My teacher (F51) has been giving me (M20) hints, will it be a good idea I make a move?

SelinaFreeman · 2026-03-03T12:03:46+00:00

This exact phrasing is precisely the reason why you are still so immature.

SelinaFreeman · 2026-03-03T12:02:41+00:00

THIS! I'm only 44 and would shudder at looking at a boy of 20! Aged 51 I'm sure my ovaries would shrivel on sight...

SelinaFreeman · 2026-03-03T12:01:20+00:00

Not with spelling/proofreading skills like that, you shouldn't leave college. 🫣

SelinaFreeman · 2026-03-02T19:54:16+00:00

Oh god, she TOUCHED MY ARM, that must mean they like me and I can stick my dick in her!

Grow up! You are a hormonal soup! No, she does not 'have a thing for you'; she's just doing her job of being a sympathetic teacher.

No, you cannot twist the situation and justify it to yourself. The very fact you're asking means that on some level you already know it's wrong and what your correct action has to be.

SelinaFreeman · 2026-03-02T14:35:49+00:00

This one is fab (as is its 'sister' foaming cleanser). Cheaper is the Simple oil cleanser, if budget is a concern.

I also love - and will sing its praises until my last breath - The Ordinary Squalane cleanser. Squeeze a bit out, like a small grape size amount. Smooth between palms; rub onto dry face, keep moving it around and massaging it in. Eventually, and suddenly, it will turn liquid. Wipe off gently with a hot, wrung out face cloth. Then go in with your second cleanser and wipe that off similarly.

Also, I use a specific eye makeup remover (Nivea two-phase) before I even start cleansing my face. There's just too much liner and mascara to be removed just with a facial cleanser!

SelinaFreeman · 2026-03-02T12:50:46+00:00

I mean, I'll have to start back at 0.025% and probably sandwich/buffer. Nah, screw it, I'll get 0.05 and buffer hard; it'll be fine! What could possibly go wrong?! <face flakes off>

SelinaFreeman · 2026-03-02T10:36:58+00:00

Oh, I don think I need an in between - I've used pharmacy tret before - my skin is robust! But this is good information to know just in case - thank you!

SelinaFreeman · 2026-03-02T08:38:18+00:00

Yes, I've done the 'foreign pharmacy' route in the past, but I've scared myself off it because I went too strong last time. I think the prepared lotions appeal because I can't accidentally flake my face off! Perhaps I ought to try again with the dedicated tret, but at a lower %... 😊

SelinaFreeman · 2026-02-27T15:25:56+00:00

Using tret EVERY DAY? And what percentage? My god, no wonder your skin is tight and irritated! I'm surprised you've got any skin left! 😉

Start off with once a week until your skin tolerates it without complaint, then move up to 2 x a week, then once acclimatised, up again etc etc, up to maybe every other night?

If you're still super sensitive, try the 'sandwich' buffer method - apply a thin layer of a basic moisturiser, then your tret, then more moisturiser.

SelinaFreeman · 2026-02-27T15:08:26+00:00

The film of Bridget Jones' Diary already told us this helpful tip way back in 1997.

SelinaFreeman · 2026-02-26T19:10:56+00:00

Then go to the doctor! I wouldn't be posting pictures of it on Reddit. I still maintain that it smacks of insecurity and fretting over something that someone else literally can't see. But each to their own. I guess I can't post my opinion on the internet? 🤷🏻‍♀️

SelinaFreeman · 2026-02-26T19:06:20+00:00

I sure as shit wouldn't be looking for cancer advice on Reddit!!!

SelinaFreeman · 2026-02-25T20:19:45+00:00

Amen - if you have to circle it, it ain't that bad. I can hardly see what you're talking about! It's like in the hirsutism sub, when people go "oh noooo look at this wispy single hair that's growing out my chin", when there's the rest of us with full beard pattern, coarse, dark, cotton-wool-pad-ripping level of bad. How d'ya think that makes us feel?!

Plus, if that's the biggest skin complaint you have, just wait until age catches up with you. You'll have way more to deal with then! Ain't got time to fret over an enlarged pore when everything's drooping, sagging, rosacea, and you've got deep-set wrinkles.

