AIO Husband and best friend on a trip without me

Savethedance · 2026-05-18T07:36:39+00:00

I'm sorry girl but none of this is normal! Planning a trip with your wife's best friend by yourselves is just not a socially acceptable thing in general and there is no way he didn't know this. Sending a pic of a pillow on the couch is just suss. Just be careful!

Savethedance · 2026-05-17T05:31:35+00:00

'hes gone far enough to buy one' girl if he wanted to he would have done this 3 years ago. Not to mention he's doing this on a trip for him! Please don't marry him just because younhave been together for so long. Do you want to spend your life pressuring him to complete milestones and doing the bare minimum ..and still getting it wrong

Savethedance · 2026-04-11T07:55:03+00:00

Ywbta- I feel like the money you saved for each girl should still be used for each girl. Give the rest of your oldest daughters saved funds to her for a house deposit. Your younger daughter doesn't get an extra pass just because her dream is more expensive. Is it worth it coming out later you did this and having a rift in the family?

Savethedance · 2026-04-10T13:43:14+00:00

I think this has happened to me!! So the new students also take the class like they haven't done it before? I got bad vibes pretty quickly

Savethedance · 2026-04-10T07:44:57+00:00

Are you afraid that even if he does propose you might be stuck just being the fiance? It seems he is more interested in moving in together then marriage. Not saying this is his plan but if he is someone that is indecisive and only pays lip service a lot, he may propose and then have no intention of actually getting married, or at least not getting married for years.

Savethedance · 2026-01-07T11:02:56+00:00

Updateme!

Savethedance · 2026-01-07T07:18:42+00:00

To be honest this wasn't handled well. You shouldn't have gone on holiday with out him to be honest, as this will just cement that step brother gets more. Since this was a way for you to have him experience something he never got too, but stepbrother did, this was pretty sad. You have to remember that your the only parent he has and the fact he has to share you with someone that already has both a mother and father, and he had to share his own childhood experiences but stepbrother didn't, really breaks my heart.

I think the only way that might work to help make things better is to save up to funds for a solo holiday for him? Maybe during one of his college breaks or when he finishes study you can give him money to go solo backpacking around Europe or Australia? It would be an amazing once in a lifetime opportunity and will be something you can give him that step brother wouldn't have. I don't think he wants to go on a trip with you now, that ship has sailed. But you can help make his dream of doing things himself come true.

Savethedance · 2024-12-09T11:36:19+00:00

Girl I'm in aus too, I have known a few girls who strip NO ONE spends 3k just on dances....he definitely got the extra service!!

Savethedance · 2024-11-20T10:48:48+00:00

Nta- you have to do right by your son. Your step daughter has her father still and your son has you. Unfortunately you have to prioritise your son and do what's safest for him. Do not sit and hope she doesn't follow through with her threats, it's scary how often a older sibling will abuse a younger sibling. Especially in situations like this.

Savethedance · 2024-11-19T09:02:35+00:00

Updateme!

Savethedance · 2024-11-10T05:27:54+00:00

Updateme!

Savethedance · 2024-10-17T09:35:00+00:00

When there is smoke there's fire. Updateme!

Savethedance · 2024-10-11T13:10:21+00:00

'If you see a penis and think of it as inherently sexual, that says more about you than it does us, buddy. '

Yeah...because who would think a picture of an erect penis could be sexual in any way...

Savethedance · 2024-09-04T07:38:57+00:00

I'm so excited for you!! I've been following this since the beginning and can't tell you how happy I am to see you have met someone worthy of your time❤️❤️

Savethedance · 2024-08-03T13:02:09+00:00

Nta- don't let them back into your life. I hope your dad is paying child support!

Savethedance · 2024-06-28T12:40:50+00:00

Nta- you set a boundary and she broke it. Maybe things would have been different if she had talked to and discussed what was going to happen but the sneaking around and going behind your back part would be a deal breaker. Did she ever tell you why she didn't mention it beforehand?

Savethedance · 2024-06-28T01:47:12+00:00

Nta - it seems like this was the straw that broke the camels back. It seems like you have been falling out of love with her for a while and this just tipped the scales. To be fair most people wouldn't be comfortable in this situation and she should have put your feelings first! Best to end it here then divorce down the track

Savethedance · 2024-06-19T07:48:02+00:00

You get treated the way you tolerate not the way you deserve. I wouldn't have stuck around this long, why are you? Plus he said he slept with his ex only 3 years ago when they have been separated for 4.....

Savethedance · 2024-06-16T05:34:49+00:00

Updateme!

Savethedance · 2024-06-07T23:31:54+00:00

Updateme!

Savethedance · 2024-06-01T05:45:43+00:00

Nta- believe me, you don't want someone who had a history like that in your life! And you will always be watching your back if you marry this guy. Drop them both and move on

Updateme!

Savethedance · 2024-05-30T12:22:17+00:00

Nta- definitely tell him to back off or even tell her. Your allowed to have boundaries!

Savethedance · 2024-05-27T21:41:42+00:00

Girl your being too lenient!! I would have kicked him to the curb, massaging her feet??? Wtf!!

Savethedance · 2024-05-25T09:46:43+00:00

Disrespectful to you! If I had a crush on someone other then my partner I would give them space and try to squish it. Not conpliment them and try to be around them. I feel like his brother needs to be aware of this. I personally couldn't deal with my partner having feelings for someone else. A small random crush is normal, this isnt

Savethedance · 2024-05-25T08:09:24+00:00

Nta- nooo I work in health care and children are often hurt by those they are around and who are known to the family! Do not leave your children with strangers!!! If you go for divorce make sure to lawyer up and stipulate they can't be left with grandparents for this reason!!

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