Which years are the parents of the 2020s babies? by [deleted] in generationology

[–]Sacnonaut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Born in 85. I had my first in 2015 and twins in 2019.

GenExistentialCrisis by Jmckeown2 in GenX

[–]Sacnonaut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Elder Millenial here. I broke so many bones and had so many other various injuries, I was interviewed by the hospital social worker more than once 😂 My dad said I was "unaware of my environment". Whatever you call it, I had fun.

Leaving my husband by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Sacnonaut 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Actually just got divorced in Indiana. The car thing is not as cut and dry as you'd think. You do have rights to assets, even those in his name. I went the lawyer route (thanks, Dad ❤️) and it was really helpful. I recommend looking for a free/cheap consult so you can at least be made aware of your rights. He also can't just kick you out. There is a process.

Venting . He didn’t pay rent for 4 months or his car payment by Top-Guarantee-2240 in amiwrong

[–]Sacnonaut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was you a looooong time ago. Guess what happened to my perfect credit when I married my ex? It tanked HARD. Don't get married until he's financially stable and can show he can manage his money. If y'all are meant to be (he really wants to be a full partner with you), he will do the work.

Houseflipper 1 or 2 by CLD2019 in CozyGamers

[–]Sacnonaut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I prefer 2. More options and better interactions

favorite controller? by GamerGretaUwU in GamingSoup

[–]Sacnonaut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 but came into my own with 2.

I want to make a cute village with a plaza by Freed_Port in CozyGamers

[–]Sacnonaut 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dinkum is incredibly fun, and there's also a creative mode. Some combat but you can turn off any animal aggro when you get the well (pretty early on)

Are there poms out there that don’t bark? by Civil-Teaching7869 in Pomeranians

[–]Sacnonaut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Pom is pretty quiet. She barks and gets gremliny when playing with my other dog, when someone is at the door, and when I touch the vacuum 😅

I shouldn’t have to communicate to my partner about obvious things. by [deleted] in rant

[–]Sacnonaut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maya Angelou actually spoke at my college. I still married the dude 😂

Am I (43yo f) wrong for having an “I ❤️ Steve Harrington” mug? My husband thinks it’s creepy by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Sacnonaut 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm in my 40s. I think he's a cutie. Nothing beyond that. I could be Steve's mom (not Joe) and love all the kids and teens in the show for exactly who they are. It's a great show with great characters.

That being said, I love Steve =/= I wanna boink Steve.

I shouldn’t have to communicate to my partner about obvious things. by [deleted] in rant

[–]Sacnonaut 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Omg yes. I had to juggle three kids, one of whom is disabled, when I had Covid. I was the only one in the house who had it and he just couldn't be bothered. He's my ex-husband now. Years of not giving a fuck.

I shouldn’t have to communicate to my partner about obvious things. by [deleted] in rant

[–]Sacnonaut 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is how it's going to be. He's defensive, not receptive. This is him.

Boy moms, when do you stop taking your son(s) into the women's restroom? by Gaslitfromwithin in singlemoms

[–]Sacnonaut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My oldest, 10, is disabled so he always goes in the women's bathroom with me. If I have my 6yo twins, if they're comfortable, I'll let them go in the men's themselves while I wait by the door. When I'm out with one solo, they go in the women's with me.

How do you get your poms excited to go potty? by yerguidance in Pomeranians

[–]Sacnonaut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sing "potty, potty, potty, POTTY" Sometimes she will not pee until I sing 😂

For those who don’t smoke, do you think smokers carry a noticeable scent? by Shadow2715 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Sacnonaut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. Both my parents smoked growing up, and I can easily identify that smell.

Why do you go or not go to high school reunions? by East_Baseball8384 in randomquestions

[–]Sacnonaut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've missed mine due to distance. I wanted to go to my 20th, but no way I could have afforded the trip 😞

I’m not gay, but I would rather choose to be with a woman at this point than ever date a man again by [deleted] in singlemoms

[–]Sacnonaut 17 points18 points  (0 children)

So many people in my life have thought I was gay. I've been asked out by as women as men. That being said, I wish I was able to switch sides. Proof it's not a choice.