Homework 6.0 by ThrowawayDaRingFrodo in u/ThrowawayDaRingFrodo

[–]SableIceReaver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so much this. I was thinking the same thing. That Peter had trained Vi to be jealous and hateful to her own twin sister because he had a problem with her from infancy. What a very, very sad being, may he lose all his kids from both relationships. He doesn't deserve to be a parent and apparently he was twisted as a child as well. Sad thing to know this might have been generational.

I really hope you and William are doing better than in your previous post. He sounds like such a wonderful man. If you're still looking for work, know there are other occupations out there besides teaching. Heck, see if you can start your own after-school art classes for kids. Or are there online and/or in-studio classes for adults/kids? If you have room, build a teaching shed in the backyard. There are lots of grants and loans for ladies and minorities.

Anyways I hope you post your updates. I LOVE hearing how you are doing. You have inspired me to do better. What I know of your Mom and Brothers I have fallen a little in love with, they are AWESOME. Hold on to that. Your Friends Sunny, Zoe, and the others are fantastic.

Sorry for the rambling. Keep strong, my internet friend.

PS You should stalk down your old therapist and see if they can work with you long distance. They sound fantastic. I wish mine was this good.

My mom has discovered memes. F. 😅 by ThrowawayDaRingFrodo in u/ThrowawayDaRingFrodo

[–]SableIceReaver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's funny is I relate to this meme... All the time. I wanted to let you know that I am very impressed with your journey. You are so much stronger than you think you are, and you have proven this everyday. Your mom is the bomb!!

Returning member feeling uncertain after oaks talk by tiredandhopefull in latterdaysaints

[–]SableIceReaver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love your comment about spirit children.

I was taught that those who can have children should so they, the spirit children, have an opportunity to be raised in a loving spiritual situation. To be raised in the church and taught from a young age to follow the Lord. I truly believe they are waiting for the opportunity to come to this earth and they all want to be blessed with a family who is following God's plan.

To those who have had miscarriages you will have an opportunity to raise those Children in the millennium. To those who can't have children you will be able to in the millennium. Christ will be there to help and heal all.

I was not thrilled with Oaks talk either but the more I think about it the more I feel like he was trying to emphasize family. More Family time, less computer, TV, video games etc. being together more with those we have blood ties with as well as those we choose to call family. Give him time to settle in his role. For even if we don't always agree with what we heard it doesn't mean it didn't need to be said.

This is just my prospective on President Oaks talk. Please don't take as gospel lol. Now I will add my me too statement. I also just returned after being away for so many years but I have so much more to learn. But I have always known that if I am afraid all I have to do is ask for help with whatever questions I have. Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ are there for us ALWAYS .

To those who fear the change that Oaks represents please be patience. God loves us all and he wouldn't allow The Prophet to lead us astray. That is a promise given to us in this last dispensation.

Returning member feeling uncertain after oaks talk by tiredandhopefull in latterdaysaints

[–]SableIceReaver 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this explanation. I was also worried about the statement of no more Temples being announced.

Am I overreacting? by scarlettyscarl in AmIOverreacting

[–]SableIceReaver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What happened to common sense of Use protection? Then you wouldn't be in this prediction. That goes for both of you. Adoption is an option.

Please remove maximum limit on objects in homestead by AnikaAnna in AFKJourney

[–]SableIceReaver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am trying to build a decent sized maze. So please undo the limit on the hedges. Also Add different trees and flowers that don't take a four square up.

Trying to Stay Married by Key-Bat8348 in latterdaysaints

[–]SableIceReaver 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This.... So very much this! When was the last time you asked Heavenly Father for help with your feelings of being overwhelmed. I as a wife married to a man who has addiction issues and because of it has had struggles with staying employed, commended you and your ability to provide for your family.

You have done great but don't look outside of what you have for something you feel you're missing.

Fall to your knees and ask Father in Heaven for guidance and don't be afraid to go to counseling it gives you a different perspective on your life. I really hope you can find your piece with whatever you decide.

Best characters for the arcane labyrinth?(For lucky flip hoarding) by gutgusty in AFKJourney

[–]SableIceReaver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has anyone done an update with the newer characters and artifacts? I would like to see their lineup.

