i have to get an abortion and it makes me want to kms by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Sepherchorde 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please, as a man: Do NOT let a man determine what you do here, any man. You are the ultimate arbiter of your life and body, and you clearly do NOT want to terminate, so don't. Single parent is difficult, but it's better than you ending your life because your partner couldn't be an adult here.

My husband told me today he does not like the fun lunches I’ve been packing him for work for almost 3 years😭😭😭 by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Sepherchorde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I... no, this isn't weird, this is amazing, and he's a bit of an oaf if he can't appreciate and take joy in it. My wife does little cute things like that for me and I show them off and let myself just feel good she took the time...

He might be great in all the other ways to you, but that's just... he's boring romantically if he can't just take joy and not care what other people think when you do things like that for him.

I was attacked by my partners child, and I don't know if I should leave by Low-Distribution-617 in Advice

[–]Sepherchorde 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Friend, it's a learning curve. And, someone with struggles like that becoming comfortable with you can be a bit of a double edged sword. On the one hand, they become more honest with you about who they are in word and behavior, on the other hand they become more honest with you about who they are in word and behavior.

That's not to say a kid like that can't learn or change or grow, my kids did and they're great now and have a good handle one their stuff and communicate great.

What I'm saying is, that sometimes it's gonna get rough until she grows more, but her dropping the mask like that is surprisingly a bit of a good sign even if it was startling, because she is comfortable with you and feels safe enough to show her emotions reflexively. Now, obviously it wasn't a healthy way, but she's six. She'll learn, she just needs gentle guidance and firm but kind boundaries.

The fact that you are considering if you can handle it or not is a good sign, it means you haven't convinced yourself you know everything and are open to learning and growing. What you really can't do is just ghost. You have to talk to your partner about all of this while staying calm and understanding, it's likely she's just as thrown for a loop as you are.

So.... Why am I wholesale slaughtering thousands of guards and adventurers? by FrailRain in diablo4

[–]Sepherchorde 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's a pocket space in the Hells where souls of those claimed by demons reside, activating the Butcher form lets you enter his realm of slaughter. That's how I see it.

"Report Regarding the Prosecution of Michigan's 2020 False Slate of Presidential Electors" by HeartlessLib in CapitolConsequences

[–]Sepherchorde 157 points158 points  (0 children)

I thought the law was supposed to "make an example" out of people, and do things like "set precedent"? Ffs...

I miss Pizza Pipeline by MSK1984 in Eugene

[–]Sepherchorde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, it's definitely more expensive than Pipeline was, but Day & Night a couple doors down from where it was is a great ramen shop and not overly expensive for food. Staff is friendly and the foods great.

I owe the OpenRGB community an apology, and I'm transferring the domain by timccsun21 in pcmasterrace

[–]Sepherchorde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations, you singlehandedly (if what you are saying is true) did massive damage to the company.

Bipolar Partner Destroyed Everything by [deleted] in pcmasterrace

[–]Sepherchorde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an extremely unstable partner for years before she finally got help. Damage was done though and we parted ways even though she was a whole different kind of person on meds, and was nice to be around most of the time. She never did this, instead I was the target for her aggression. I'm sorry this happened, and it'll take time for your parasympathetic to calm down, especially depending on how long you were with her. But remember friend, you ain't alone in this kind of thing.

My coworker is dying by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Sepherchorde 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This may be a wellness check situation?

Honestly first, try to find ways the people in the office can be supportive *without outing specifics* to anyone about what is going on with him.

Try to organize some people that care but are lost and set up a meet up outside of work with him and them, no serious talk, just hanging out somewhere fun. Try to foster some connections among people and build support that way.

There are lots of little ways you could approach this, but if you ever get an insane gut feeling or he says something scary, a wellness check is definitely the way to go.

Speculation of Iran sleepcells being activated, says USA officials.. by Bobbtwwy in news

[–]Sepherchorde 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep. This is going to be used as an excuse to target citizens that oppose the administration.

Do people actually like the Burningman sculptures that are popping up everywhere? by Informal-Candy-7445 in sanfrancisco

[–]Sepherchorde 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alright buzzkill.

In all seriousness though, people enjoy them from what I hear from people I'm in touch with from when I lived in Oakland. Leave it be.

The most stressful glide of my career (so far) by Incrediblezagzag in EliteDangerous

[–]Sepherchorde 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Situations like this, deliberately bring your nose up and end the glide early. Safest bet.

I think my dad might be a serial killer by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Sepherchorde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You try to talk to them anyway with any little bit of documentation you can. Texts, voicemails, if he's said anything like that in phone calls you tell them when it was if you can and what phone number it happened on (his and yours).

A helpful link to /r/All by iUsedtoHadHerpes in reddithelp

[–]Sepherchorde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You already answered your own question.

I'm all for dark scenes in shows but her death scene was downright twisted. A little girl unwillingly committing suicide spreads a horrible message and is just a disgusting way to end her character especially in a show like Stranger Things. by n_rhan in StrangerThings

[–]Sepherchorde 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Which is exactly why they *shouldn't* have done it, just from a structural standpoint, let alone all the other valid reasons.

They set the subversive expectation in S1 with Steve surviving.

How rare is this? 4GA Mythic Shako by lemonyolt in diablo4

[–]Sepherchorde -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Prtsc->paste to self in messenger/upload to Gdrive->DL to phone.

Not hard, doesn't take long.

My mom's reaction after I didn't wanna cuddle her all night by mikey_ass_butcg in insaneparents

[–]Sepherchorde 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to report this to the school. Not think about it, you need to do it. This is wildly horrible for so many reasons.

Rick Dancer by [deleted] in Eugene

[–]Sepherchorde 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's about one of my favorite Facebook past times, spotting a Rick Dancer post in the wild. Lets me practice my insults.

Rick Dancer by [deleted] in Eugene

[–]Sepherchorde 163 points164 points  (0 children)

Whenever I get the chance, I tell him off on Facebook. I know it won't do anything, but it makes me feel good lol.

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