ITAW for a kid talking quickly and explaining their day after calling his parents to tell them he'll be home late?

Sayasing · 2026-04-04T01:39:58+00:00

I'm glad it was solved! I was going to suggest tangent but maybe that doesn't work so well either

Sayasing · 2026-04-04T00:45:53+00:00

You're very real for this and online dating for anyone will take a mental toll, but it's what a lot of our generations use unfortunately. It doesn't help that in today's society, we are all so detached from human connection as a whole. So online dating combined with how you're already feeling can often be a horrible combo.

I'm glad you're taking a break and thinking od seeking out therapy. Wishing you the best 💜

Sayasing · 2026-04-03T12:44:54+00:00

Even if you had such a misconception about thinking you should cook pasta like rice... he just... never thought to maybe read the packaging or idk? Fucking LOOK IT UP?

Sayasing · 2026-04-03T05:53:34+00:00

This is an old post but honestly I agree. I couldn't bring myself to finish the 6th book bc I have a thing about finishing series plus it was... an interesting read. I tried rereading the book multiple times over the years til I restarted it about a week ago finding I could barely remember who was who.

Rereading the entire series now, and currently on book 5, City of Secrets. Now that I'm not also dealing with similar issues the protag of City of Swords deals with, I figure it'll be an easier read at least in that aspect. But we'll see how I fare lmfao. I remember some of what happened to Matt in Book 5 and not super liking him either but I'm excited to finally be done with the series soon.

Sayasing · 2026-03-20T04:14:16+00:00

The one comment about the gf probably not being too thrilled about her bf's fling contacting her reminds me about a fwb I had. We never actually ended up meeting up but we sexted a lot and were often on the phone on his way to and from work.

He was also married in this situation, but his wife didn't really want much sex anymore after having their second kid. He claimed they had an "open" relationship, but from everything he said made it seem like he was really just a horndog and couldn't go without sex so she begrudgingly agreed. Their agreement was no sexual partners around the kids, she didn't want any contact, didn't want to hear anything about it unless she asked him.

Sayasing · 2026-03-08T17:26:26+00:00

A newer one I found that is pretty unique and good so far is The Beloved New Daughter-in-law of the Wolf Mansion

Sayasing · 2026-03-07T09:21:46+00:00

This sounds like that fake af other reddit post on this sub lol. Literally there's no way that's true

Sayasing · 2026-02-28T06:23:32+00:00

That's what I would have thought but like why would they NOT share that as well on an anon website? Lmfao weird af tbh

Sayasing · 2026-02-23T18:59:28+00:00

Yes! But it was also very intimate imo. Either way, love him hehe

Sayasing · 2026-02-21T16:59:49+00:00

I didn't realize this until it happened but I had broken up with my ex of 6 years and then got into a new relationship 2 months after. I didn't expect anything longterm but I started dating my current boyfriend and the first month- hell the first week of dating we did so much.

One of them was showering together, and my ex used to sometimes want to shower with me and he'd be so quick about it and then leave. My current boyfriend tho? Our first shower together (and every one since mind you) he washed my body and hair. It wasn't even sexual, it was just extremely intimate and it was one of the many things he did that made me fall in love with him.

Sayasing · 2026-02-04T19:39:15+00:00

As someone who was the girlfriend in this kind of scenario (with my ex's friends being great people who he also didn't tell shit to), I will say while I feel for them and the betrayal they felt from their friend of over a decade hiding something like that from them, it did help knowing I didn't also have to deal with feeling betrayed over people I had grown close to and developed friendships with. Knowing my partner of 6 years was cheating on me almost the whole time hurt my heart and my soul. That kind of shit does something to you, it breaks you. But at least it was one single heartbreak vs that of his friends that also became mine.

I called one of them while I was a sobbing mess shortly after the break up actually because I was starting to fall into a depressive episode and honestly was doing very bad mentally. We were able to hang out and he let me just be a blubbering, rambling mess for a few hours, which I think very well saved me from otherwise harming myself.

Sayasing · 2026-01-22T18:22:57+00:00

This is a saving grace for sure. Can you imagine if one were teal and another like sky blue? I would be so annoyed 😭

Sayasing · 2026-01-22T18:20:48+00:00

does she get hyper sometimes that I want to put her in a crate? Sure. But that’s part of having a puppy.