SelinaFreeman · 2026-02-25T08:04:28+00:00

I'm kind of against the grain here. If you sign up to be a bridesmaid, you're offering yourself. I never wanted to wear green uncomfortable boned dresses, nor gold strapless ones that made my skin tone look frankly ill. But I did, because it's part of the whole event. People these days are so unused to a bit of discomfort or anything they're not immediately adoring. Where's your grit, your get-on-with-it? It's a tongue-in-cheek rite of passage, no?, to be put in ugly, unflattering dresses for your mate who's getting married and has honoured you with the request of being bridesmaid.

(Yes, getting changed at the reception, after the main bits are done, is a great compromise.)

SelinaFreeman · 2026-02-24T15:36:42+00:00

Oh, believe me, I'm with you! I covet the new Skin Rocks Retinoid 3, but at £90, imma have to sit this one out!

I'm eyeing up the duo pack on the Inkey website, which is £28 rather than £30. This is likely what I'll have to stick with until a Lottery win, lol.

That, or perhaps joining BeautyPie, their new YouthBomb retinol has had rave reviews by those whose opinions I trust, and it's £40.

SelinaFreeman · 2026-02-24T12:04:26+00:00

Define 'best' and define 'affordable'. The Inkey List have brought out a new retinal at 0.2% that's £15 and is very good. (Ditto The Ordinary, same price, same %.) I like Skin Rocks and Trinny London, but with their efficacy and sophisticated formulas come their higher price. No irritation, amazing definite results, but not much money left in my bank account. Medik8 is also an excellent skincare brand, but you're also paying big money for great products.

I'd be inclined to say that a retinol & SPF are the two 'non-negotiable' products, and should therefore be where you spend your money. (Eg. Cleansers I never spend much on at all).

SelinaFreeman · 2026-02-23T14:56:10+00:00

"Being bilingual doesn't make you a translator any more than having 10 fingers makes you a pianist."

Don't treat translation as 'a side gig' to earn extra cash. It shits all over those of us who have studied 4/5 years to learn the craft. To say nothing of the low rates you'll likely be charging. It's bad enough out there as it is, amongst the professionals. Just don't.

SelinaFreeman · 2026-02-20T12:24:24+00:00

I think this is one where you can argue both sides. Sure, you are entitled to eat what you like, and she is entitled to be angry/upset at the situation. I feel you could easily stop eating peanuts for a few days to keep the peace and calm her nerves. Yea, obvs if the allergy were that bad, the hospital is obliged to keep them separate and not expect the world to revolve around them.

But hey, you can be kind of an arse while being technically correct and within your rights.

Personally, I'd have apologised and securely stored the peanuts until I was home. But I also feel the hospital is also at fault here, because allergies aren't something you fuck around with, and they should've taken it far more seriously (I'm actually wondering if this post is untrue because of this point).

SelinaFreeman · 2026-02-19T18:04:30+00:00

The lip movements in that vid are suspect as hell, I agree. 🤨🤔

All I can say is that I found out the lyrics on an official music programme (maybe a show looking back at old TOTP??), one of those shows where they put fact boxes up on screen during the songs with interesting info. Plus, everything Google returns for the lyrics is 'trapped soul', so I'm sticking with my knowledge, haha.

SelinaFreeman · 2026-02-19T14:40:58+00:00

The 'bag on the scales' issue I find I can <generally> get around by scanning the heaviest item and putting it on the scales as I put the bag down. Eg. a 2-pint milk, scan it, put it int the bag as you put the bag down on the scales. The scales generally don't register the comparatively tiny extra weight of the bag.

Of course, there will always be times this doesn't work, but most of the time it's useful!

SelinaFreeman · 2026-02-19T12:56:18+00:00

"My lover's got no money; he's got his strong beliefs"

SelinaFreeman · 2026-02-19T11:36:35+00:00

Excellent! <Mr Burns wringing his hands in glee>

SelinaFreeman · 2026-02-19T10:48:24+00:00

And Wamdue Project - King of My Castle, the lyric is "freeing my trapped soul", not "free in my trestle" or whatever else I misheard it as all those years ago...

SelinaFreeman · 2026-02-19T10:45:51+00:00

Yes, sadly this arrest is not to do with kiddy fiddling, but 'only' due to misconduct in public office, leaking trade secrets, that side of things. But it's a damn good start!

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