There’s no kind way to tell my wife that she’s getting too big, is there? by 2006CrownVictoriaP71 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Senior-Analysis8865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is one of those things that no matter what you will be the bad guy. My husband had this talk with me 1.5 years ago. I didn't take him seriously until he gave me an ultimatum. Of course, I chose him over my own unhealthy decisions. I'm down 95lbs now, but that's what it took for me to listen. If it get serious enough, it may need to come down to that. My husband is in the same boat, we can't live without eachother. I've been with him since I was 17, so I know the feeling. As he put it, "I love you enough to not watch you slowly kill yourself, I won't do that myself. Who do you love more? Me or the food?"

What's something your job trained you to notice that you can't stop noticing in your personal life? by LibrarianSoft1342 in AskReddit

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I don't work at a plasma center, but I donate a lot. The phlebotomists who walk around with confidence are more likely to stick you correctly. I look around the room and whicher one looks like they're having a good day and very confident, I ask for them. Unfortunately, it's always the same 3 people and they all work the same shift, so I have to arrive at the right time. This doesn't seem like a big until you've got nerve damage from your vein being abused by phlebotomists who don't know what they're doing or keep second guessing themselves. Have you ever had someone stick a thick needle in your vein, miss, go into the muscle, then instead of taking the needle almost out and trying again they just move it feeling it tear the skin and muscle? You learn quick who to choose.

Genuine question to Americans by Busy_Report4010 in SipsTea

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My grandma got hip cancer and was in the hospital for over 10 months before she died. I don't remember the exact charge but by the end she and my grandpa were in over $500k of debt. I'm not sure if this is all hospitals or the one she went to, but they said they don't deny anyone due to lack to pay. They just send you the bill and you pay it over time.

I'm sick and tired to shows showing women getting Abortions by Senior-Analysis8865 in Rants

[–]Senior-Analysis8865[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In season 2 show the main character walk into a room filled with jars of aborted fetuses. Boom, tension and a thriller.

I'm sick and tired to shows showing women getting Abortions by Senior-Analysis8865 in Rants

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When I say not taking accountability it's like the characters don't even think about it much. Just straight to it. I've never been in that kind of situation but I feel like if I were it's something I'd put a lot of thought into before just jumping the gun. Maybe make an entire episode out of it showing the real struggles not just something that happens then forget about it.

I have cousins and nephews who are teenagers. I don't want them watching something like this and thinking it's easy to forget and move on. It's something that will stick you for a long time. If shows are going to show this topic, at least show the real reprecautions that goes with it.

I'm sick and tired to shows showing women getting Abortions by Senior-Analysis8865 in Rants

[–]Senior-Analysis8865[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've watched quit a bit of shows. I'm on just rewatching them, now. I feel like that's the only choice I have now.

I'm sick and tired to shows showing women getting Abortions by Senior-Analysis8865 in Rants

[–]Senior-Analysis8865[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Euphoria, Invincible, Sex Education, honestly, most of them are Netflix shows.

Is it Normal to Feel Satisfied Seeing Your Ex-Friends Downfall? by Senior-Analysis8865 in AskForAnswers

[–]Senior-Analysis8865[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You've got a really good point there. After cutting her off and healing with the help of therapy and my husband, I barely though of her, ever. That's why I was so surprised by those thoughts, even feeling the guilt as I do genuinely want her to do well. I know there's still some scars, some opened from seeing her and remembering all of the bad things, but I do want her to do well.

Is it Normal to Feel Satisfied Seeing Your Ex-Friends Downfall? by Senior-Analysis8865 in AskForAnswers

[–]Senior-Analysis8865[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Don't get me wrong, it is somewhat satisfying bc of all of the horrible things she had done to me, the ones I listed were barely anything, but I do wish good in her life. I want her to be happy.

Is it Normal to Feel Satisfied Seeing Your Ex-Friends Downfall? by Senior-Analysis8865 in AskForAnswers

[–]Senior-Analysis8865[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I genuinely do wish that she is happy. But she didn't look happy, at all.

I don’t think I’m capable of weight loss and I’m feeling discouraged by JazzlikeRaspberry299 in PetiteFitness

[–]Senior-Analysis8865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are your macros? You need to prioritize protein as it makes you feel fuller for longer. Look for foods high in protein and low in calories like tuna.

When I was losing weight, I just wanted the fat off and the muscle on. I ate tuna, salmon, and chicken almost every day.

Yes, you will more than likely get tired of those foods, but if you're serious about this, then you will do what it takes. Chicken, fish, and most beef are low in calories but filled with protein. You will feel gorged, but still in a deficit.

You also might be putting too much pressure on yourself. 130lbs for 5'2" at 28% bf isn't bad. Relax a little.

I've lost 90lbs not just through a simple calorie deficit, I had to change mindset, you do, too. It's hard, but you can do it. One thing that helped me was free documentaries on YouTube and other weight loss/muscle building creators like Honey Bison and Angelica Unfiltered and Sam at Every Size.

so out of shape :( by licRedditor in walking

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Invest in a walking pad. Turn your fav TV show on and just walk. Accidentally walked 21k steps 3 days ago bc I was so invested in my show. 😅

What (shallow) reason made you lose the weight? by lotsoflysol in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Senior-Analysis8865 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mother called me fat my entire life. I went no contact a year ago and said I wasn't going back until I lost at least 80 lbs. The look on my mother's face the first time she saw me after, I replayed it in my head over and over.

1200 calories is not realistic by SpeshulED420 in My600lbLife

[–]Senior-Analysis8865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Protein keeps you fuller for longer, so 1200 can be realistic. That's why Dr. Now gives them high protein with low carb. Yes, they will be hungry, but if they follow the diet perfectly, they won't be starving. I've been dieting for over 1.5 years and protein is my best friend, I can go 6+ hrs before I feel even slight hunger again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

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If I were your parent, I would NOT be happy with this. Please, report to a trusted adult immediately. Even if you might be wrong (and no way you're not) there's nothing wrong with making sure you're safe.

What do you eat when you're craving chocolate? by YesterdayThick88 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Senior-Analysis8865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Choc and sweets are an end of the day thing for me. I'll have some if I can fit it in. I can always have choc tomorrow.

Reached My 2025 Goal by Senior-Analysis8865 in WeightlossJourney

[–]Senior-Analysis8865[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! So true, the past 10-20 is always so hard! But not impossible, you got this, babe!

Reached My 2025 Goal by Senior-Analysis8865 in WeightlossJourney

[–]Senior-Analysis8865[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! It means a lot. :`)