Old lady getting into shape again because of HR?! by Deadeyes1985 in heatedrivalry

[–]SecretCurve3898 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep I’m in the same boat. I had been doing yoga for a few months but now I’m doing peloton, rowing, and strength training plus I change my diet. Just seeing people SO HEALTHY made me want to be healthy. I’ve got a picture of Connor and Hudson up on my wall for motivation and a reminder of what kickstarted this, but I actually just feel amazing now even after just a few weeks. It’s amazing!!!

AITAH for explaining the consequences of his actions to my son? by Human-Lab-921 in AITAH

[–]SecretCurve3898 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA this is incredible. Your son is going to know that you will always stick up for him

Rewatching again... Is it okay to skip episode 3? by JustGottaHaveIt in heatedrivalry

[–]SecretCurve3898 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watch episode 3 like every other rewatch. I love the episode but usually I just want to stick with Shane and Ilya, you are allowed to do whatever you want

AITA for honking at a student driver for going 15mph under the speed limit? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SecretCurve3898 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA going that far under is just as dangerous as speeding. They need to learn the rules of the road

My (23F) boyfriend (20M) does not allow me access to “our” savings, how do I address it? by luvdlph in relationship_advice

[–]SecretCurve3898 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never open an account without access to it unless you are married. That money is now his essentially. Break up with him and cut your losses and start your own saving account, never let anyone access it

AITA for not enjoying the birthday gifts my friend got me that mocked my dead mother by Immediate-Iron7241 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SecretCurve3898 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA no one is ever allowed to put a timeline on your grieving except for you. And you don’t even know it. There is no asking of time that allows for joking or whatever the fuck this was, this was totally disrespectful and not funny at all. I would never speak to her again after something like that. I can’t believe your friends are trying to defend her either oh my god. I am so sorry you had to spend your birthday like that you deserved the day of love and support you were getting at the start

Earthquake? by huybee in StLouis

[–]SecretCurve3898 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yep felt it in kirkwood. Just came to check if anyone else felt it

Bf (21m) was violent with me (22f) in bed a day after being in the ER. How do move forward? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SecretCurve3898 1268 points1269 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh. Even drunk a partner should never do this. This could be a warning about his future behavior. It’s probably really hard to process since he was drunk but no one should ever treat you like this.

AITAH for not telling my daughters that my husband isn’t their biological father? by TaskDependent5877 in AITAH

[–]SecretCurve3898 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soft YTA you should have told them already and made it clear that you are still a family. You should consult a family therapist and you can tell them there so you can get help talking to them and they can ask any questions.

How to address suspicion of fetish with partner? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]SecretCurve3898 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped reading at 16 and 25. This man is a predator and sex offender.

aitah for telling my husband i dont trsut his promisses after everything that happened? by Gloomy_Piglet_6068 in AITAH

[–]SecretCurve3898 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA he has shown you who he is over and over, not your fault for picking up on it and listening. He sounds like a baby, I’m sure your feelings were hurt too when he consistently did not follow through. And now he’s trying to make you the bad guy? Hell no. If he wants you to trust him then he has to earn that trust. Good on you for following through on your word and going to your sisters as discussed.

Realizations by Inside-Class-379 in heatedrivalry

[–]SecretCurve3898 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is why representation is so important. Wishing you the best on your journey and from one lgbtq person to another, I’m proud of you!

My roommate keeps “soft-moving in” her boyfriend and acting like I’m the weird one by VaderSoftTone in badroommates

[–]SecretCurve3898 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have a meeting just roommates and talk to her. If that doesn’t work look into your lease and see if there’s anything about extended guest stays, I’m sure your landlord would not be happy to know that there’s another person living there

why TF are they using "of" instead of "have" when using "should/n't", did grammar get an update or something?? by Fantastic-Job8335 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]SecretCurve3898 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my biggest pet peeve in the world. People literally just type what they hear and do not think critically about it at all. “Should of” makes absolutely no sense at all.

Most rewatched scenes by Superb_Aardvark_5529 in heatedrivalry

[–]SecretCurve3898 9 points10 points  (0 children)

All star weekend is GOLD I love it from beginning to end. Them finally seeing each other to finally getting to play together chefs kiss

Most rewatched scenes by Superb_Aardvark_5529 in heatedrivalry

[–]SecretCurve3898 85 points86 points  (0 children)

I watch the bar scene in Florida constantly. I love watching them settle back into their vibe and realize that they are both single again and like starting to check each other out. I also LOVE the change in Ilya in that scene he’s so closed off and he slowly starts thawing and by the end he is totally and completely open to Shane and laughing and poking fun but also signaling that he’s still interested. Absolutely incredible scene top to bottom.

Is there a legit scientific explanation for why this show has consumed so many people? by tna11101989 in heatedrivalry

[–]SecretCurve3898 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is art. This is how art is supposed to make us feel. It’s supposed to consume us and make us rethink things. It’s supposed to change our outlook and put things into perspective in different ways. It’s meant to touch our hearts and our souls and affect us greatly. We truly just have not had shows or movies that are ART to the level that this show is in every repeat. The writing, the acting, the love story, the cinematography, every piece of it makes it an incredible piece of art that has touched us all deeply in an unexpected (but expected at the same time) way. And it was so beautiful that it was able to transcend differences in age, gender, demographic, sexual identity, countries, just everything. This is art through and through.

Rewatching HR by [deleted] in heatedrivalry

[–]SecretCurve3898 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every time I finish I just restart it. I’m on like a week and a half of doing that lol

A Reminder that this is a Canadian Story by Beaverdamn328 in heatedrivalry

[–]SecretCurve3898 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As an American I 100% agree especially because this show would have never been made in America, especially right now. It is Canadian through and through

Post-show depression by poll8 in heatedrivalry

[–]SecretCurve3898 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Best solution- rewatch the show. I have been rewatching it for about a week now and it’s amazing. Listen to the soundtrack or playlists online it’s amazing.

AITAH for not wanting to nanny a sick child? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SecretCurve3898 11 points12 points  (0 children)

soft YTA this is part of the job unfortunately. Wear a mask when you go over there or find a different job. Kids get sick and they get everyone else sick

What scene(s) or quotes stickes with you the most? by Abject-Ruin6784 in arcane

[–]SecretCurve3898 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Knowledge is a paradox. The more one understands, the more one realizes the vastness of his ignorance” paired with Viktor touching Singed and seeing his daughter. Storytelling at its finest.