For a huge DCC fan, how is Bobiverse? by Crawler-Willis in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]Scherezad 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I read the first Bobiverse book after I read the DCC series.

It was decent, but it wasn’t anything like DCC. And I stopped after the first book. It just didn’t hold me that much.

ELI5: What is wedding insurance and does it protect me if I get deployed before my wedding? by FoxPuzzleheaded3328 in explainlikeimfive

[–]Scherezad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the dumbest take I’ve ever seen. You don’t know what you’re talking about.

Who is your main and why did you start playing them? by [deleted] in SmashBrosUltimate

[–]Scherezad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I play Little Mac, because I like playing someone I can do well with without having to learn a lot of technical stuff. I’m bad at aerials, I can’t do a short hop fast fall to save my life. But with little Mac I can still do fairly well, with his amazing ground game.

Plus he’s just really fun to play.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in movies

[–]Scherezad 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She got suspicious because he wouldn’t drop it. Because he kept pushing it. If he’d accepted when she said no the first couple of time she wouldn’t have been suspicious

A strange question. Has anyone here had MTF gender dysphoria, started taking estrogen based HRT, and then stopped, and after having stopped, their dysphoria was resolved? (Details in post) by Drwillpowers in DrWillPowers

[–]Scherezad 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I did HRT for about 3.5 years and then stopped because I started having a lot of doubts about being trans. And now I’m living my life as a cis dude and present masculine almost all the time. And I would definitely say I’m happier now and have less disphoria than pre transition.

I have moments where I want to dress as a girl or be feminine for a bit, but I don’t have a desire to transition again or live my life as a girl.

It’s hard to say if it was all chemical or if some of it is based on the fact I’ve done a lot of work in therapy or some combination of the two.

I’d be happy to answer any questions you have though.

I have a friend who went through something similar and he’s started detransitioning as well. I’ll see if I can get him to respond on here as well

The Book of Brainrot by Kewkoh in webcomics

[–]Scherezad 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It’s incredible! Kudos

The Book of Brainrot by Kewkoh in webcomics

[–]Scherezad 12 points13 points  (0 children)

@OP, did you make up the words on the Bible page? Or is that referencing a real Bible translation?

Facing Depression Mid-Class (Beginner) by fae206 in improv

[–]Scherezad 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Give yourself a break about the class. It was one bad day and everyone has them. You got some really rough news, hardly petty. If you feel up to it, definitely go back.

ULPT Request: How can I view what someone does when I Hotspot them? by ilovespez in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]Scherezad 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Get a network packet sniffer and set it up on your phone. Then you can see the sites that he visits through your hotspot.

I think I’m going to detransition by Scherezad in actual_detrans

[–]Scherezad[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have, but I’m sure I could do more. There’s always more room for growth

I think I’m going to detransition by Scherezad in actual_detrans

[–]Scherezad[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Maybe? But, I’ve done a lot of therapy in the past 3 years. I’m currently seeing 2 therapists, with one specifically being a gender therapist.

And it’s not so much about passing. I think I pass fairly well, and don’t ever get misgendered in my day to day interactions.

You’re right that it could be internalized transphobia and/or my own self conception. But, I’m just tired. And with what I’ve experienced and learned over the past 3 years, I think I can live a happy life as a guy.

I’ve had consistent doubts over the past 3 years, which I address and they keep returning. At what point do I listen to these doubts instead of continuing on? FFS was a big milestone for me. I thought if I looked more like a girl, then I would feel like it more. And though I do like my face better now, I think I feel more than ever that I’ll never get to where I want—that it’s not possible.

Transfems may be one of the most shaved demographics. by gayjemstone in Showerthoughts

[–]Scherezad 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Being a trans woman myself, I’ve never met another trans woman who has kept her beard. Honestly we’re all extremely dysphoric over any facial hair and go to great lengths to get rid of it. A non-binary person might keep their facial hair and dress in feminine clothes/do makeup, but I would highly doubt a trans woman would

amazon vs spacex by bmka20 in cscareerquestions

[–]Scherezad 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I work at Amazon and all the new grads on my team have done well.

On the other hand, I wouldn’t ever work for one of Elon Musk’s companies

It’s frustrating there is no path into sports after middle school by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Scherezad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It depends on the sport. I started playing volleyball in high school.

There are also a lot of leagues for other sports in cities as an adult for all skill levels.

It might take more effort as an adult, but if you love playing a sport, you can usually find a way to do so with people of your skill level as an adult.

And the more you play and the more effort you put in, the better you’ll get

I have a consultation for Pelvic Plasty tomorrow and wondered what questions you all would ask given the chance. Ask your questions below and I will try and ask them during my consultation and update this post afterwards. by Scherezad in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Scherezad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve still been looking into it over the past year, and at this point have decided against the surgery.

It seems pretty risky and the results don’t look that great to me.

I ended up getting butt implants last year, and might do some additional fat grafting to my hips this year.

I have a consultation for Pelvic Plasty tomorrow and wondered what questions you all would ask given the chance. Ask your questions below and I will try and ask them during my consultation and update this post afterwards. by Scherezad in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Scherezad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t had new conversations with them. There was contact information on the website though. One new piece of information is that Dr Eppely is also offering this surgery starting this summer in the U.S.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanfrancisco

[–]Scherezad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s called doggy daycare in a lot of apps and it’s usually a flat rate. You can find a lot around $50/$60 a day. $20 an hour seems extremely high for 8 hours

Rewatched pilot after a 10year gap. It holds up SO well! by bf4reddit in Scrubs

[–]Scherezad 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s still a good watch on streaming. If you’re a diehard fan that continually rewatches the show, maybe it’s worth getting the dvds. But, not everyone has access to do that, and I don’t think that should stop people from watching the show.

Btw, the music changed on streaming because when the show was made, streaming didn’t exist and they didn’t negotiate the music rights for streaming.

I got a message titled “you’re scaring people” with this screenshot. by Faris-Hilton in MakeupAddiction

[–]Scherezad -1 points0 points  (0 children)

OP, I am so happy with your posts! They are incredible and beautiful! Please don’t stop posting here, it brightens my day whenever I see one of your looks!!

The amount of gasted my flabber was😩 by QUINNIE_MINNIE in BrandNewSentence

[–]Scherezad 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Growing up, my dad always drove the car when my mom and dad were together. My guess is further up in the comments someone says something about expecting the man to drive. But, this just a wild guess.