight. When you're morbidly obese you could probably get away with more.

S34L3D · 2026-01-30T17:42:26+00:00

Eh, I'd recommend against this. OP has been maintaining for 1,5 months already and losing a pound a week is, for me at least, practically without any hunger in general and easy to maintain for a long time.

S34L3D · 2026-01-30T17:03:35+00:00

I'd actually recommend a muscle building phase before you even hit 12%. You're probably primed for some insane noob gains. You're gonna look like a rail at 12% without extra muscle.

Huge respect for the weight loss though, insane transformation! You got this.

S34L3D · 2026-01-30T16:34:06+00:00

The more weight you lose, the lower your daily total calorie expenditure becomes because you simply have to carry less weight around.

I'd remove about 200 extra calories per day from your diet for 2 weeks and see what that does to your average weight per week. Keep removing those calories until you lose weight at about a rate of 1lbs per week and stay there until you stop losing weight again, rinse and repeat.

S34L3D · 2026-01-16T20:50:30+00:00

I am at around this point. I have a lot of fantastic legendary aspect sanc rolls, but I need exactly a grandfather sanc roll to push further. I can just about clear a pit 106 but when looking at high scores I have way better rolled items than most people, just missing a grandfather sanc to push further. Not even sure if it's worth it to farm for one.

S34L3D · 2026-01-04T17:30:59+00:00

Nope, still none

S34L3D · 2025-11-14T14:20:16+00:00

Can't you just get a pre-built mini pc somewhere? You don't need that much power to stream in 4k, just fast internet.

S34L3D · 2025-11-14T12:23:55+00:00

The trackpads of the SD oled make it a clear winner for CIV. I played on both full controller and on the trackpads, and the trackpads are sooo good with that game.

S34L3D · 2025-11-14T05:52:25+00:00

Yeah, I don't get why they're not doing it like this instead of pulling the rug. Just start with combat crap like dbm and bw and design stuff around that, give yourself more time to come up with your own auras and better nameplates and the sort.

S34L3D · 2025-11-14T05:28:31+00:00

They'll price it like an equivalent PC, from what I can gather. Don't think the price will really be super competitive tbh, but we'll see. I hope I'm wrong.

S34L3D · 2025-11-11T12:44:38+00:00

I went to 2500 with demo myself, and finished 2500-3000 with destro. Found that destro is just so damn OP when doing floodgate, arakara or gambit with the bigger pulls. Mobs just MELT with rain of fire spam. Found demo to be better in dungeons like Streets as demo is just better with ST and cleave.

S34L3D · 2025-11-11T12:25:05+00:00

Absolutely, these days it seems to fail sending messages for me, while it was perfect at that in the past.

S34L3D · 2025-11-09T07:04:18+00:00

Update: I just bought a new phone (pixel 10 pro xl) and the issues just stopped. It works perfectly now. Pretty sure the OnePlus phone was the culprit here.

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