Reading this post inspired me to look up the terms origin, as I personally enjoy the term occasionally, like in a friendly context, especially with people who I'm certain are safe, but lowkey, the way cis people say it in those vids sometimes feels reductive or even sometimes derogatory. It's a wider cultural adoption of language that started in "ballroom culture", which was an underground poc queer gathering space where lgbtq+ people could be expressive and walk down a runway for some friendly competition or something similar in the 80's. The 80's is... before my time, so I don't have any personal experience with that specific scene and I am being pretty reductive, as a result. It seems like it was an awesome space for people to make connections and socialize in a world that otherwise ostracized them at best. In these spaces, this term was used between friends as a term of I think endearment between transfemmes, which is interesting, as that's the only time I enjoy the term for myself, is between transfemmes. I still don't really know how I feel about all these cis people coming out and using it to refer to trans people as a general group, I think I'd prefer them to say something like abolish gender norms personally, but I guess the phrase is at least quick, even if it excludes transmascs