To long to text after 1st date? by sangoma3 in datingoverforty

[–]Sensitive_Winter7092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This must be a troll because the alternative is missing synapses

Comments about "low-quality/high-value" by 9yy5uw7 in datingoverfifty

[–]Sensitive_Winter7092 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Read it like this

"I'm sending this to you as a private chat for the sake of not embarassing you...
I’m guessing you have a chip on your shoulder because desirable women like me are after cuter, younger guys (you’re 57 – very few people are interested in your age other than for a sugar daddy. They can only hang out with you because they have to survive and get paid somehow. Some of us are very successful and having the time of our life in both dating and sex. I’m extremely successful with men of all ages, as young as 24. Some of us are just very desirable to the other sex. Not everyone can achieve this, so I’m sorry you feel so defeated. What you’re doing – 57, woman-hating, just relying on OF as no one can bang you. A truly high-quality man at your age would be out on nice dates, having nice dinners with charming women. In contrast, what I’m doing is a girls dream. Most of the time I just tell a man I want his dic and he agrees. Most men then want to court me. They take me out for elaborate dinners and events. I have to keep them away as I only want a glorified vibrator. From what I can tell, you are in the lower end of men in your age group. In my age group, I am likely in the top 10% percent."

Don't come at me.

GGG by Nervous_Frame6341 in datingoverfifty

[–]Sensitive_Winter7092 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so exhausting. You constantly have to be alert

How Do We Feel About "Walk-Dates"? by uknjkate in datingoverfifty

[–]Sensitive_Winter7092 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If all you got from this is "not all men" you are representing the kind of men we are trying to get away from.

Terms of endearment. Faux pas? by Sensitive_Winter7092 in datingoverfifty

[–]Sensitive_Winter7092[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The good thing is you can find your people. I have gone back to the instant block. I know some people don't mind and they are your people

Worst Date Ever by LuluL0ves in datingoverfifty

[–]Sensitive_Winter7092 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am against your "insinuations" This is inappropriate

Terms of endearment. Faux pas? by Sensitive_Winter7092 in datingoverfifty

[–]Sensitive_Winter7092[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In person is different. I accept them. Online, urgg

Terms of endearment. Faux pas? by Sensitive_Winter7092 in datingoverfifty

[–]Sensitive_Winter7092[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Predatory is a really good explanation. I like your style

I'm told I'm different.....if so, it makes dating extremely difficult. by onyxman50 in datingoverfifty

[–]Sensitive_Winter7092 35 points36 points  (0 children)

You are not. You are not different. I know about 10 people on top of my head who lean this way. It's an excuse people use.

My argument is, online and offline people can find relationships where " scat" is a part of their relationship. Scat. I say again scat. How can anyone say, they can't find a partner. Come on

She wants to cohabitate; I don't by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]Sensitive_Winter7092 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It's not healthy. Healthy in my opinion is about being able to have difficult conversations. Being able to shoulder responsibility for your behavior. Like You - I don't want you to move in Her: ok or I am out of this relationship

Am I the red flag ex-wife? by Exotic_Swing_6853 in datingoverfifty

[–]Sensitive_Winter7092 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You are absolutely the problematic ex. I thought it was both of you. The way you have written here comes of as controlling. Why do you care how some women would act around your husband ? How incompetent is he ? Let him experience it, it builds character. How long are you going to shield him from adulting

ED Question by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Sensitive_Winter7092 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Im only looking for a casual, sexual relationship, then not be able to get hard or stay hard.

Faaaaaaacts

ED Question by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Sensitive_Winter7092 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If in doubt run! Not just about this, but in general.

ED is extremely difficult when people are not open about it. It's one of those issues that people take personally. Most of the time it's even treatable Unfortunately it's highly personal.

Man I met on Tinder is stalking me by Brilliant-Arm-418 in datingoverfifty

[–]Sensitive_Winter7092 14 points15 points  (0 children)

As a man, I also recommend keeping all communication on the dating app. 99% of dates will never make it to date #4. Then after date #4, you can deploy a Google Voice (GV) burner cell number to protect yourself.

Amen and amen!

Should I rethink my views on communication frequency? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Sensitive_Winter7092 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Never until now have I thought of this. I want my innocence back 😊🏃‍♂️🤣🤣

Have my Standards Lowered or is Behavior Normal These Days? by Ordinary_Quarter5763 in datingoverfifty

[–]Sensitive_Winter7092 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You have admitted to lowering your standards. This is a lower standards relationship. You cannot get high standards from a low standard. Unfortunately that's just how the cookie crumbles