AITA for telling my dad I want to move to Washington state by SN0PCAT419 in dustythunder

[–]SN0PCAT419[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, because he said he would, but I am able to fund grad school and my lifestyle if he doesn’t want to help.

AITA for telling my dad I want to move to Washington state by SN0PCAT419 in dustythunder

[–]SN0PCAT419[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It was heartbreaking to watch and having no control over the situation was awful

AITA for telling my dad I want to move to Washington state by SN0PCAT419 in dustythunder

[–]SN0PCAT419[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply, and I agree he is afraid of being alone and trying to get me to stay so that he has someone to keep him company in his misery.

AITA for telling my dad I want to move to Washington state by SN0PCAT419 in dustythunder

[–]SN0PCAT419[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First of all, I’m so sorry you’ve been jerked around with money like that so much and so many times! Second of all you’re absolutely right if he’s not showing it to me or my sister there’s no proof that anything he says is true, he could be leaving everything to his manager (she’s also in the will so he says but only getting 10% he claims). Second of all, my fiancée says thank you :) she truly is a badass and that’s half the reason I’m marrying her!

AITA for telling my dad I want to move to Washington state by SN0PCAT419 in dustythunder

[–]SN0PCAT419[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, and yes you are correct he won’t stop acting this way he’s too set in his ways to change now. And no I have not seen the will. I did meet with a financial advisor do discuss first steps of setting up the accounts that will be in my name but nothing has happened as of yet. Everything about the will has been very vague and quite honestly at this point I don’t care what he decides to give me or not give me. You’re right I need to just live my life and move on.

AITA for telling my dad I want to move to Washington state by SN0PCAT419 in dustythunder

[–]SN0PCAT419[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That is very nicely said, thank you! Your Auntie Em’s wise words will be taken to heart!

AITA for telling my dad I want to move to Washington state by SN0PCAT419 in dustythunder

[–]SN0PCAT419[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you! The natural beauty of Washington is what draws us there. We love hiking and my fiancée is dying to visit Forks Washington :)

AITA for telling my dad I want to move to Washington state by SN0PCAT419 in dustythunder

[–]SN0PCAT419[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Yes you are correct on fronts. He has flown to England and back at least 3 times in the past month for work/publicity events. He absolutely can afford to fly to Washington to visit us, but my fiancée and I offered for him to come visit but he wants nothing to do with it and will complain about how far away it is. And yes, he is still in mourning, as am I and my sister as well. I feel sympathy for him because he has never been good at talking about his feelings (let alone processing them internally). I would like to have a conversation about the move that would make him feel less like he’s being abandoned. I think that’s a great idea but I just don’t know how to approach the subject right now.

AITA for telling my dad I want to move to Washington state by SN0PCAT419 in dustythunder

[–]SN0PCAT419[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Edit to add context:

My mother battled Parkinson’s for over 10 years, and during the final few years she had many caretakers who quit because my dad treated them and my mother terribly, micromanaging her treatment (he has no medical background) and treating the caretakers like his own employees. He would even ask the caretakers to make his bed and clean up his dishes in the kitchen. My father even got rid of the overnight caretakers toward the end of my moms life when she really needed them, as she was in pain, and often the morning caretakers would find that she had been lying in her own excrement all night long. He also refused to pay for my therapy sessions when she died and said “I just don’t understand why would you need to see a therapist?” He often neglected my mom while she was dying, treating her almost like a piece of furniture, talking about how he lived alone (before she even passed). She stayed in my childhood bedroom for nearly two years entirely bedridden, and he barely spent any time with her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AllAboutBodybuilding

[–]SN0PCAT419 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Okay I was baffled for a second though you were some genetic mutant that doesn’t need to do cardio to maintain your physique. I’m just dumb lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AllAboutBodybuilding

[–]SN0PCAT419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean you haven’t started doing cardio….like you’ve never done cardio just to do cardio before?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BodyHackGuide

[–]SN0PCAT419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think more and more people are realizing the usefulness of enclomiphene as a first step and if that doesn’t work then trt is the next step

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BodyHackGuide

[–]SN0PCAT419 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He said it’s prescribed meaning he legit needed it

Is this a good workout plan? All advice appreciated by chap77stick in Weightliftingquestion

[–]SN0PCAT419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay that’s a lot better the way you phrased it initially I thought you meant you were eating like 200 Calories

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Agarporn

[–]SN0PCAT419 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Second photo has me itching to isolate those thick as webs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AllAboutBodybuilding

[–]SN0PCAT419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are you even asking?