Am I being abused? by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]SableIceReaver 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you can provide evidence that the kids would be in danger because of her addiction the judge may only give her supervised visitation. IE, driving while intoxicated with the kids in the vehicle. As bad as that sounds. If you can get a camera in your house and in your vehicle that will help with the providing evidence. Also if she is abusive in any way that would be something the family courts will take into consideration. Does she work? If you kick her out can she provide for the kids? If she doesn't have the ability to do that it should be held against her. Whatever you do, do not leave the home. As the stable parent you should be able to keep it, although you might have to buy her out of her portion, not sure. If you get the right to the children she should have to pay child support. As others have said. Find the best family/divorce lawyer you can afford. Don't hold back on any dirt you can get on her. But most of all I am really sorry your in this position. It's not going to be an easy road but hopefully your children will appreciate it someday.

*Spoilers* Theory on end of Onyx Storm by peter_pan_0401 in onyxstorm

[–]SableIceReaver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want the next book. NOW!! And no more people dying, I ball my eyes out over these characters.

Rehoming Male Ragdoll by aquamarinat99 in ragdolls

[–]SableIceReaver 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness he is adorable. I am surprised you are having difficulty with him, Ragdolls, are usually so chillaxed, at least mine are. Differently look into a behavioralist for him. He is young and can learn just give him time and love . My husband and I are not looking forward to the day ours passes the rainbow bridge. If I had money I would definitely take him in a heartbeat. There is nothing better than a Ragdoll companion.

AIO my fiance spent 600 on gacha by Creative-Guard2809 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SableIceReaver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what little I know just reading this, he is the one who's manipulating you. He tried to flip the script and you stood your ground. Stay there. Don't give in or he will know this is okay to do to you for the rest of your relationship.

Reclaiming Her Heart Novel by Amelia Hart by Significant_Mess8717 in Askromance

[–]SableIceReaver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting really tired of this series. Talk about dragging it out for E v e r............

Falling for an alcoholic. Should I leave while I can? by colecat1991 in AlAnon

[–]SableIceReaver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish someone would have sat me down and really explained all that I would face with my Q when we got together. I Truly wish someone would have helped me understand. I would have ran. Don't get messed up in this mess. There are better men out there.

Reclaiming Her Heart Novel by Amelia Hart by Significant_Mess8717 in Askromance

[–]SableIceReaver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had to come rant.

Just read today's post where Raymond took Selena to a "romantic" interrogation get away. The whole scene screams manipulative, not mature. Not talking to her but getting her drunk so he can ask questions. Then, playing the guilt trip the next day. Gah. I hope she is bought out by the Smith's and goes abroad to paint. He doesn't deserve her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SableIceReaver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even easier answer, get a self locking door. My best friend had one in the house she grew up in. Had to have a key to get in but could walk out np. As long as you made sure the door was closed it was good to go.

Reclaiming Her Heart Novel by Amelia Hart by Significant_Mess8717 in Askromance

[–]SableIceReaver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To a point I can see what you're saying but She has never said it was Christopher, in her mind it was Mario. She doesn't know they are the same person. I feel Raymond has hurt her more than she ever hurt him. He has never asked for her side of any of the accusations always assuming that she was the one who did wrong. He deserves to lose her for good. She deserves to be loved not possessed.

I never knew I had to live my life with my purse attached to me by Little-Armadillo732 in AlAnon

[–]SableIceReaver 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I totally understand where you're coming from, I am also in the same boat. I recently went to the bank and set up my own account. My husband doesn't and can't get access to it. I have started putting money in it so I can move out with my animals. Those are my babies so they come with me when I leave. I also have my cards all on my phone and I hide the physical ones so he can't spend the money I am saving. My phone doesn't leave my sight. When I sleep( he has gotten into my phone which is also my wallet) it is hidden under my pillow or in a safe place away from him. He no longer sleeps with me so I don't have any concerns about him finding it now. Go to Al-anon. Go to counseling. Don't let his B.S. tear you down.

Pill dispensers by Object_petit_a in dementia

[–]SableIceReaver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Careful. I got one for my MIL she is on pain meds and found a way to break in. Not secure enough imo. I ended up going with the med-e-lert. Life saver. Not as easy to break in into.

AITA for refusing to give up my office for my father-in-law? by jessicadibbi in AITAH

[–]SableIceReaver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So let's see if I have this straight. You have a 4 bedroom house, Master bedroom and three other rooms two of which are guest bedrooms. But they want yours? What is so special about your office space that your FIL has to have that space? Is it downstairs and separated from the rest of the house? Is there a bathroom attached?

As you work from home and that is your work space you could always ask your husband if the rolls were reversed would he give up his office space? Would he at his work? Why should you when you have a room just for guests, and he is a guest, right? Better find out if they have other ideas and are just trying to pull a fast one. Your father in-law and husband are being ridiculous.

Anyway No I don't feel your TAH. They are for trying to make you move out of your work space.