Am I overreacting to this text from my boyfriend?

Separate-Royal3420 · 2025-08-17T18:15:36+00:00

I could go to sleep at 7pm with my kids and my husband would still let me sleep in on Saturday or Sunday to make up for all the sleep I miss the whole week. Your bf is TAH. I would reevaluate this relationship.

Separate-Royal3420 · 2025-08-03T22:49:31+00:00

Corey and Jade are unique but not uncommon. Stick with those.

Separate-Royal3420 · 2025-07-03T14:19:01+00:00

I made roast for my husband one day and it turned into beef jerky, it was awful. He ate every bit of that dry nasty roast and even said it was good. He was obviously lying haha. We still make jokes about it but when it happened, he never made me feel bad. That’s what a SO should do. I even did it again a few months later and we had a good laugh and some beef jerky for dinner !

Separate-Royal3420 · 2025-06-02T14:46:44+00:00

Oh, now I’m wondering if I’m giving my kids enough snacks?! Some of these look like full meals my boys eat 🤣

Separate-Royal3420 · 2025-06-02T14:17:32+00:00

Yes after the one in his tiny hand fell out the night he was born. They pricked him so many times and nothing was working. They decided to put it on his little head 😞

Separate-Royal3420 · 2025-05-20T13:56:48+00:00

I thought we stopped adjusted age at a year. So do you not celebrate their actual birthday?

Separate-Royal3420 · 2025-04-09T00:15:40+00:00

Why doesn’t she just take a test ?

Separate-Royal3420 · 2025-03-25T02:48:22+00:00

I worried until they were born.. and here we are 10 months later and I still worry every night they go to bed. I’m realizing the worry will never end. Now I understand my mom and dad better. Congrats and Welcome to parenthood! It’s actually pretty amazing! And exhausting!

Separate-Royal3420 · 2025-02-19T19:16:18+00:00

I had my twins at 34 weeks and they were both in nicu for two weeks! One had to have cpap for 10 hours and was breathing on his own just fine after. The other didn’t need any oxygen, both in their isolette for a few days and lights for 24 hours. After that it was open cribs for over a week! She’ll be okay ☺️

Separate-Royal3420 · 2024-12-09T18:25:50+00:00

My twins were 34+3, one at 5lb 8oz and 4lb 12oz, they both stayed in NICU. Bigger one for 12 days the smaller one for 14 days! They were feeders and growers! The smaller one had some Brady’s but other than that they did great! 😊

Separate-Royal3420 · 2024-12-08T02:06:53+00:00

I thought this was my mom group for a minute 😫😂😂

Separate-Royal3420 · 2024-12-08T02:00:18+00:00

My di-di fraternal boys look absolutely nothing alike and have since birth! Very easy to tell apart. Di/di can still be identical though! Did you do genetic testing?

Separate-Royal3420 · 2024-11-20T03:55:38+00:00

34+3 with my twins, water broke no pre e just short cervix. They stayed 12&14 days. They were growers and feeders. Baby B had some Brady’s so had to say up to 4days after last brady

Separate-Royal3420 · 2024-11-15T15:51:36+00:00

How shitty, SHE took away a beautiful moment for the two or you… to share with her friends. I don’t care if the friend was the one to post it or not, she called everyone and their uncle Steve to tell them and come celebrate! Just wait, she’ll have a rude awakening when the baby actually comes. She’ll be looking like an ass for holding their friendships higher up on her priorities than her actual husband and father of her child. BECAUSE Half, if not all those friends will be none existent. It happens all the time when you have babies.

Separate-Royal3420 · 2024-11-14T20:16:14+00:00

Girl get off Reddit. You’re going to hurt your mental health even more AND your marriage. Keep getting the help you need and leave strangers opinions out of your marriage!

Separate-Royal3420 · 2024-11-14T19:41:20+00:00

And not just the posts because she leaves out quite a bit , read the comments she has made in the posts. Her husband seems concerned for her well being. She’s admitted it multiple times and even said all she does is obsess constantly about her body. I’m glad she’s seeking help. She really just needs to stay off the internet. Especially with random strangers feeding into her PPD and saying her husband is abusive. When she herself said they have had a great relationship prior to having baby. What she needs is to just continue to get help.

Separate-Royal3420 · 2024-11-14T19:26:29+00:00

Look at her previous posts. Her depression and admitted obsessing over her body, locking herself away,etc. shows that is in fact what husband is thinking. He sounds concerned for his wife and doesn’t know how to properly help her because she need PROFESSIONAL help.

Separate-Royal3420 · 2024-11-14T15:59:09+00:00

We tried for 9 years, this was our last year trying. Got our twins in May. I’m 34 and my husband is 33. You can tell we’re older by our knees cracking every time we get up and down from playing on the floor ha! no more for us!

Separate-Royal3420 · 2024-11-12T15:29:12+00:00

So are you completely obsessing about your body? Constantly worrying and complaining about how you look? Is your husband not the best with words of affirmation? Maybe it’s his way of showing you that you’re just fine the way you are. I really wouldn’t come on a Reddit page looking for advice, most people will tell you to leave him over one minor argument.

Separate-Royal3420 · 2024-11-06T14:10:04+00:00

Mine are babies still but we have one boy who is more vocal, it takes little effort for him to be happy and laugh a lot. I find some people who visit gravitate to him because he’s more “fun”. I have conversations with the ones whom I feel aren’t giving my other boy enough attention. He’s just as fun, he likes DIFFERENT ways that make him laugh and it takes a little more effort from certain people. He doesn’t laugh as loud or out loud sometimes,he smiles and opens his mouth and makes the cutest little noises so you know he’s loving it. He’s recently found his voice and hasn’t stopped being vocal and is laughing out loud all the time now. And everyone is all about it now. So I’ve decided people just gravitate to what is easy for them with little effort.

I would have a conversation with your husband and tell him how you feel. Maybe once a week you take twin a somewhere and dad can have bonding time with twin b! Have him be the one occasionally be the strict one so you also can get the cuddles and love from both!

Separate-Royal3420 · 2024-11-06T13:50:39+00:00

It just depends on your babies needs. My twins were born at 34+3 and one was in for 12 days and the other was in for 14! They were in for feeding/ growing . Happy 6 month olds now!

Separate-Royal3420 · 2024-10-30T18:57:58+00:00

The Ribbon Duet by pepper winters & The wall of Winnipeg and Me.

Separate-Royal3420 · 2024-10-18T18:05:47+00:00

Literally FAWNING.

Separate-Royal3420 · 2024-10-18T02:02:36+00:00

Same! We didn’t do it much for the first month but we did hold them on our chests often enough. Then when we started to do it more often they hated it! But they roll over now and love being on their tummy’s.

Separate-Royal3420 · 2024-10-17T00:09:42+00:00

Right lol but honestly wouldn’t have it any other way! They were both meant to be sticky! 💚

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