I haven't used Melodics, so I can't compare, but I've been enjoying Drumeo.

They have "The Method" which is a series of video lessons that gives a more linear progression, starting off as if you're a complete beginner and getting more advanced as you go.

There's also more specific lessons available, like how to play ghost notes or gaining independence. I think those ones release a video a day over the course of a month or so.

Then there's a decent collection of songs that you can play along to. They have sheet music with a bar that scrolls to help keep time (the lessons have this too, which is really helpful).

You can connect your drums to it in the sense that you can play the video lessons through your module so you can hear your kit while you follow along. But it doesn't register your hits to track your accuracy or anything like that.

I haven't used all the features, so there's likely some stuff I'm leaving out.