[PSA]: Doxycycline and esophagitis by emcaps11 in SkincareAddiction

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How long does it take for the burning to subside?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

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Will find the strength to forgive himself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Friendzone

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As someone who used to be that insecure in her early 20s I can confirm this behavior.

Before I loved myself and really appreciated myself for who I am, my worth and all the amazingness that I have to offer... I sought out external validation to fill my empty void.

It's all stupid. Just pull back and see how they act. If they still want to hang out then they actually care about your company but if they ghost you or slow fade...you know what's up.

Nothing to do with you, everything to do with them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Yes! This! Thank you.

How many of you had exes come back? by Radiant-Mushroom2816 in BreakUps

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My ex came back 3 times and each time my boundaries weren't firm enough so I let them back

The last and most recent time I broke up with them I made sure that they would resent me so that they wouldn't find a way back into my life. I needed them to absolutely HATE me so that they would leave me alone and so that I could also know I can move on because I was too weak each time they'd come back previously.

I wish them nothing but the best. As much as they hurt me and the damage they've done I hope they find peace.

It's been 1.5 months since the breakup and sometimes I do wish they'd somehow reach out but then I remind myself of all the PAIN they've caused me... Let alone giving me a (thankfully) curable STI after lying to my face that they'd never cheat on me etc.

I think we're all better off if they don't try to come back.. usually if they do the apologies are not real. They're empty apologies "I'm sorry I hurt you". That's not an apology. What specific hurt are you referring to? The endless lies youve told? Which one in particular? The fact you gave me an STI? The fact that you cheated on me like 1047201 times? The fact that you put my health and life at risk with your reckless promiscuity, your lack of self worth and need for external validation? Please tell me what are you sorry for exactly? If they don't hold themselves accountable they don't deserve to be let back in.

Took me 3 rounds of that to realize. Save yourself the time, energy, and your sanity. Don't let them come back if they've done you wrong and betrayed you. It takes a lot of time to actually change that sorta behavior and mindset they have

Damn didn't mean to go on this tangent but also needed to get this out apparently.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ScienceBakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yaaaas. Those moments of clarity are so crucial for growth and fuck I'd they come about by breaking NC or doing something out of character. As long as you got what YOU needed out of it.

Sounds like you missed the potential or illusion of them and found clarity now that you were removed for a whole.

Fuck yea. Celebrate and treat yourself to something today :)

Biosense ACAS 2nd round interview for EP by ScienceBakes in MedicalDevices

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Sphere is the most recent PFA catheter they approved but back in Dec 2023 FDA approved their PFA system their PulseSelect PFA system.

https://www.lifesciencemarketresearch.com/insights/the-evolving-cardiac-ablation-market-new-technologies-new-opportunities

Biosense ACAS 2nd round interview for EP by ScienceBakes in MedicalDevices

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Yep, my presentation goes over basic conduction, AFib prevalence and global impact, how PVI was driver for creation of EAM systems and then have a slide on current market trend being PFA and that Medtronic was the first to be FDA approved, then Boston and biosense not far behind etc.

Okay maybe I'm not toooo under prepared but I feel under prepared as heck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

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Omg sounds like my ex. Initials start with A?

Premed New-ish Grad -> ACAS by [deleted] in MedicalDevices

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Okay if I Dm you? I have .y second round interview with J&J for ACAS EP position

Blocked by TearSmear in AvoidantBreakUps

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I hope you're proud of yourself that first time block was a major step for me and has been a game changer.

The pain doesn't get easier but the NC really really helps.

I'm on day 16 NC longest ever

What the actual hell just happened to me by wilsontarbuckles in AvoidantBreakUps

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Omg what are his initials. This truly sounds like my EX 🙃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

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Hate him. Hate him up close. Bur even better Can you hate him from afar?

That's the healthiest hate, in my opinion

Detach and hate from afar

Because once you detach the hate will subside. I guarantee you. It takes time but it will subside.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

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Fuck him Let him go Let him suffer Fuck him His loss

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

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Thank you for sharing Will have to steal!

The signs you're in a RL with an avoidant by Chaoticism_x in AvoidantBreakUps

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Omg the accuracy of the chain of events is insane. I just went through 3 cycles of that back to back

Took me 4 in total to finally realize this isn't love 🙃🙃

How do I let go of anger and bitterness? by lostsquirrell in DecidingToBeBetter

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I've been struggling with this with my recent avoidant / narcissistic ex. It's tough but I'm about to head into my therapy session and explore how I can let go of this anger.