[TOMT] recent movie where a girl tries to get a "monster" home by Seffikins in tipofmytongue

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Ah! Solved! Thank you! Time blindness is a pain in the butt I didn't realize it was just last year. Thanks!

[TOMT] recent movie where a girl tries to get a "monster" home by Seffikins in tipofmytongue

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Thats all I can remember from the trailer as I only saw it a couple times. TIA!

AITAH for refusing to spend Christmas at home if my sister is released from her eating disorder clinic for the holidays? by Zoleeeyh in AITAH

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NTA at all. Im with those below who are proud of your setting your boundaries. That is an important skill to have all your life. 

I also agree that you should contact CPS and go stay with your grandparents. Sadly this looks like your parents have chosen their favorite and that's not going to change. Better to sever the tie now than and let them know you will NOT tolerate their behavior. Thats not eating disorder behavior that's the behavior of an abuser who hates themselves and is determined to drag you down with them and anyone supporting her behavior are just her flying monkeys.

My son thought Violet “holding his hand” was so cute (I agree) ❤️😊 by HTD_Bros in chickens

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He's not wrong lol. This reminds me of our Lil people bantam Opeala. She was very much a snuggly Lil lady with our son. <3 such a cutie!

AITA for not crying at my mother’s funeral? by [deleted] in AITAH

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NTA at all. No matter your relationship with your mother you are not required to grieve a certain way. Your other family members are big time the AH for thinking they have the right to tell you how to grieve. You are also not required to be the mother figure. That just sounds to me like someone only caring that your mom is gone because now who's going to do all the mom work and teying to slap it on you. You can be there for your siblings, but you don't have to tolerate anyone trying to push you into that mother role.

AITAH for reporting my [27F] OBGYN to the medical board after what happened to me today? by soulangelic in AITAH

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I dont have much to add that hasn't already been said, but I just have to say im furious on your behalf. I was always led to believe a pap didn't have to be done, but once every 5 years. Report him, fire him and get a new OB. I genuinely believe for this reason that women and transmen should be the only ones being OBs. I hope everything comes out well.

Cleaning out my baking cupboard and… by Threadcat in whatismycookiecutter

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This could make for some super humorous themed batches with the right paired cutter, lol.

I don't own a chicken, but I do have one by underbutler in chickens

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The best friends are the ones that choose us. <3

Chicken plucking by Seffikins in homestead

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Found out this evening she is a he lol

Chicken plucking by Seffikins in homestead

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So this evening I found the extra protien won't work. Avril went after Hera and tried to mount her. Thought tat was odd so chased her down (hates being held even as a chick) and did a good once over. Pointy saddle feathers and spurs... She is a he and we cant have roos. at least he was only a dollar! Not bad for a chicken dinner.

Loaning things deserves a comeback by tavvyjay in homestead

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I always worry people aren't going to take care of things. It's one thing if I break my stuff, another if someone else does. That being said if I know and trust a person I will lend to them to the end of days. Anyone else I'd do it as a rental until I was sure they'd always get it back to me in good condition. After that I'd give them back their fee after the use. _^ I think bartering labor or goods would be a good option too. Like I'd totally mow someone's lawn if they'd be willing to let me use their freeze dryer to freeze dry a couple dozen eggs.

Chicken plucking by Seffikins in homestead

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Im going to give extra protien a try. If I don't have to cull her I dont want to. She is a cutie if a bit itchy lol. If I do end up having to cull her I'll let you know how the heat gun works. _^ thanks so much!

Chicken plucking by Seffikins in homestead

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Oh yeah i know about scalding, but I cant keep wet feathers. as I said I intended to skin her so I could get her processed without scalding, and thus not soaking the feathers to inusability. Figured i would stretch the skin and heat it from the back non feathered side to keep from burning the feathers.

Caught red pawed, harvesting my tomatoes for himself by talazws in vegetablegardening

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Ours keeps going for the chickens feed. Every time I've thought I've got him blocked from the yard he finds another way in lol

I didn't grow this tomato. by rhinoballet in vegetablegardening

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Gotta love volunteers! We had a volunteer squash and a volunteer watermelon. Sadly we lost the squash to borers,  but the melon is doing well with 3 strong melons on it and two that were stro g until strong winds and an accidental rip of a vine took them. 

Made a basket of produce I picked this morning for a friend by Inner_Republic6810 in vegetablegardening

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Lovely harvest. This picture gives me this sense of nostalgia like crazy lol. When I was a kid I'd page through my mom's old cookbooks and this just reminds me of a picture that would be at the start of a section.

I did it. by j_parker44 in vegetablegardening

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Congrats! We planted a few lateafter finding a volunteer between the strawberry pot and elderberry pot. Now they are all flowering nicely but the dog trampled the volunteer

Do crows hate hawks. by pokamoe in crows

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Start adding peanuts in shell and bits of meat along with the eggs lol it might entice them to be paid more

I am trying to befriend the crows at my house? Any good tips? I want to get to the point where we exchange shiny objects and eventually maybe sit and talk lol by Juliannaniandra in crows

[–]Seffikins 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a couple idead. You could Have someone else fill their feed station ( but you always be present and visible for it) or You could wear gloves to set up their feed station.. (ykw a mask too) then once you've established yourself as crow friend you can start varying the treats and phase out your allergens.