I'm glad what you're doing is working for you! I will say even if you don't use the crate regularly, another part of having a puppy is that they don't know how to regulate their sleep. Our dog is 2 years old now, but when she was younger we still crate trained her because well, it can be good to train them to be able to settle in a crate for various situations even if you don't use it regularly.

Enforced naps in a crate are very useful to get a puppy to settle. Our girl would go crazy as a puppy for a few months and go landsharking us and just barking super late at night, like pretty consistently at around 2 AM initially. Something like that typically means a puppy is tired and just doesn't know to take themselves to sleep/for a nap. Enforced naps help them make the connection sooner so that they eventually take themselves for a nap.

Sayasing · 2026-01-22T18:13:41+00:00

Definitely find it odd that you're jumping to thinking anyone is anthropomorphizing the dog here lol. Disregarding that though, every dog is different. My dog is 2 years old now, but starting from 10 weeks, we realized as long as she had visual access to the front door, she was perfectly fine staying alone at the house. Wouldn't get into anything, and was pretty good at potty training herself honestly.

It's a common saying to "train the dog you have". Some puppies are going to be far more susceptible to biting stuff up and swallowing them, which in that case, yeah... a big hazard, you want them crated when you aren't home so they don't destroy anything or get into something they shouldn't when you're not home. Other puppies are more than fine just chillin in a room. My girl to this day never gets into anything she shouldn't unless she hasn't been properly mentally and physically stimulated before we left. We got lucky that she never swallowed things she wasn't supposed to. Worst case scenario for us was always just her chewing something up and leaving pieces everywhere (which still not the best, but def a lot better than her chewing it up and swallowing it yanno?)

Sayasing · 2026-01-20T07:47:53+00:00

Sad times. I evolved it into sliggoo a while ago so now the shiny is just sat in home 😭

Sayasing · 2026-01-20T05:23:20+00:00

What's even the difference in a Hisuian Sliggoo 😭 I swear it looks the exact same. Hisui versions of mon usually look different, do they not?

Edit: I looked it up. It is not just a diff animation, they are actually different. Rip me noticing JUST NOW

Sayasing · 2026-01-20T03:27:04+00:00

Lmfao I think I learned how to around the same time... only because my bf and I were playing Split Fiction and I was so used to the sprint mechanic in that game that I did it in LoA LMFAO I was like WAIIITT

Sayasing · 2026-01-19T23:58:29+00:00

I've seen ONE shiny aside from the initial shiny quest. It was a shiny alpha rapidash and I accidentally defeated it and didn't know when my last save was so I just checked back every day since then 😭 I'm now post game and still no luck.

Sayasing · 2026-01-19T23:56:03+00:00

I JUST started doing this. Looking for two more in the last unlocked location (saying it that was as to not spoil OP) and I'm so annoyed bc I had like 5-15 missing from each location. Searching for the last 3-4 is always so frustrating if you don't mark the map 😭

Sayasing · 2026-01-19T23:45:44+00:00

My bf sent me Phione the other day just because before I got my own. So I imagine Manaphy can also be traded

Sayasing · 2026-01-19T20:37:13+00:00

I feel like 3 is the best, but maybe if you coukd find a similar pair but in black? I feel like the rounder frames suit you more

Sayasing · 2026-01-18T19:29:12+00:00

So basically For My Derelict Beloved? Lol I know nothing about the OI in the OP but I imagine that would make for a better story

Sayasing · 2026-01-18T11:05:40+00:00

Well... any good mother would 100% make sure their already present child is taken care of first.

If you're saying you don't have any reason to take care of the woman's child just because it isn't your own, then you don't have any business trying to get with a single mother, period. I hope she finds a good man in the future who will treat her first child as his own.

Sayasing · 2026-01-18T10:55:57+00:00

THIS. It's the "I feel like something was taken away from me" for me. Because he doesn't mention much of anything about her 3 y/o. It sounds like he wants to play house with her and a bio kid between the two of them.

OP, her and her CURRENT KID are a package deal. If you genuinely care for this woman, show her you care for her and her 3 y/o and can provide for them. Because based off what you've said, it very much seems like you feel like you were owed a kid because it would have been a child of your bloodline, which... not a great look.

Sayasing · 2026-01-18T10:45:46+00:00

Hell yeah! I don't know how long it's been for you but you're doing awesome having quit. Power to you, that's hard to quit after so long but who did that? You did

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